Good Morning Pakistan | Keeping Doubts Aside Special Show | 24 July 2024

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00:00:00As-Salaam-Alaikum, good morning, good morning Pakistan.

00:00:29It's such a trend these days to go to the gym, to take care of yourself,

00:00:33to eat healthy, to eat organic, to eat this, to eat that, to do this, to do that.

00:00:39I don't know which vegetables we are eating, organic meat, eggs, this and that.

00:00:44It's such a good thing that you take care of yourself.

00:00:48But before you take care of your physical appearance or your physical body,

00:00:54you have to take care of your mental health.

00:00:57But if you don't take care of your mental health from the inside,

00:01:03then whatever you eat, you won't feel it.

00:01:06In childhood, mothers used to say,

00:01:08you are eating food by crying, what will you feel?

00:01:11It means that to be healthy, you don't just have to eat good food,

00:01:16you also need to think good.

00:01:18You need to keep yourself away from toxic people.

00:01:21You need to keep yourself away from getting burnt.

00:01:24A lot of people are good in every way,

00:01:28they eat and drink, but they get burnt so much that it comes on their face.

00:01:32They have a lot of worries.

00:01:35Worry about money, worry about children.

00:01:38It means that at a certain age,

00:01:40old age comes early because your children are not set,

00:01:45your children are stuck in some problem,

00:01:47there is something in the family because of which you are not able to make yourself happy from the inside

00:01:53and it comes on your face, on your body.

00:01:56A lot of people get diseases,

00:01:58later they come to know that it is a heart disease.

00:02:01It was because there was a whole history behind it,

00:02:05when doctors know the history.

00:02:07So we save ourselves from a lot of things,

00:02:10that no, no, no, you have to be happy, you have to be happy.

00:02:13Nowadays people know this too.

00:02:15But there are some things that eat you like a bug.

00:02:20For example,

00:02:21if you are superstitious,

00:02:23suspicious,

00:02:25if you have grudges in your heart,

00:02:27these things eat you like a bug from the inside.

00:02:30Suspecting your wife's husband,

00:02:32and no matter how good she looks in physical appearance,

00:02:36how healthy she looks,

00:02:37but if she has this disease inside,

00:02:40she knows that her husband is like this,

00:02:42and she suspects,

00:02:45because of that, she is dying inside.

00:02:48A lot of women get diseases,

00:02:50later they come to know,

00:02:51by tolerating all their life,

00:02:53by compromising all their life,

00:02:54they have become like this,

00:02:55that they have got heart diseases.

00:02:58So suspicion eats you like a bug.

00:03:02Whether they suspect their husband and wife,

00:03:04whether they sometimes

00:03:06don't trust their parents and children,

00:03:08they suspect,

00:03:10whether they suspect their brothers and sisters,

00:03:12how much business they do,

00:03:14and I don't know what all things happen in interiors,

00:03:17because of suspicion.

00:03:19So today,

00:03:20we are going to tell you some such stories here,

00:03:24that you will be amazed.

00:03:27What should I tell you?

00:03:29Whether you should suspect your husband or not?

00:03:31I don't know,

00:03:33how can I save you from this?

00:03:35Or what advice should I give you?

00:03:38Because this thing is in your nature,

00:03:41you will have to get rid of it yourself.

00:03:43Someone should explain to you,

00:03:45someone should tell you,

00:03:47that leave it,

00:03:49worry about yourself,

00:03:50worry about your home,

00:03:51worry about your health,

00:03:52but you can't leave some worries,

00:03:55until you explain yourself.

00:03:58So after a short break,

00:03:59come,

00:04:00I will teach you how to explain yourself,

00:04:03in this show.

00:04:05Good morning.

00:04:16Welcome.

00:04:17Welcome back.

00:04:18Good morning, Pakistan.

00:04:20As I told you today,

00:04:21our topic is suspicion.

00:04:23Now that suspicion is not necessary,

00:04:25like in dramas,

00:04:27where husband and wife are always together,

00:04:29but this suspicion will spread,

00:04:31which is also a disease,

00:04:32like I said,

00:04:33it bites you like an ant.

00:04:34Sometimes,

00:04:35parents suspect their children,

00:04:37or any other family member.

00:04:39So,

00:04:40how can you save yourself,

00:04:43from getting infected?

00:04:46I will teach you some techniques.

00:04:48I have with me,

00:04:49Munazza Arif.

00:04:50Assalamualaikum.

00:04:51How are you?

00:04:52I am good.

00:04:53Thank you for inviting me.

00:04:55I have with me,

00:04:56Farah Nadeem.

00:04:57Assalamualaikum.

00:04:58Walaikumassalam.

00:04:59How are you?

