Aired (August 30, 2024): Matapos ang tatlong failed relationship ng single mom na si Sharmaine, magiging successful na kaya ang pang-apat niyang pagsubok sa pag-ibig?
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00:00So come on, let's open the telons.
00:04Yes, we're excited to meet him, that's why we're charming.
00:09It's time to meet our searchies.
00:11Let's meet searchie number 1, reveal!
00:17What's up, madlam people!
00:18I'm J, 35 years old, the single uncle of Kyapo Manila.
00:24Single uncle, so you have a lot of nephews.
00:26Yes, ma'am.
00:27You're their favorite uncle.
00:29Yes, ma'am, especially during Christmas.
00:32He's fond of kids.
00:34How long have you been single, J?
00:355 years, ma'am.
00:375 years.
00:38How old were you and your last ex?
00:40We were M.U.
00:43So you had a girlfriend?
00:45Yes, ma'am.
00:46How many?
00:473.
00:48They were just M.U. last time.
00:50Yes, ma'am.
00:51It didn't last long.
00:54J, do you have a pick-up line?
00:56Yes, ma'am.
00:57Charmaine, are you a solid show-timer?
01:00Why?
01:01Because I want you to be with your family forever.
01:08That's different.
01:09That's a good thing.
01:12Partnership.
01:15We're 50-50, that's a good thing.
01:18Thank you, J.
01:20And now, let's meet searchie number 2, reveal!
01:28What's up, madlam people?
01:30My name is Victor, 31 years old.
01:32Fitness trainer from Las Penas City.
01:35Single.
01:37Victor.
01:39Gym instructor?
01:41Yes, ma'am.
01:42Wow.
01:44What's your nationality?
01:46I'm from Nigeria, West Africa.
01:48Nigeria.
01:49Yes, ma'am.
01:50Do you speak Tagalog?
01:51Just a little.
01:53How long have you been here in the Philippines?
01:56What?
01:57How many years?
02:00How long have you been here?
02:017 years in the Philippines.
02:027 years, ma'am.
02:03How long have you been living here?
02:047 years, ma'am.
02:057 years.
02:06Yes, ma'am.
02:07So, did you have a Filipino girlfriend already?
02:11I have before, but not anymore.
02:13Not anymore.
02:14You're single now.
02:15Yes, ma'am.
02:16I'm single.
02:18I want to have abs.
02:20What do you think exercise do I have to do?
02:24I have to watch what you eat because it's very important to watch.
02:29Watch your eat.
02:30I mean, not watch.
02:31Watch.
02:32To take care of your meal plan and also your food.
02:36The diet.
02:37The diet plan.
02:38And also like some workout programs like that for abs workout.
02:41Oh.
02:42Yes, ma'am.
02:43That's how I know people who are on a diet.
02:45Yes, ma'am.
02:46They're on a diet.
02:47Why did the gym instructor say, watch what you eat?
02:51So, they're not eating, they're watching.
02:53Watch what you eat.
02:54Watch what you eat.
02:56You're so skinny.
02:57I'm skinny.
02:58Yes, but I can't lift heavy weights.
03:02They're weak.
03:03They're weak.
03:05Okay, Victor, do you have a pick-up line for Charmaine?
03:08Yes.
03:09Charmaine, do you have a map?
03:11Why?
03:12Because I keep getting lost in your eyes.
03:17Good job.
03:19Lost in your eyes.
03:21Thank you, Victor.
03:22Thank you, Paul.
03:23Searching number three revealed.
03:28What's up, Madlang people?
03:30I'm Gil, 33 years old, the training manager of Quezon City.
03:35Hello, Gil.
03:36Yeah.
03:37Hi, Bella.
03:38Hi.
03:39What's up?
03:40Is your name Nikki?
03:42Nikki Hill?
03:43Her name is Chocolate.
03:45Chocolate Hill?
03:48Is it Hill or Gil?
03:49Actually, Gil.
03:50Gil.
