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00:00We walk hand-in-hand, we dream together We giggle and laugh like kids forever
00:12We're two different people, but we're having fun
00:16We talk about anything under the sun We are sisters, we are friends
00:23We've got magic that never ends
00:27I got you sis, you got me
00:31The best of friends we'll always, always be
00:39We always have fun being together
00:42You know me the best, we're friends forever
00:46Through good times and bad, I'm here for you sis
00:50Right by your side, hit or miss
00:53We are sisters, we are friends
00:57We've got magic that never ends
01:01I got you sis, you got me
01:05The best of friends, the best of friends
01:09The best of friends we'll always, always be
01:13We are sisters, we are sisters
01:24Good morning!
01:25Good morning!
01:26You know, we've heard a lot about the issue of separation
01:31or parents' mistakes
01:33Sometimes it's good for a couple
01:36because there's nothing more to do in a relationship
01:40especially if there's a third party involved
01:43The last resort or the best thing that they could do is to
01:49Part ways
01:50Part ways
01:51Not just for them, but also for the children
01:54so that there's harmony in the house
01:56But nevertheless, this is painful both for the parents
02:00and for the children
02:01Especially for the children
02:02Especially for the children
02:03Actually, since we're talking about the children
02:06We have someone here with us in the audience
02:08Raymaline Dawisa
02:15Hi Raymaline!
02:16Hello Raymaline
02:17You were only three years old when, how do I say this,
02:22when daddy got separated
02:26What happened? How did this happen?
02:30My mom married someone else
02:34After they got separated, she married someone else
02:38So they have their own families now
02:40But how do you feel about your daddy?
02:43Now?
02:47I miss him
02:48You miss him?
02:49Don't you see him?
02:54Well, that's what happens when parents get separated
03:01But if you're going to give birth, do you want to see him again?
03:05Yes
03:06Your daddy might be watching, you might want to tell him
03:11Right?
03:18Okay, he knows that if he's watching
03:22Your son wants to see you
03:26He misses you
03:28We're happy now
03:30You're smiling again
03:31Your clip is still flowery
03:33Right? It's still beautiful
03:36Okay, just say hi to your daddy
03:39Is it true?
03:41Am I the father?
03:43Am I the father?
03:47I'm the sister
03:49Just say hi to your dad
03:51Just say hi to your daddy
03:53Hello, papa
03:55I hope you're doing well
04:00Thank you, thank you very much
04:04Wow, what can I say?
04:06This episode will go down in my sinuses
04:10This will really go down in my sinuses
04:14It's too early, Denise
04:16I don't know what to do
04:18Tissue?
04:20Okay, let's start
04:22Well, that's what we're going to talk about today
04:24We're going to talk to someone who's only 6 years old
04:27Her daddy confessed that he's in a relationship outside of their family
04:31Rita Magdalena
04:33Good morning, Paul
04:35Good morning to all of you
04:40She's only 18 years old
04:42She confessed that her daddy is in a relationship
04:44Kierly Gaspi
04:46Yes, good morning
04:48Doty, where did we play today?
04:52It's hot outside
04:54Ah, summer
04:56Okay, fine
04:58Okay, she's only 12 years old
05:00Her daddy's mom is Carla Estrada
05:04Hello, good morning
05:06It's nice to be back
05:08Seriously, where's Carla?
05:10I don't think it suits you
05:15She caught her daddy in a movie
05:18Then after a year, her daddy confessed
05:21Bianca Lapos
05:22Hello, good morning
05:28This episode is dedicated to all the children who still respect and love their parents
05:35Even if they were beaten up
05:37We will talk about all of this when we return with SIS
06:08How does it feel to see one of your parents
06:12Or to know that one of your parents
06:15Is a leftist or does something different
06:19Our guests today are here to encourage you
06:23Because they were able to overcome these things
06:27Okay, let's start
06:29Don't laugh at me, Carla
06:32What was your reaction
06:34When you found out that your parents were doing something wrong
06:40Ma'am, it's like you don't want to talk about it
06:42No, because I was still young
06:45So what I saw when I was 80 years old
06:48I saw the pain
06:51They fought
06:54So when my father left the house
06:57It was really quiet
06:59So I wanted him to leave
07:02Instead of fighting
07:04That's why it's true
07:06It should be quieter
07:10If you don't fight anymore
07:12It's quieter if one of you leave
07:14For the children
07:16Because normally they say
07:18To save the relationship
07:20It's normal for children
07:22But if it's not like
07:24Like what I experienced
07:26When I woke up in the morning
07:28It's like that
07:30It's so ugly
07:32How about you, Kier?