00:05:00I am good.

00:05:01Obviously,

00:05:02we need help right now.

00:05:04We don't need a grandmother,

00:05:06or an earful woman right now.

00:05:09We need a professional help,

00:05:13and I have with me,

00:05:14Dr. Neelam Naaz,

00:05:15a clinical psychologist.

00:05:17Assalamualaikum.

00:05:18Walaikumassalam.

00:05:19How are you?

00:05:20Alhamdulillah.

00:05:21I am good.

00:05:22How are you?

00:05:23I am good.

00:05:24So,

00:05:25what do you define as suspicion?

00:05:27Everyone has different perceptions and definitions.

00:05:31What do you see as suspicion?

00:05:33What is suspicion?

00:05:35Wherever trust ends,

00:05:37suspicion starts.

00:05:40Where your boundary of trust falls,

00:05:43suspicion starts.

00:05:45What do you think,

00:05:46the one you are suspicious of,

00:05:47is having a difficult life,

00:05:48or the one you are suspecting,

00:05:49is having a difficult life?

00:05:51Of course,

00:05:52the one who is doing it,

00:05:53is in trouble.

00:05:55Yes,

00:05:56absolutely.

00:05:57The one who is doing it,

00:05:58see,

00:05:59suspicion is a poison.

00:06:00Now,

00:06:01that poison is being nurtured by itself.

00:06:02It is possible that the one who is suspecting,

00:06:04is not right.

00:06:05Suspicion is this,

00:06:06not belief.

00:06:07Now,

00:06:08the one who is suspecting,

00:06:09is not right.

00:06:10But,

00:06:11he is thinking on his own,

00:06:12why did Mian apply perfume today?

00:06:13This suspicion has increased,

00:06:14after watching CID and such dramas.

00:06:16Yes.

00:06:17After watching the dramas,

00:06:18it has increased.

00:06:19After watching the dramas,

00:06:20and after listening to other people's experiences.

00:06:22Right.

00:06:23And,

00:06:24if I define suspicion in a simple way,

00:06:25Nida,

00:06:26then it is a wrong way of thinking.

00:06:28It is a wrong way of thinking.

00:06:30And,

00:06:31if you start being suspicious,

00:06:33then there is no end to it.

00:06:35Absolutely.

00:06:36See,

00:06:37you are making up stories.

00:06:38Yes,

00:06:39we keep on assuming.

00:06:40Okay.

00:06:41Suspicion,

00:06:42generally,

00:06:43as we have seen in our practice,

00:06:44is a disease of intelligent people.

00:06:46A person who is not very smart,

00:06:48a person who is not very smart,

00:06:51he will not be able to suspect in that way.

00:06:54The reason is that,

00:06:55as you think,

00:06:56the same thing starts happening with you.

00:06:58That is,

00:06:59if I think that someone is cheating me,

00:07:01then I will start looking for those things,

00:07:03those evidences in my life.

00:07:05That,

00:07:06somewhere,

00:07:07I should come to know,

00:07:08how people are cheating me.

00:07:10Then,

00:07:11I will get into that hole.

00:07:12That,

00:07:13yes,

00:07:14he told me this,

00:07:15he told me that he is going here,

00:07:16but see,

00:07:17I checked his check-in,

00:07:18so he is here.

00:07:19So,

00:07:20when I start looking for evidences,

00:07:22then my suspicion increases.

00:07:24Right.

00:07:25And,

00:07:26obviously,

00:07:27you need a little intelligence,

00:07:28to get into the hole again and again.

00:07:29And,

00:07:30if I answer your question,

00:07:31then the disease of suspicion,

00:07:32the disease of thinking,

00:07:33it is a disease,

00:07:34it is painful for that person,

00:07:36and for those people,

00:07:37with whom there is suspicion,

00:07:38it is painful for them too.

00:07:39And,

00:07:40Nida,

00:07:41this,

00:07:42this happens somewhere in nature,

00:07:43but,

00:07:44from the environment of your house,

00:07:45it needs a lot of reinforcement.

00:07:47Right.

00:07:48That is,

00:07:49if you have seen your parents,

00:07:50being suspicious,

00:07:51then it gets absorbed,

00:07:52in your mind,

00:07:53the quality.

00:07:54Absolutely.

00:07:55Or,

00:07:56you have seen,

00:07:57that someone's heart is broken,

00:07:58in a very bad way.

00:07:59In your family,

00:08:00with some uncle,

00:08:01with someone else,

00:08:02with your mother,

00:08:03you have been cheated.

00:08:04So,

00:08:05every time,

00:08:06you try,

00:08:07that nothing like this happens to me.

00:08:08So,

00:08:09I should always be alert.