03:51Thank you, Bella, for clarifying.
03:52For Gilbert?
03:53Gilbert.
03:55For Gilagit.
03:56Are we okay?
03:58Oh, my God.
04:00Why am I asking Gil?
04:01Gil, Gil.
04:03My dad's name is Gilbert.
04:05My dad wanted me to be a junior, but my mom didn't want me to.
04:08So I got Gil.
04:12Okay, I'll give it to you, but it's not complete.
04:15It's just Abbe.
04:17But it's hard because you always have to correct the names.
04:20Because most of the time, you'll be called Hill.
04:22Actually, that's what happened in my whole school life.
04:25So after college, I only used Ken.
04:27Look at how the kids are making fun of the name you're giving them.
04:31Because I have a second name, Kenet.
04:33So I use Ken.
04:35You don't want to be Ken?
04:36I can be Ken, too.
04:37Do you want to change?
04:39Why not just Net?
04:40Net.
04:41Like when you have a boyfriend.
04:42Who are you?
04:43I'm your net-net.
04:47I'm your net-net.
04:48Actually, it's okay.
04:49I'm your net-net, too.
04:51What do you do in life, Gil?
04:52I work.
04:53You should.
04:55Congrats, Gil.
04:56What do you do?
04:57I'm a training manager in a company.
05:00Christian told me not to say it.
05:03Thank you, Christian.
05:05Sorry, it's a technology.
05:06He's angry.
05:07Why? Is it a TV pipe?
05:13Why? It's a TV pipe.
05:14You're a GMA.
05:16Our company is a technology start-up based in New York.
05:19So we help restaurants scale their operations.
05:22You didn't say anything.
05:23You're so arrogant.
05:26You asked him.
05:27It was just a joke.
05:29Yes.
05:32Pick up line to Charmaine.
05:33Charmaine.
05:35Charmaine.
05:36Pay attention to me.
05:37Charmaine.
05:38Hi.
05:39Are you with someone?
05:41Why?
05:42Let her go home.
05:43I'll go with you.
05:44You're going to leave me?
05:45I've been talking to you for a long time.
05:48Do you want to go home?
05:50I want to say something.
05:51The world is so big to Danica.
05:54I'm sorry, Danica.
05:55We're here for you.
05:57She's going home.
05:59What did you say, Danica?
06:00Gil wants you to go home.
06:02You go first.
06:05She'll help him.
06:07You'll be left behind by her brother.
06:10Okay.
06:12Charmaine has already talked to our boys.
06:18What's your first song?
06:20This is your first song gig.
06:22First question.
06:24In your opinion,
06:25is it difficult for solo parents
06:28to find a new love?
06:34Difficult?
06:35Is there a disadvantage?
06:36Is there a disadvantage
06:38if you're a solo parent
06:39in finding a new love?
06:41Does it mean that
06:43your chances are smaller?
06:46Jay?
06:47Being a solo parent
06:48has never been difficult.
06:50Actually, I've heard
06:51about his experience.
06:53He's been through a lot.
06:55He has two children.
06:57As they say,
06:58children are a gift from God.
07:00So, it has never been difficult.
07:03Thank you, Jay.
07:04Jay is so positive.
07:05Yes.
07:06He's smiling.
07:07He's happy.
07:09It's like his mother
07:10is sending a response to her child.
07:14Victor?
07:15Yes.
07:16Is it a disadvantage?
07:17The question is yes.
07:19Is it a disadvantage
07:21for a single parent
07:23to date?
07:24Okay.
07:25First of all,
07:26I believe that
07:27there is advantage and disadvantage
07:29in everything in this world.
07:32But I'm not going to talk about
07:33the disadvantage
07:34because it's irrelevant, right?
07:36So, for example,
07:37there are a lot of guys
07:39who are willing to do anything
07:42to be with a single parent
07:45as long as the kid
07:46or the kids
07:47are willing to take him
07:48as a father figure.