07:34For me
07:36We were still young
07:38But we heard
07:40When we were young
07:42So we didn't think
07:44That my father is doing something wrong
07:46Nothing
07:48We just heard
07:50You found out at 18 years old
07:52Is it easier for you to accept at 18 years old?
07:54Because of course
07:56You have your own thoughts
07:58You have your own wisdom
08:00Was it easier or
08:02It doesn't matter
08:04From Chicago
08:06Zoran and my father came home first
08:08Then I followed
08:10And then after a few months
08:12I heard that my mother is coming
08:14Before my mother came
08:16My father left our house
08:18But our communication
08:20Is still continuous
08:22So as a father
08:24He did his obligation
08:26So your mother didn't
08:28Blame you
08:32How about you, Rita?
08:34When they separated
08:36You were still young
08:38Yes, I was still young
08:40I didn't see
08:42You don't remember
08:44But I remember
08:46That my mother
08:48Picked up a girl
08:50And she was carrying
08:52A slipper
08:54I was at home
08:56That's when I realized
08:58That my father is cheating
09:00After that
09:02I was still young
09:04I didn't want trouble
09:06I wanted to be quiet
09:08Of course when you're young
09:10You just play
09:12But when you get home
09:14You start fighting
09:16My mother has a different way of thinking
09:18My mother is very liberated
09:20She wants this, she wants that
09:22At that time
09:24My father didn't have a job
09:26There was a lot of chaos
09:28World War
09:30So my father decided
09:32To leave
09:34How did he feel when he left?
09:36Nothing
09:38My mother just told him
09:40That my father is going to Manila
09:42To work
09:44After that, he didn't go home
09:46Only sometimes
09:48Because when you're younger
09:50It's hard to explain
09:52Because you'll get confused
09:54You won't understand
09:56I understood when I was 12
09:58Oh, okay
10:00When my father got married
10:02Oh, they're gone
10:04Oh, that's when
10:06When I asked my grandmothers
10:08When is Papa going home?
10:10Oh, he's not going home
10:12Then one day
10:14My father brought
10:16His wife
10:18His wife
10:20Then they're going to get married
10:22Oh, they can't
10:24Get married
10:26See you
10:28Good luck
10:30Bianca, when you saw your father in the cinema
10:32What was your initial reaction?
10:34Because
10:36My mother was shocked
10:38It was like my father's anonymous
10:40Your father's anonymous
10:42There were kids
10:44So we didn't know
10:46It was painful
10:48Because our family
10:50Was intact
10:52A happy family
10:54My father was my super idol
10:56Because every breakfast
10:58He'd be there
11:00Even if he's late for a meeting
11:02We were shocked
11:04I was puberty age
11:0611 or 12
11:08So we were shocked
11:10My father
11:12Was with another family
11:14So
11:16My mom stood up
11:18And my mother was a wrestler
11:20So she tied her hair
11:22And she hit the tree
11:24So the audience
11:26Only watched us
11:28Until we fell down
11:30Did you think
11:32This would happen?
11:34Did you see it coming?
11:36Especially you, you're 18
11:38You saw it coming
11:40Uhm
11:42Suddenly
11:44I didn't see them anymore
11:46Then
11:48I just found out
11:50That he's with someone else
11:52And
11:54I was surprised
11:56My father's smart
11:58But he didn't think
12:00That
12:02He's using someone else
12:04That's all
12:06So for me
12:08They separated
12:10But it's okay
12:12My father didn't forget us
12:14But I don't think
12:16I can accept
12:18That he'll have a child
12:20I don't know why
12:22Even up to now?