00:08:10Every time,

00:08:11someone harms me,

00:08:12before that,

00:08:13I should find out,

00:08:14that,

00:08:15he is going to harm me,

00:08:16and I should save myself.

00:08:17But,

00:08:18in many places,

00:08:19it also happens that,

00:08:20even if you have not seen anyone,

00:08:21there is no such thing in the family,

00:08:22but,

00:08:23it happens in nature,

00:08:24that,

00:08:25in your nature,

00:08:26you keep doubting.

00:08:27You will doubt everyone,

00:08:28not just your husband,

00:08:29but,

00:08:30in your family,

00:08:31you keep doubting.

00:08:32Definitely.

00:08:33In any of their relationships,

00:08:34the marriage relationship,

00:08:35is already very sincere,

00:08:36and,

00:08:37the basis of it is trust.

00:08:38Right?

00:08:39There is nothing else,

00:08:40in your marriage relationship.

00:08:41But,

00:08:42apart from that,

00:08:43in your office,

00:08:44the relationships that you have,

00:08:45with your drivers,

00:08:46with your maids,

00:08:47the relationships that you have,

00:08:48will all be bad,

00:08:49because,

00:08:50you are not giving that person,

00:08:51that much space.

00:08:52You are not trusting that person.

00:08:53So,

00:08:54people start pulling you.

00:08:55May I interrupt?

00:08:56Please.

00:08:57Sure.

00:08:58I will disagree with you a little.

00:08:59Like,

00:09:00stress,

00:09:01we all say,

00:09:02stress,

00:09:03oh, no, no,

00:09:04stress is really bad.

00:09:05Uh,

00:09:06to an extent,

00:09:07stress is very important.

00:09:08Positive stress,

00:09:09is very important.

00:09:10For example?

00:09:11Like,

00:09:12there is an exam.

00:09:13Yes.

00:09:14I say,

00:09:15I don't take stress.

00:09:16Yes.

00:09:17I won't even work hard,

00:09:18I will get bad marks.

00:09:19Yes.

00:09:20And,

00:09:21if I take stress,

00:09:22I will take positive stress,

00:09:23that,

00:09:24I have work,

00:09:25I have to do,

00:09:26I have to work.

00:09:27I have to be serious about it.

00:09:28Be serious about it.

00:09:29So,

00:09:30in the beginning,

00:09:31it was stress-free.

00:09:32I was stressed about it.

00:09:33So,

00:09:34it became stressful.

00:09:35Similarly,

00:09:36doubt,

00:09:37we shouldn't totally doubt,

00:09:38that is also wrong.

00:09:39To an extent,

00:09:40normal doubt,

00:09:41that,

00:09:42it is such that,

00:09:43the quantity of everything,

00:09:44is important.

00:09:45Everything is not totally bad.

00:09:46Yes,

00:09:47when it is more than needed,

00:09:48then it becomes bad.

00:09:49Then,

00:09:50it becomes a tumor.

00:09:51Because,

00:09:52it grows.

00:09:53Because,

00:09:54we have seen a lot of cases,

00:09:55around,

00:09:56that,

00:09:57poor women,

00:09:58poor innocent women,

00:09:59they don't know anything.

00:10:00Their house is finished.

00:10:01Yes,

00:10:02they don't know anything.

00:10:03Yes,

00:10:04they have looted everything,

00:10:05and come to another woman.

00:10:06So,

00:10:07we should be careful.

00:10:08So,

00:10:09we should be careful.

00:10:10We should keep our eyes open.

00:10:11Yes.

00:10:12We should not doubt.

00:10:13But,

00:10:14we should keep checking,

00:10:15where are they coming from,

00:10:16where are they going.

00:10:17Like he is saying,

00:10:18we should doubt,

00:10:19but not too much.

00:10:20Yes,

00:10:21we should be careful.

00:10:22How can we set the scale?

00:10:23We have to check,

00:10:24but not too much.

00:10:25But doubt,

00:10:26doubt is doubt,

00:10:27you feel,

00:10:28you feel an emptiness,

00:10:29there is this gap.

00:10:30So,

00:10:31you,

00:10:32mean,

00:10:33by using your consciousness,

00:10:34by using your intellect,

00:10:35look for it objectively,

00:10:36it is not like

00:10:37what you are saying.

00:10:38When we,

00:10:39our thoughts,

00:10:40they become our actions,

00:10:41our actions,

00:10:42they become our behavior,

00:10:43and our behavior

00:10:44becomes our belief.

00:10:45So,

00:10:46in this way,

00:10:47we become

00:10:48a personality.

00:10:49We begin with

00:10:50thinking,

00:10:51and we end

00:10:52on the personality.