07:50Someone like me,
07:51I know that I'm a father figure, right?
07:53So, I don't mind
07:56because kids are a gift from God,
07:58like what my friend said.
08:00Thank you, Victor.
08:01Thank you very much.
08:02Very well said.
08:04So, what are your products?
08:07He didn't answer.
08:08This is networking.
08:09Because it's not like that.
08:10They're good at talking.
08:11You're going to convince me
08:12and at the end,
08:13they have a product.
08:15We're glued.
08:16No cash out.
08:19Gil?
08:21Okay, first of all,
08:22I agree with what Victor said.
08:24But aside from that,
08:25for me,
08:26it's not a disadvantage.
08:27First of all,
08:28having a child
08:29has nothing to do
08:30with having a family.
08:32Though it's a big factor.
08:34But for me,
08:35I want to look at the bright side.
08:37It's not a disadvantage.
08:39Actually,
08:40she has more to offer
08:41because she already has a child.
08:43It's hard to raise
08:44a new baby, right?
08:45But she raised him.
08:47She worked hard for him.
08:49I mean,
08:50the man who will love them,
08:53he will enter
08:54and will continue on
08:57who raised him
08:58well
09:00and for me,
09:01that's it.
09:02More of Llamado
09:03than Tejado for me.
09:05I think that's why
09:06he was asked.
09:07Because that's the reason
09:08why the last one
09:09didn't work.
09:11It would've been okay
09:12but not
09:13fully accepted.
09:15It's like,
09:16okay,
09:17he has a child
09:18but there's a part
09:19of his story
09:20that's not fully accepted.
09:21That's why he feels
09:23that's the reason.
09:26And frankly,
09:27in society,
09:28you can encounter
09:29something like that.
09:30It's okay
09:31because he already has a child.
09:32Yes.
09:33Right?
09:34Yes.
09:36For example,
09:37you introduce him to someone.
09:39He already has a child,
09:40right?
09:43That's why they feel
09:44that it's a disadvantage
09:45for them
09:46because there's an extra...
09:49Their title,
09:50not everyone
09:51appreciates
09:52that title.
09:54Being a parent,
09:55right?
09:56There are people
09:57who don't appreciate
09:58that title.
10:00But for the three of them,
10:01no,
10:02it's not a disadvantage.
10:03It's not a disadvantage.
10:05Danica,
10:06if you were to push
10:07a search key,
10:08who would it be?
10:09One, two, or three?
10:14Three.
10:15Who do you personally like?
10:16Number three.
10:17Number two.
10:18Number three.
10:19Number three.
10:20Number three.
10:21Number three.
10:22Number three.
10:23Number three.
10:24Number three.
10:25Number three.
10:26Number three.
10:27Danica said,
10:29will you accept her question
10:30or do you have
10:31a different heart?
10:32Charmaine,
10:33who's the green flag?
10:37Number three.
10:38Kill, too.
10:39Kill, too.
10:41Why?
10:43Because he said
10:44that it's not
10:46a disadvantage
10:47to have...
10:49Actually,
10:50they all said that.
10:51Yes,
10:52because that's also part of the body.
10:53The first one who said that
10:54was One.
10:55Then number two
10:56was confirmed by three.
10:57No,
10:58because he said
10:59that it's not a disadvantage.
11:01So, it's like...
11:02But I also said that.
11:03Why didn't I choose?
11:04I didn't get to say it.
11:05You didn't get to say it.
11:06I didn't get to say it.
11:08She doesn't like Granny Goose.
11:10She doesn't like Granny Goose.
11:12Congrats, Kill.
11:13You have a green flag.
11:14Yay!
11:15Charmaine,
11:16next question, please.
11:17Would you call your relationship
11:18serious
11:19if the marriage
11:20wasn't planned?
11:24Yes.
11:25Would you call your relationship
11:26serious
11:27if the marriage
11:28wasn't planned?
11:30Kill,
11:31let's start with number three.