12:24But you know
12:26I wish we were 4 siblings
12:28That's all
12:30We're different
12:32That's why it hurts
12:34Because my mom
12:36Whenever we meet
12:38A half-sister
12:40My dad didn't have a son
12:42She accepted all
12:44Of my half-sisters
12:46She lived us in a house
12:48So we're all close
12:50Because she said
12:52There's nothing wrong with kids
12:54So she taught them
12:56She treated my half-sisters like her own
12:58Then
13:00They still ended up
13:02Separating
13:04It's sad
13:06But we're okay
13:08All of my half-sisters
13:10We're all close
13:12It's a good thing
13:14Everything's okay
13:16Let's go back
13:18How do you explain
13:20To your parents
13:22At that time
13:24They understood
13:26And accepted
13:28We'll learn more from our guest
13:30And their stories
13:32Always
13:34We are sisters
13:36We are brothers
13:38Magic could never end
13:42Without you sis
13:44Always, always be
13:46We are sisters
13:48We are sisters
13:54Of course, I have something to say
13:56When you found out
13:58What was your reaction?
14:00Did it have a side effect?
14:02Because of course, those were growing years
14:06You're not yet
14:08Mature
14:10Your thinking was different
14:14For me, nothing
14:16Because I didn't think about it
14:18But when I thought about it
14:20It's better
14:22That my dad married
14:24Someone else
14:26Because I think they're happier
14:28When we're together
14:30Their bonding is better
14:32Than my mom
14:34I think it's better
14:36When you're still young
14:38When you're not that old
14:40Because when we were together
14:42We had a lot of siblings
14:44And we were all together
14:48From when I was 12
14:50To when I was 18
14:52He left
14:54All of us siblings
14:56He was always following us
14:58While we were carrying our stuff
15:02My mom was just in the room
15:04Crying
15:06Like she can't stand seeing my dad
15:08Leaving us
15:10At that time
15:12Our ages
15:1415, 12, 10
15:16Our needs
15:18And
15:20We were so close
15:22To our dad
15:24When he left
15:26Our grades
15:28Were falling
15:32We were about to
15:34Kick out
15:36My siblings
15:38Learned from him
15:40And
15:42I
15:44Got pregnant
15:48We were so emotional
15:50What about you, Kier?
15:52Because
15:54Your husband is a woman
15:56How about a man?
15:58You're a man, you know that
16:00I think
16:02When it's a girl
16:04It's more emotional
16:06Because we're four men
16:08And then
16:10Do you feel like
16:12It's easier to understand
16:14Because you're men?
16:16And then
16:18We didn't feel
16:20That our dad left us
16:22That's the best part
16:24Of what happened
16:26My understanding
16:28Is that my mom can't understand them
16:30That's it
16:32But you're okay
16:34But my brother
16:36Became a loner
16:38He doesn't want to
16:40Go out
16:42With other kids
16:44Because
16:46Maybe
16:48Others have a dad
16:50But he's always at home
16:52How about you, Carla?
16:54What effect did it have on you?
16:56In my case
16:58My dad passed away when I was 8
17:00And I grew up with my stepdad
17:02At first
17:04I wanted to know
17:06Where my real dad is
17:08So I found out that he's in America
17:10And he passed away when I was a baby
17:12So I understood my stepfather
17:14Because
17:16When he explained to me
17:18When I was 12, he told me
17:20If I'm the next one
17:22I won't leave the house
17:24But it was your mom's decision
17:26To let me leave
17:28Your stepfather and your mother
17:30Separated
17:32But my stepfather is the one I raised
17:34So when he explained to me
17:36He's not that heavy
17:38I don't know
17:40Maybe that's my personality
17:42That I can handle
17:44It's so hard
17:46When you grow up without a father
17:48Especially with women
17:50When you don't see your father figure
17:52It's so hard
17:54For those people
17:56Who know what really happened
17:58They'll have a different opinion
18:00About your dad
18:02And of course
18:04You'll know and feel it
18:06Did you feel ashamed
18:08For your dad?