00:10:53It is not

00:10:54that serious,

00:10:55you will get

00:10:56It's such a serious business.

00:10:58So, we need to control the suspicion.

00:11:01Controlled suspicion is important.

00:11:03Suspicion means to keep a gap.

00:11:06If you don't have any suspicion, you'll be robbed.

00:11:09You'll be finished and you won't even know it.

00:11:11You'll lose your mind.

00:11:12Like, if your mates work at home,

00:11:15you need to be alert, you need to keep an eye on them.

00:11:17It's not a suspicion, but you need to keep an eye on them.

00:11:21I mean, you don't need to close your eyes.

00:11:23You shouldn't close your eyes.

00:11:24The word, Suspicion, is very negative.

00:11:27In our society, the word Suspicion is negative.

00:11:29We see it in a negative connotation.

00:11:32If we change the word, it becomes Accountability.

00:11:36Or Check-in.

00:11:37Check-in.

00:11:38You need to give the kids a little gap.

00:11:40Like, you're going out with your friends,

00:11:41but keep updating me on where you are, what you're doing.

00:11:45And keep giving them the money they're asking for.

00:11:47No, no.

00:11:48Balance.

00:11:48No, no.

00:11:49Don't doubt them.

00:11:50No, no.

00:11:50Keep your eyes open.

00:11:51Like she was saying, there's moderation in everything.

00:11:54There's balance in everything.

00:11:56And how do you know that you're going towards a problem?

00:11:59You need to see how much your thoughts and reality match.

00:12:05If my daughter is saying that she's going out with a group of friends every day,

00:12:10and I know that her parents have gone out,

00:12:12then I should get this question mark somewhere,

00:12:15that I should ask her,

00:12:16where are you going every day for 4-4 hours?

00:12:19Where are you going?

00:12:19Meaning, the information she's giving me doesn't match.

00:12:23So it's your right to question.

00:12:26But the way you ask questions,

00:12:28and how much capacity you have to accept their answers,

00:12:32that also matters.

00:12:34If I've already made up my mind,

00:12:36this doubt about the problem that we're talking about,

00:12:38that comes when I've already thought in my mind that this person is wrong.

00:12:43No matter what they say in their explanation,

00:12:46present their evidences,

00:12:48or swear that they know that they're wrong and they're deceiving me.

00:12:53That's a problem.

00:12:54When you're giving them a chance to explain,

00:12:57then listen to them and give them a little margin.

00:13:00We need objectivity.

00:13:01We need to see where the doubt is in the lives of the people we have here,

00:13:06and how they're being eaten up,

00:13:09or how they can make themselves understand,

00:13:11that we need to be powerful enough to overcome that.

00:13:16We need to take it under control.

00:13:19We need to keep a check and balance.

00:13:21We shouldn't spread it so much that there will be fights at home.

00:13:24Because of this, your family life will be ruined.

00:13:27Yes, greetings.

00:13:28Hina is with us.

00:13:29Greetings.

00:13:30Yes.

00:13:31Yes, Hina.

00:13:32Yes, so my story is like this.

00:13:34My uncle's son and I were engaged.

00:13:38Okay.

00:13:39But he was studying at the university,

00:13:40so he liked someone there.

00:13:42Then our engagement ended.

00:13:44But after a year, I got married.

00:13:47Yes.

00:13:47When I got married, my husband was very nice,

00:13:50he took care of me a lot,

00:13:51but I don't know what happened to him.

00:13:53After a while, he started doubting me.

00:13:56He used to doubt that if I use my phone,

00:13:58then he would check my phone.

00:14:00If I was talking to my mom on the phone,

00:14:01then he would take my phone number,

00:14:04and confirm that I was talking to my mom.

00:14:07Then by doing this, his doubt increased.

00:14:09He wouldn't let me go anywhere.

00:14:11He wouldn't let me go to my mother's house.

00:14:13He wouldn't let me go to my mother's house.

00:14:16My mother used to call and tell me to bring him,

00:14:18at least for a little while.

00:14:19And even if he would take me,

00:14:21then for an hour or an hour and a half,

00:14:23and he would make me sit with him.

00:14:25He wouldn't even let me move.

00:14:26Because he used to doubt that

00:14:28if I was still having an affair with my cousin,

00:14:30or if there was something like that.

00:14:32Yes.

00:14:33And it happened like this,

00:14:34that no matter how many marriages took place in my house,

00:14:36no matter what happened,

00:14:37he didn't let me go.

00:14:39He didn't let me go at all.

00:14:41He used to doubt that if I was still having an affair with my cousin.

00:14:44Because we used to live together.

00:14:45We were a joint family.