11:32Would you consider
11:33a relationship
11:34serious
11:35if you're not talking
11:36about marriage?
11:37Is Kill speaking English?
11:38I thought...
11:39Kill,
11:40I'm sorry.
11:41It's Victor.
11:42Oh,
11:43he's with Speedbo.
11:47I thought it was Victor.
11:49You can call him here.
11:50He knows something.
11:52I don't know
11:53if I'm with him.
11:55We're on the same boat.
11:56He's also jetlagged.
11:58Maybe he used
11:59Banana Boat.
12:00Yes,
12:01we really flew.
12:02Victor is looking at me.
12:03He's also looking at me.
12:04Victor is looking at me.
12:08Hey,
12:09it's not for me.
12:10It's for Charmaine.
12:13But actually,
12:14it's okay.
12:15Victor is also looking at me.
12:17He said,
12:18why do men in the Philippines
12:19look like that?
12:21Why do men in the Philippines
12:22look like that?
12:24Yes, Kill.
12:25Actually, it's okay.
12:26I can answer in English
12:27if you prefer that.
12:30Back to you.
12:31That's why I didn't tell you
12:32where you work.
12:33You're arrogant.
12:36Just kidding.
12:37Go, Kill.
12:38You can answer
12:39in the way you like.
12:40English,
12:41Tagalog,
12:42whatever.
12:43Yes.
12:44Thank you very much.
12:45First of all,
12:46for me,
12:47it's not related
12:48to being serious
12:49when it comes to marriage.
12:51First of all,
12:52it's not related to each other.
12:53I think they're independent.
12:55I'm not saying
12:56that I'm against
12:57or for wedding.
12:59For me,
13:00it's not...
13:01It doesn't have to be
13:02one-on-one.
13:03You can be serious
13:04when you get married.
13:05You can also get married
13:06but you're not serious.
13:07But my own personal
13:08take on that
13:09is,
13:10for me,
13:11I prefer to get married
13:12because
13:14it's not...
13:16It's not the same
13:17as making your relationship
13:18stronger.
13:19But the public testament,
13:21the celebration
13:22with all the people
13:23you love,
13:24plus the legal implications
13:25that you're the one
13:26who has the right
13:27if whatever happens,
13:28blah, blah, blah,
13:29like that.
13:30Yeah, but my question is,
13:31is it okay to be serious
13:32even if you're not getting married?
13:33You're saying it's okay.
13:34Yes, it's okay.
13:35It's okay.
13:36Even if you're not...
13:37For example,
13:38the woman
13:39who doesn't want
13:40to get married,
13:41is that okay?
13:42I'm serious
13:43but I'm not getting married.
13:45For Kill,
13:46it's okay.
13:47It's possible.
13:48How about Jay?
13:49I believe that everyone...
13:50Oh, it's in English.
13:53You're so cute.
13:55I believe that
13:56all relationships
13:57should be directed
13:58towards marriage.
14:00But I believe
14:01that what's important
14:02is that God
14:03is in the center
14:04of the relationship
14:06and there's a love
14:07and respect
14:08in that relationship.
14:10And yes,
14:11I'm okay
14:12even if I'm not getting married.
14:15Thank you, Jay.
14:17Is it possible for you
14:18to have a serious relationship
14:19even if
14:20you're not considering
14:21getting married?
14:22Yes, it's possible.
14:25Please take charge.
14:26Let's go, Victor.
14:27What was the question again?
14:28I forgot.
14:31Would you call a relationship
14:32serious
14:33if you're not married yet?
14:36Or if there's no consideration
14:37of marriage?
14:39For me, yes,
14:40because
14:41a relationship
14:42is a process, right?
14:43We have to take the process.
14:44We have to get to know
14:45each other.
14:46We have to get to know
14:47our families.
14:48We have to know
14:49what we like
14:50and what we don't like
14:51and what we don't like.
14:52And for us to do that,
14:53we have to be serious.