18:10In spite of your being a man
18:12That somehow
18:14You understand what really happened
18:18Sometimes it hurts
18:20When people jokingly say
18:22Your dad is a woman
18:24They don't know
18:26Who Little Gatsby really is
18:28That's it
18:30They don't know
18:32But I'm just quiet
18:34When they say
18:36Your dad is a woman
18:38That's my love
18:40You don't know
18:42That's it
18:44Maybe it's not like
18:46Every family is separate
18:48It's just the boy's fault
18:50Of course it's not like that
18:52If you think about it
18:54There's a problem
18:56In the relationship
18:58That's why you have to leave
19:00How can you stay
19:02In one roof
19:04If you're not happy
19:06Your role as a wife
19:08Will be affected
19:10If you can't give it
19:12Do you have someone to blame?
19:14I don't
19:16Bianca?
19:18At first
19:20Of course
19:22My dad
19:24My dad
19:26At first
19:28But
19:30When I remember
19:32All the good things
19:34He did for us
19:36Eventually
19:38He took us
19:40He didn't
19:42Leave us
19:44He supported us
19:46He took us
19:48Because we were really close
19:50It hurts
19:52Whenever people
19:54Compare
19:56How's your girl?
19:58They feel
20:00Macho
20:02For me
20:04It's not a joke
20:06It hurts
20:08Because I know
20:10My dad didn't want to
20:12Leave us also
20:14Instead of seeing
20:16Flying saucers
20:18On our plates
20:20It hurts
20:22What was his reaction
20:24When you wrote him a letter?
20:26It's a way of confronting him
20:28I couldn't
20:30It's not confrontational
20:32So I always write
20:34What was your reaction after reading that letter?
20:36He talked to me
20:38We went to the park
20:40I don't remember
20:42But
20:44We went to the park
20:46He talked to us
20:48He explained why he had to leave us
20:50And then
20:52I forced him
20:54To grow up
20:56Even though I was still young
21:00I was thinking
21:02That maybe
21:04It's the best way
21:06He said sorry
21:08He said
21:10He loved us
21:12No one can ever
21:14Replace us
21:16And he's proud to have children like us
21:18Something like that
21:24That day hurts
21:26I want to hug him
21:28That hug
21:30It's like
21:32Dad, can I hug you?
21:34And stay at home forever
21:36Don't leave
21:40It really hurts
21:44I really want a happy family
21:46It's really hard for us
21:48We were really too close
21:50To accept
21:52That he's leaving us
21:54You'll grow old
21:56You'll grow old
21:58Sometimes
22:00When they're angry
22:02At their parents
22:04They have a lot of questions
22:06Like we're the victims
22:08We're the victims
22:10Of what you did
22:12And that's what we'll talk about
22:14When Sis returns
22:27Always, always be
22:29We are sisters
22:31We are sisters
22:38A lot of people say
22:40Children suffer the most
22:42When their parents are separated
22:44Or when something like this happens
22:46Actually, because of this
22:48She became judgmental
22:50When it comes to relationships
22:52She became paranoid
22:54When it comes to her relationships
22:58It's like
23:00You're the first one
23:02Nothing happened
23:04You're the first one
23:06Paranoid is an easy word
23:08Because you're from there
23:10You're the product of a broken family
23:12So normally, that's what affects you
23:14It's like
23:16If you have a relationship
23:18It's like, maybe it's like my dad
23:20Wait
23:22When you're in doubt
23:24I'm the first one to leave
23:26Obviously, all of you
23:28When that happens
23:30Your parents are separated
23:34How does it
23:36How do you feel
23:38When people say you're from a broken home
23:40Does it affect you?
23:42Rita, you?
23:44I'm used to it
23:46When they say, is your family okay?