00:14:46So, we used to live up and down.

00:14:48So, our cousins used to talk to each other a lot.

00:14:51We used to hang out, we used to be friends.

00:14:52All of this was there.

00:14:54Even after the engagement was over,

00:14:55we still had a good friendship.

00:14:58But then my husband used to feel that something was going on between us.

00:15:02If there was a funeral in my house,

00:15:04then he used to take me like this.

00:15:06He used to take me and make me sit with him.

00:15:08He wouldn't let me go anywhere.

00:15:10He didn't want me to talk to anyone.

00:15:12He used to feel so bad.

00:15:13And when I used to talk to my mother,

00:15:15he used to check my mother's number.

00:15:17He used to check my phone completely.

00:15:19To see who I talked to and what I talked about.

00:15:21Because of that, he made me stay away from all my cousins.

00:15:24He wouldn't let me meet them,

00:15:25he wouldn't let me talk to them,

00:15:27he wouldn't let me go.

00:15:28Even if there was a conversation, I couldn't go there.

00:15:30Because he didn't like it.

00:15:32He used to doubt a lot about my cousins.

00:15:34That I had an affair or something like that.

00:15:37So, he didn't like it.

00:15:39So, your relationship is still the same?

00:15:42Yes, it's still the same.

00:15:44It's been 1.5 years since I went to my parents' house.

00:15:46He didn't let me go for 1.5 years.

00:15:49He feels that I shouldn't talk to anyone.

00:15:51Like this.

00:15:53And he takes me to his side.

00:15:55He doesn't have any problem with his side.

00:15:57But he has a problem with my uncle's son.

00:16:00Because of that, he made me stay away from everyone.

00:16:03He made me stay away from all my relations.

00:16:05Because he doubts a lot that I shouldn't talk to him.

00:16:08What should I do?

00:16:09It's only been 1.5 years since I've been with him.

00:16:11Is your fiancee married?

00:16:13Yes, she's married.

00:16:15Yes, she's married.

00:16:17What should I do?

00:16:18She's stuck.

00:16:19This happens in a lot of families.

00:16:20Cousins have an affair.

00:16:22And then it ends.

00:16:23There's no understanding.

00:16:24Or no liking.

00:16:26If it continues.

00:16:28So, this will be a hell of a life.

00:16:31How can a person cut off from his family?

00:16:34He's been with his cousin all his life.

00:16:36So, what's the solution to this, Neelam?

00:16:38When her husband talks about this,

00:16:41does he tell you what his problem is?

00:16:45Have you ever asked him what the reason is?

00:16:47That he doesn't let you meet him.

00:16:48Or have you ever tried to talk to him about this topic?

00:16:52No, because he tells me.

00:16:54It's obvious.

00:16:55He tells me.

00:16:56He tells me again and again that he has a problem with my cousin.

00:16:58Because of whom I got engaged.

00:17:00So, because of this, he has a problem with everyone.

00:17:02That I'll go to my parents' house.

00:17:04Because we all live together.

00:17:05We're a joint family.

00:17:06We all live together.

00:17:08In the same building.

00:17:09So, I'll meet him.

00:17:10I'll talk to him.

00:17:11He'll talk to me.

00:17:12So, he has a problem with this.

00:17:13Okay.

00:17:14And obviously, you must have said at the end that you won't have any connection with him.

00:17:18But you want to maintain that relationship with everyone else.

00:17:20Yes, I have explained this to him.

00:17:22Okay.

00:17:23And what does he say about this?

00:17:24He says that I don't trust him.

00:17:26You'll go.

00:17:27He's your cousin.

00:17:28You have such a good friendship.

00:17:29You'll go.

00:17:30If you don't go to meet him, he'll come to meet you.

00:17:33Because we live in the same place.

00:17:35So, this is the problem.

00:17:36How much do your family members know about this problem?

00:17:39Obviously, because you don't go.

00:17:40You don't meet.

00:17:41Your family must also say something about this.

00:17:43What is their reaction?

00:17:44My family, obviously, they can only explain to my husband.

00:17:47And they also explain that there is no such thing.

00:17:50There was something.

00:17:51If there was an engagement, it was because of us elders.

00:17:53We liked the elders.

00:17:54But the children didn't get along.

00:17:56Or whatever it was.

00:17:57Or no one liked it.

00:17:58So, it's over.

00:17:59The thing that's over, it's over.

00:18:02Not anymore.

00:18:03He's also married.

00:18:04And I'm also married.

00:18:06So, she doesn't have to explain it to him.

00:18:08Her husband needs it.

00:18:09Definitely.

00:18:11Basically, what will Neelam help him with?

00:18:13Neelam will have to help her husband.

