How to know if you have had an orgasm? | Answers Pallavi Barnwal
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00:00Namaste, I am Pallavi Banwar, I am a sex educator
00:04and in this video I will tell you how women can know if they have orgasm or not.
00:10There are a lot of theories about female orgasm or there is a lot of confusion about how female orgasm comes.
00:19Because for men it is a little simplified that they have an ejaculation,
00:24so orgasm is an external response.
00:27But for a female, an orgasm is internal.
00:30So how can we know if orgasm has come or not?
00:38Orgasm is not a uniform type that all women get the same type of orgasm.
00:45For every woman, orgasm is different.
00:48In fact, it is not necessary for every woman to have the same experience at the time of orgasm.
00:59So let's move ahead and know some physiological reasons,
01:03i.e. what changes can happen in the body so that you know if you have orgasm or not.
01:101. Involuntary contractions in your vagina and rectum.
01:16So what happens in this is that your muscles are contracting like this and you are not putting any effort.
01:22This is a sure sign that you have orgasm.
01:27But as I said before, it is not necessary that everyone has contractions,
01:34only when all women have contractions around their vagina and rectum will they have orgasm.
01:402. A kind of sensitivity and a feeling that you have to stop now,
01:47now you don't feel like having sex.
01:49Now you are getting intimate with your partner and suddenly you feel that enough is enough.
01:56That too can be a sign that you have orgasm.
02:003. Clitoris contraction.
02:03Many women feel that contraction and stimulation on their clitoris.
02:09As I said before, that contraction and stimulation is felt near the vagina and rectum.
02:15Many women feel that sensation and stimulation near their clitoris.
02:20That too can be an orgasm.
02:224. Sex flush.
02:28Sex flush is not like a rash on your skin,
02:33but it is a slight redness or pinkish color that you will feel on your chest, cheeks, face.
02:40You will feel a slight redness.
02:42Like if you go to the gym and do a lot of workouts,
02:48then you feel a redness in your body.
02:51Or sometimes you get embarrassed and start blushing,
02:55that too can be a sign that you have orgasm.
02:595. Goosebumps.
03:086. Heart rate increases.
03:137. Breathing pattern changes.
03:16Sometimes it can be slow and deep breath or fast and shallow breath.
03:22Breathing pattern also varies.
03:24It is not that the breathing pattern can be the same.
03:29It is not necessary that the breathing pattern can be slow and deep,
03:33it can be fast and shallow.
03:36I would like to talk about squirting.
03:38Because I get a lot of such queries.
03:40Where male partners ask how to make their female partner squirt.
03:44They feel that squirting means orgasm.
03:48Squirting means female ejaculation.
03:50Where a female ejaculates a liquid like a male.
03:56But squirting and orgasm are two different processes.
04:01It is also possible that a woman squirts and she does not get orgasm.
04:05It is also possible that a woman squirts and she does not get orgasm.
04:08Pay attention to your pleasure.
04:11Do not turn to make your partner happy.
04:14You can express your pleasure in many ways.
04:17It is not necessary that you have to make a fake noise.
04:21If you like to make noise, then make it.
04:24I will do this so that my partner believes that I have orgasm.
04:29This is a lie and we should not do this.
04:33Avoid this expectation.
04:36As I said in this video, there can be many types of orgasms.
04:40Everyone's orgasm is unique.
04:47Thank you for joining us.