23:48No, they're separated
23:50Actually, it's normal
23:52My mom and dad are separated
23:54I'm used to it
23:56It's like, it's nothing
23:58What's different now
24:00When you're young, you're used to it
24:02So that became a way of life
24:04That's how it happened
24:06I'm not trying to explain
24:08That you're pitiful
24:10Because you're the product of a broken family
24:12Because we're still young
24:14And I saw that
24:16Even if our fathers are different
24:18We're still together
24:20We're not separated by our mothers
24:22So, I don't think
24:24That it's a big challenge
24:26For us
24:28To be the product of a broken family
24:30As long as
24:32You've grown up well
24:34You're not pitiful
24:36Well, there are some mistakes
24:38That you're trying to fix
24:40There's no problem
24:42As long as you know how to fix your mistakes
24:44For me
24:46For me, broken family
24:48Actually, I had
24:50Someone I courted
24:52And then
24:54Her parents called me
24:56And told me
24:58Why are you discarding
25:00Your broken family
25:04I want to
25:06Curse at her
25:08But I'm thinking
25:10If I answer that
25:12Maybe she'll tell her son
25:14Maybe she'll tell her son
25:16So, I answered
25:18I told Zorin
25:20Zorin called his parents
25:22Zorin scolded him
25:24And then his parents called
25:26And apologized
25:28Of course, sometimes
25:30The pain you feel
25:32Is expressed
25:34But more often
25:36It's like you're in pain
25:38Were you verbal?
25:40Did you say something?
25:42Did you tell your friends that it's painful?
25:44For us
25:46Well, in my opinion
25:48There's no hurt
25:50I don't
25:54I don't feel pain
25:56What I always remember
25:58When it comes to my dad
26:00We carried four kids
26:02At the same time
26:04He carried you four kids at the same time?
26:06When we were kids
26:08So, you remember the good memories?
26:10They were separated
26:12Did you ever hear that your mom and dad fought?
26:14Actually, I saw them
26:16Once in Chicago
26:18But I don't know the reason
26:20And then now
26:22We're adults
26:24We laugh
26:26When we talk
26:28Because what my dad used to do
26:30He already did
26:32We know that
26:34But when we were kids, I was with him
26:36Oh, that's why
26:38My siblings and I
26:40Laughed
26:42What about Rita?
26:44For us
26:46My mom told me
26:48Whatever our problem is
26:50Inside the house
26:52Just stay there
26:54Don't go out
26:56If you have a problem
26:58Talk to me
27:00If you have a problem
27:02Come to me
27:04I'll tell you the answer
27:06There's no chance
27:08That I'll tell Fred
27:10That I have a problem
27:12Because every time
27:14There's a problem
27:16You're open to talk
27:18It's not like
27:20You're not allowed to talk
27:22Me too
27:24Even my dad
27:26If we have problems
27:28Because our relationship
27:30Came back
27:32He didn't turn his back on us
27:34But
27:36Whenever there's a problem
27:38We usually
27:40Talk to each other
27:42Before we ask them
27:44For help
27:46Because
27:48Whenever they see each other
27:50They still fight
27:52Like you said earlier
27:54Your grades were dropping
27:56And you were kicked out of school
27:58Do you think it was part of a rebellion?
28:00Yes
28:02But for a lot of us
28:04We had different reactions
28:06Some of us
28:08Strive harder
28:10Because
28:12Daddy's not here anymore
28:14I'm going to make it good
28:16I'm going to be on top of
28:18My class
28:20I'm going to be famous someday
28:22Actually that's what
28:24Forced me to be an artist
28:26I was like
28:28Inspired by others
28:30Maybe we'd get our dad back
28:32If we're like this
28:34If we're achievers
28:36If we're
28:38We have our own goals
28:40So that
28:42Daddy can come back
28:44There's positive and negative
28:46You'll be noticed, you'll commit suicide
28:48I have a sibling like that
28:50So that
28:52Daddy can come back
28:54Some will leave
28:56Like for you
28:58Did you accept
29:00That your dad has a different family now?
29:02Well for
29:04Kier, your dad doesn't have a different family
29:06He also said that he'll have a hard time
29:08I'll have a hard time
29:10I don't know about my other siblings
29:12But for me
29:14I don't know, maybe I can't accept
29:16Really?
29:18You accepted everything but
29:20I don't know, it's like a baduy
29:22Right?
29:24It's like a baduy
29:26Actually for me, I'm not used to it
29:28I'm used to four of us
29:30Finished?