14:54So, before we can
14:55get to the stage
14:56of talking about marriage,
14:57we have to be serious
14:58to know more
14:59about each other.
15:01He should be serious
15:02before he gets
15:03to that point.
15:04Yeah.
15:05Thank you so much, Victor.
15:07What's happening?
15:08His nose.
15:09What's happening?
15:10Why?
15:11What's that?
15:12His nose is bleeding.
15:13Blow, blow, blow.
15:14It's okay.
15:15It's normal.
15:17Me, too.
15:18I have hung over
15:19with Victor.
15:20It's a good thing
15:21we have a very
15:22intelligent friend.
15:23She translates
15:24everything to us
15:25because our English
15:26is like our cell phone.
15:27Sometimes,
15:28it's low bat.
15:29Yeah.
15:30Sometimes,
15:31no signal.
15:32But we got your point.
15:33Thank you very much, Victor.
15:36Okay.
15:38You're speaking Tagalog.
15:39You're speaking Tagalog.
15:40Charmaine!
15:41There's someone
15:42who wants to speak Tagalog.
15:43Charmaine!
15:44There's someone
15:45who wants to give you
15:46a green flag.
15:47Who is it?
15:49I think
15:50this time,
15:51it's number one.
15:52It's Jane.
15:53Jane.
15:54She said
15:55with respect.
15:56As long as
15:57we have respect
15:58for each other
15:59and love each other.
16:00Maybe even
16:01if there's no marriage,
16:02it's okay.
16:03Also,
16:04marriage is not
16:05for everyone.
16:06Right?
16:07There are people
16:08who are not
16:09married to me,
16:10but they are
16:11very serious
16:12about their love for me.
16:13Yes.
16:14So,
16:15we have Jane
16:16and Gil.
16:17Do you have a last question, Charmaine?
16:18Despite
16:19our experiences
16:20in love,
16:21sweet or bitter,
16:23why do we still
16:24choose to love?
16:26Let's start with
16:27number two,
16:28Victor.
16:29What's the question?
16:30Despite
16:31our experiences
16:32in love,
16:33why do we still
16:34choose to love?
16:35Okay.
16:36Victor,
16:37just say yeah
16:39if you feel alright.
16:40The question is,
16:41despite
16:42everything you guys
16:43have went through,
16:44like good things
16:45and bad things
16:46in life,
16:47why do you think
16:48people still choose
16:49to fall in love?
16:50Okay,
16:51because first of all,
16:52love is a beautiful thing,
16:53right?
16:54Love is sweet,
16:55so we have to
16:56fall in love again.
16:57Even if
16:58our previous one
16:59didn't work out properly,
17:00we still have to
17:01give ourselves
17:02to someone,
17:03someone that we can
17:04share our feelings with,
17:05someone that we
17:06share their own feelings
17:07with us.
17:08Because at the end of the day,
17:09it's our partner
17:10who tells everything
17:11about us,
17:12not someone beside
17:13because they were
17:14just listing,
17:15but they're not
17:16going to provide
17:17solutions.
17:18It's really our partner
17:19that provides solutions
17:20for us.
17:23He said it beautifully.
17:24Beautiful.
17:25What did he say?
17:26Love is sweet.
17:27He really said that.
17:28And it's true,
17:29right?
17:30Why do you like it?
17:31Because it's sweet.
17:32It's sweet.
17:33And he said it beautifully
17:34that you need a partner
17:35in life.
17:36Yeah.
17:37Thank you, Victor.
17:38So,
17:40we'll be coming back
17:41to these two homes.
17:43That's beautiful.
17:45Why are we still
17:46going back to love
17:47no matter what
17:48we've been through?
17:50Actually, while I agree
17:51that love is sweet,
17:52I agree,
17:53I think love also
17:54comes with some
17:55sort of bitterness.
17:57Because for me,
17:58love is not complete
17:59if it's all about joy.
18:00It's like you can't say
18:01that you truly love someone
18:02if you don't fight,
18:03if you don't fight.