00:18:16Definitely.

00:18:18See, and again, you know, those who have the disease of suspicion,

00:18:21they are least likely to come to therapy or talk about the issue.

00:18:26They don't agree.

00:18:27They don't agree.

00:18:28Because they give so many explanations.

00:18:30They give so many logical arguments.

00:18:33And then they insult the other person.

00:18:35That no, I'm absolutely right.

00:18:37You didn't listen to me.

00:18:38See, her married life is getting so bad.

00:18:40Definitely.

00:18:41Now, how long will she tolerate it?

00:18:43It's been a year and a half now.

00:18:44For a long time, you lock someone in a cage and lock them in a golden cage.

00:18:47But it is also possible that in some time,

00:18:49she herself corrects herself.

00:18:51In some time, she gets better.

00:18:53She spends her whole life like this.

00:18:55Sorry.

00:18:56Sorry.

00:18:57I didn't want to complete your point.

00:18:58No, no.

00:18:59What I want to know is that

00:19:01is your husband only suspicious of that cousin

00:19:03or is his suspicion increasing?

00:19:05You are going to the market.

00:19:06You are meeting someone else.

00:19:08You are meeting some other family member.

00:19:10Does he also have this thing that you don't become friendly?

00:19:13Or is it only related to that cousin?

00:19:15No.

00:19:16If I go out with my family,

00:19:18they take me with them.

00:19:20At first, I don't go alone.

00:19:22And when it comes to my house,

00:19:24my family,

00:19:25then they start having problems with everyone.

00:19:27Because they feel that we all live together.

00:19:29Even if I talk to my cousin,

00:19:31no one will tell her.

00:19:33They think like this.

00:19:34No, no.

00:19:35She was engaged.

00:19:36In a lot of houses,

00:19:38couples don't even get engaged.

00:19:40Even then, husband puts so many restrictions.

00:19:42No one should talk to her happily.

00:19:44How did I talk to you?

00:19:46Why did I greet you?

00:19:47I mean, they make their life so difficult

00:19:50that obviously,

00:19:52there is a level of your jokes with your cousin.

00:19:54Right?

00:19:55Aunt, aunt,

00:19:57whatever cousins are,

00:19:59they are together since childhood.

00:20:01Some husbands make their life difficult.

00:20:03Even if they are not engaged,

00:20:05these are common things.

00:20:07Absolutely right.

00:20:08Look, we have to see two things here.

00:20:10First of all, we have to see

00:20:12that her husband,

00:20:14does he have a doubt in his nature?

00:20:16As a person,

00:20:18if you leave this uncle and son,

00:20:20apart from him,

00:20:22has he had a habit of

00:20:24doubting his sisters

00:20:26and other family members

00:20:28in his childhood or not?

00:20:30If these things are coming in his personality,

00:20:32that means that

00:20:34no matter how much he compromises,

00:20:36that thing will come again.

00:20:38Now, no matter how much you try to manage it,

00:20:40but it will come again.

00:20:42What is his condition then?

00:20:44Look, you have to set some boundaries.

00:20:46The person who is living with the person

00:20:48who has a doubt,

00:20:50he has this option that

00:20:52you give him consolation.

00:20:54You give him consolation.

00:20:56Whatever doubts he has,

00:20:58that if you go here, you will go up,

00:21:00you will sit,

00:21:02and he thinks of such things

00:21:04that are not in your mind.

00:21:06So you sit with him,

00:21:08whatever problems he has,

00:21:10that you will meet here,

00:21:12you will meet him,

00:21:14you will do this,

00:21:16you will do that,

00:21:18I am going to Delhi,

00:21:20which is segregated,

00:21:22I will only meet my female cousin.

00:21:24You give him as much consolation as possible,

00:21:26but at one point,

00:21:28you set your boundaries.

00:21:30It is not possible for me more than this.

00:21:32I will meet my parents.

00:21:34If my parents are sick,

00:21:36then definitely I will go.

00:21:38Because the more she will be away from her family,

00:21:40the more she will grow in her habit.

00:21:42She is not married yet.

00:21:44She will keep doing it to please them.

00:21:46It will become a habit of her life.

00:21:48It will become a habit

00:21:50and the other person will not be satisfied.

00:21:52If there is no basis of doubt,

00:21:54then he will need as much consolation as possible.

00:21:56And definitely

00:21:58not meeting his parents

00:22:00for a whole year

00:22:02would not have happened suddenly.

00:22:04It started with small things.

00:22:06Marriage is not that

00:22:08the husband has tied a slave to himself.

00:22:10His doubt has been fossilized.

00:22:12It is completely cemented in his mind.

00:22:14And that girl

00:22:16may not have received

00:22:18so much support from her family.