29:32Bianca
29:34She's still with you
29:36Yes
29:38But
29:40We see each other
29:42Sometimes we go to our dad's house
29:44But
29:46We really have
29:48A really
29:50Thick gate
29:52So that
29:54He's very
29:56Friendly
29:58With us
30:00But
30:02Others
30:04Can accept a stepmother
30:06But for us, we can't
30:08Carla
30:10I was young
30:12So I'm used to
30:14Losing my dad by my side
30:18Sometimes it's easier
30:20To accept when you're young
30:22When you're used to it
30:24And as I grew up
30:26I didn't become a rebel
30:28Like a
30:30Rebellious
30:32I thought
30:34Someday
30:36I'll prove to myself
30:38The situation that happened to them
30:40It made me stronger
30:42It made me a better person
30:46Behind the pain
30:48Comes the time of forgiveness
30:50How they forgave
30:52And accepted the wrongdoings
30:54Of their parents
30:56We'll find out in the next episode
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31:56How's this?
31:58Nothing
32:00I have a lot to ask
32:02Just ask
32:04Be careful, Jenny
32:06It's okay, I'll ask you
32:08Did you tell your kids?
32:12How did you tell them?
32:14Like what Dr. Arawadjo said
32:16You can't
32:18You can't hide the truth from your children
32:20You have to immediately tell them what is happening
32:22Because
32:24That way, they'll be healed
32:26They'll be accepted
32:28The acceptance has to come in immediately
32:30So that they will heal
32:32Because if you're always hiding
32:34If you're always trying to fix something
32:36To begin with, it's not good
32:38What do you feel
32:40Earlier when
32:42Bianca was talking
32:44She was gone for a few years
32:46What do you feel
32:48Did you foresee
32:50The reaction of the kids
32:52Or the reaction of the kids
32:54To what happened
32:56Did you have fear
32:58Or whatever
33:00When you saw what happened to her
33:02You can't
33:04Get rid of the fear
33:06Like I said, that's why I asked Dr. Arawadjo
33:08Will their sense of family be corrupted
33:10What's important
33:12I don't want it to be corrupted
33:14I don't want them to think that their family is corrupt
33:16I don't want them to grow up
33:18And they have children of their own
33:20They will put up this wall of defense
33:22And think that it's okay
33:24That their parents are separating
33:26But you see, you can't
33:28Also pretend
33:30That everything is perfect
33:32Because the sense of perfection
33:34Of the children
33:36Should not come from what other people say
33:38Or what has to be
33:40What other people want
33:42But from what they know is real
33:44And like Dr. Arawadjo said
33:46Be honest with your children
33:48Because truth delayed
33:50Is truth denied
33:52In the long run
33:54Even if you tell them that they will grow up
33:56It's harder to heal
33:58She was right
34:00Who left their parents
34:02That will really guide
34:04And help them to heal
34:06Because the recovery of the children
34:08Will depend on how the parents recover
34:10If they see that you are fine
34:12You're up and about
34:14And you are okay
34:16They will be fine
34:18What is it?
34:20What did we do?
34:22Am I an expert?
34:26Let's just say
34:28Of course there's always two sides to a coin
34:30They say
34:32It's not just because
34:34A man wants it to happen
34:36He also has other things
34:38That he's looking for
34:42Can you give some advice?
34:44I'm sure there are a lot of troubled
34:46Wives and mothers watching
34:48You've been there
34:50It's not that you're the expert
34:52But since you're going through this
34:54What can you tell them?
34:56What do you think you can
34:58Tell them
35:00To save whatever they have
35:02To make their lives better
35:04I think
35:06Number one is to
35:08Communicate
35:10Whatever it is that you really feel
35:12What's happening
35:14What do you want
35:16You don't like what's happening
35:18Because that is what's important
35:20I believe that
35:22It really does take two to tango
35:26It happens because
35:28There's a precedent
35:30Sometimes also you have to look at
35:32Other reasons
35:34Why you married
35:36Or why he is looking
35:38Somewhere else
35:40If there is any other reason
35:42Aside from love
35:44It's hard to
35:46Make it last
35:48I hope
35:50You learned something
35:52We learned a lot
35:54We felt a lot
35:56My sinus hurts
35:58Thank you
36:00Thank you for joining us today
36:02We'll see you again
36:04Of course here at
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