18:04That's when you realize
18:05that you get stronger
18:06because of that.
18:08And,
18:09there,
18:10he said it was okay.
18:12That's why you want
18:13to repeat the experience.
18:15For me,
18:16life is not about
18:17just the happy moments.
18:18It's not just about
18:19the sweet moments,
18:20but how we face
18:23problems
18:24that comes with
18:25falling in love.
18:27Do you want to go back
18:28to the problems?
18:30No, it's really a part.
18:31Like, naturally,
18:32it's a part of that.
18:33So, regardless if
18:34you've been through
18:35joy or bitterness,
18:36it won't be a factor
18:37if you don't want it anymore.
18:38Unless,
18:39if you've been through
18:40a traumatic experience
18:41in love.
18:42But, the sweetness
18:43and bitterness,
18:44I think it's really
18:45part of love.
18:46So, it's not going to be
18:47a reason for you
18:48to stop loving
18:49unless there's
18:50a life-changing
18:51traumatic experience
18:52that you encountered.
18:53Okay, thank you very much.
18:54Sorry, sorry.
18:55Thank you, Gil.
18:56Jay.
18:57Jay.
18:58Because it's delicious
18:59and fun to love.
19:00And, it's nice
19:01to have someone
19:02who always reminds you
19:03to smile
19:04and adds inspiration
19:05to your life.
19:06So, that's it.
19:07And, love is kind
19:08and love is patient.
19:13He said, it's delicious
19:14and fun to love.
19:15Love is kind and patient.
19:16That's what Jay said.
19:17Yeah.
19:18Kindness.
19:19Kindness.
19:20Sometimes,
19:21we forget that
19:22in a relationship.
19:23Kindness.
19:24Kindness.
19:25Respect.
19:26What?
19:27Respect.
19:28Great.
19:29Thank you very much
19:30for your answers.
19:31Charmaine,
19:32who will you give
19:33your green flag to?
19:37Searching.
19:42Number 3.
19:43To Gil.
19:45To number 3.
19:46Number 3.
19:48Charmaine,
19:49here are the people
19:50you didn't get to choose.
19:51So, introduce yourself.
19:52Searching, number 1.
19:58Hi, Charmaine.
19:59Hi.
20:00So, always love yourself
20:02and always seek God
20:04and God will do
20:05everything for you.
20:06God bless you.
20:11Thank you, Jay.
20:20Hi, Charmaine.
20:21Do you want a handshake?
20:22Yeah.
20:23So, thank you so much
20:24for the opportunity
20:25you gave me
20:26to get to know you
20:27and I want to say that
20:28to a beautiful person.
20:29You are so gorgeous
20:30and I hope you will find love.
20:33Thank you so much.
20:36Thank you very much, Victor.
20:38Charmaine,
20:39your sister will tell you something.
20:42But not you, sister.
20:43Your other sister.
20:44Just kidding.
20:46Yes, Danica,
20:47what is your message
20:48to Charmaine?
20:50We love you so much, man.
20:52I want you to be happy.
20:54Just support us.
21:01Charmaine,
21:02will you say something to Charmaine?
21:05I love you so much.
21:06I will do everything for you.
21:09Thank you for the support.
21:12I hope you will always remember that, Charmaine.
21:14What Danica and I
21:15told you is very simple.
21:17We love you so much,
21:19your family.
21:20So, please,
21:21don't consider
21:22giving up
21:24because
21:25you are still winning in life
21:28and many are loving you.
21:30Danica,
21:31do you have a message for Gil?
21:33Yes.
21:41Hello,
21:43Ma,
21:44take care of my sister
21:45and especially my nieces.
21:50Gil is getting up.
21:51Huh?
21:52Am I a caregiver?
21:53Is that what she said?
21:54She's getting up.
21:55What?
21:56I'm taking care of the kids.
21:58Gil,
21:59sit next to Charmaine.
22:04Charmaine,
22:06meet Gil.
22:33I love you.
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