00:22:20If she is not coming for a year,

00:22:22then obviously the family members

00:22:24would also want her to settle with her husband.

00:22:26When you will not get the support of your family,

00:22:28then what else will she do?

00:22:30She has to tolerate.

00:22:32Parents are afraid

00:22:34that the girl's family will be ruined.

00:22:36But for this,

00:22:38the girl should not get married

00:22:40when she is standing on her feet.

00:22:42She has to set a boundary

00:22:44for herself.

00:22:46Otherwise, she will never be satisfied.

00:22:48If she is financially strong,

00:22:50then she will set boundaries.

00:22:52If she is dependent, then it will be very difficult.

00:22:54It is also important to be emotionally strong.

00:22:56Exactly.

00:22:58Not only financially,

00:23:00but also emotionally.

00:23:02We will come back after a short break.

00:23:04We will continue.

00:23:06Maybe this conversation will help you.

00:23:08Good morning.

00:23:12Welcome.

00:23:14Welcome back.

00:23:16Good morning, Pakistan.

00:23:18Doubts are a poison

00:23:20that you eat from inside

00:23:22and you don't know.

00:23:24We used to hear about heart diseases

00:23:26in the olden days.

00:23:28A grandmother passed away.

00:23:30She had TB.

00:23:32She only knew about TB at that time.

00:23:34She didn't know that it is also a disease.

00:23:36So, every elderly person

00:23:38died because of TB.

00:23:40Who gave her TB?

00:23:42Who caused her TB?

00:23:44Let's move to the next topic.

00:23:46Ayesha is with us.

00:23:48Greetings.

00:23:50Greetings.

00:23:52This is happening with me.

00:23:54I have been married

00:23:56for 1.5 years.

00:23:58Before marriage, I used to work.

00:24:00I have been working for a long time.

00:24:02When the marriage proposal was being finalized,

00:24:04it was decided that

00:24:06I will continue my job after marriage.

00:24:08When I got married

00:24:10and started working,

00:24:12my mother-in-law had some issues

00:24:14that I shouldn't

00:24:16dress up like this

00:24:18and shouldn't come at this time.

00:24:20My husband was very supportive throughout.

00:24:22He never had any issues

00:24:24because we already had an understanding.

00:24:26He used to work

00:24:28and we used to manage

00:24:30financially.

00:24:32Then my mother-in-law started having issues

00:24:34that I am not taking care of the house,

00:24:36I am not taking care of the house,

00:24:38I am not wearing proper clothes

00:24:40and I am not coming at the right time.

00:24:42There is a lot of traffic on the roads.

00:24:44There are a lot of things.

00:24:46She transferred these issues

00:24:48to my husband.

00:24:50My husband became suspicious.

00:24:52He was never suspicious.

00:24:54He started checking my phone

00:24:56and started calling me

00:24:58at the office time.

00:25:00Even if I don't answer the call,

00:25:02he used to call my colleagues

00:25:05and this happened.

00:25:07This matter reached to such an extent

00:25:09that he threw away my office laptop

00:25:11and said that I won't do the job.

00:25:13Because of this,

00:25:15we fought a lot

00:25:17and I was sent to my house.

00:25:19Now I am not able to go to the office

00:25:21because I can't face anyone in the office

00:25:23because this matter has reached there.

00:25:25I have been at my mother's house for a month

00:25:27and there is no solution for this.

00:25:31What should Neelam do at this time?

00:25:33Look,

00:25:35you will have to choose.

00:25:37You can see that

00:25:39she is getting such an extreme reaction

00:25:41on doing your job.

00:25:43Again, you have to see

00:25:45where this will end.

00:25:47More than your husband,

00:25:49I think you need to talk to your mother-in-law

00:25:51because your husband

00:25:53had faith in you.

00:25:55He didn't have this concern.

00:25:57Maybe he was prepared

00:25:59that you will come and work.

00:26:01But when the other person

00:26:03keeps sending you messages

00:26:05that you are making a mistake

00:26:07or that you don't know

00:26:09what is happening

00:26:11and when you keep getting

00:26:13such messages,

00:26:15we get influenced.

00:26:17A drop of water

00:26:19can make a hole

00:26:21in a stone.

00:26:23When you are getting drilled

00:26:25and your mother is saying

00:26:27that she is your mother,

00:26:29unfortunately,

00:26:31the concept of manhood

00:26:33has also been portrayed wrongly.

00:26:35Until you are in control

00:26:37and until you

00:26:39keep it in your power,

00:26:41you are not a real husband.

00:26:43This is also unhealthy.

00:26:45This happens often because

00:26:47the world is changing.

00:26:49Now the girls work

00:26:51and support the family.

00:26:53It is not possible to survive on one's salary.

00:26:55The situation has become like this.

00:26:57The men should also be prepared

00:26:59that things will be different now.

00:27:01If she is a teacher,

00:27:03she will come at 2 or 3 o'clock.

00:27:05But if she works in an office,

00:27:07she will come at 5 or 6 o'clock.

00:27:09Just like it happens with women

00:27:11that you have overtime.

00:27:13If you are not okay with this,

00:27:15then you should say

00:27:17that we don't want a working person.

00:27:19Or you should be prepared

00:27:21that this will happen.

00:27:23In this matter, it is more important

00:27:25for a woman to explain

00:27:27to her husband

00:27:29if she is a mature

00:27:31and calm woman.

00:27:33Maybe she should also

00:27:35compromise a little.

00:27:37Like she said,

00:27:39how to wear clothes.

00:27:41Every house has different norms

00:27:43and values.

00:27:45You have to be a little flexible

00:27:47about the environment of the house.

00:27:49After marriage,

00:27:51the girls are very free

00:27:53But still,

00:27:55parents also put restrictions

00:27:57on what to wear

00:27:59and what not to wear.

00:28:01It is not that the girl is free.

00:28:03But the thing to be updated

00:28:05is that where she is

00:28:07or if she is late.

00:28:09Maybe your parents

00:28:11will not keep as much check and balance

00:28:13as your in-laws.

00:28:15If your husband is one hour late

00:28:17and you were sitting in a meeting,

00:28:19then maybe he will have more anxiety

00:28:21or maybe he will ask you

00:28:23why you are late.

00:28:25Generally,

00:28:27the thing that helps

00:28:29is to reassure your husband

00:28:31that I was here

00:28:33and I was doing this.

00:28:35Usually,

00:28:37there is a slight doubt

00:28:39when you give a message

00:28:41to that person

00:28:43that I was doing this

00:28:45and this.

00:28:47If I know that my meeting is scheduled

00:28:49for 2 o'clock,

00:28:51then I will message my husband.

00:28:53Because we can't ask you

00:28:55how dare you.

00:28:57Life does not go like that.

00:28:59Many other women

00:29:01would have seen our show

00:29:03and asked us

00:29:05how dare they ask us.

00:29:07We have to live

00:29:09with a balance.

00:29:11If you are living in a joint family

00:29:13and your mother-in-law is asking you

00:29:15a question,

00:29:17then you should ask your husband

00:29:19where you were

00:29:21and why you were late.

00:29:23Similarly, they have a right

00:29:25to know why we stand up

00:29:27for women's rights.

00:29:29I am saying that

00:29:31we should not put everything

00:29:33in the category of doubt.

00:29:35There can be concern

00:29:37and worry.

00:29:39If the word is mother-in-law,

00:29:41then why do we see her

00:29:43with hatred?

00:29:45If I don't come home,

00:29:47it doesn't mean

00:29:49that I am roaming around.

00:29:51She is my son's wife

00:29:53so it is my concern

00:29:55that she is fine.

00:29:57There are Google apps

00:29:59to track where you are.

00:30:01Exactly.

00:30:03There are many things

00:30:05to end the doubt.

00:30:07I don't have a thief in my heart.

00:30:09This is a Google app

00:30:11for the whole family.

00:30:13I don't remember

00:30:15which road I was standing on

00:30:17when the petrol ran out

00:30:19or I got stuck in traffic.

00:30:21But Nida,

00:30:23if she crosses the line

00:30:25then it gets on your nerves.

00:30:27Exactly.

00:30:29If I am standing

00:30:31in those shoes,

00:30:33then my life will be a mess.

00:30:35I have to give an explanation

00:30:37for everything.

00:30:39Then there comes this thing

00:30:42where there is no credibility.

00:30:44Someone will ask me

00:30:46why this happened.

00:30:48I don't trust myself.

00:30:50Relationships

00:30:52break down

00:30:54because of this.

00:30:56We are trying

00:30:58to make it work.

00:31:00Some compromises are made

00:31:02by husbands, wives

00:31:04and some by parents.

00:31:06Whether it is a girl

00:31:08or a boy.

00:31:10They have to compromise

00:31:12the whole family.

00:31:14But some people

00:31:16by nature need more

00:31:18reassurance.

00:31:20One of your parents

00:31:22must be very worried.

00:31:24If you have gone to a wedding

00:31:26then one parent must be awake.

00:31:28If you say that you have a key

00:31:30and this person will drop you,

00:31:32they will say that they can't sleep.

00:31:34Usually the mother is awake.

00:31:36They are more worried.

00:31:38The person who is more worried

00:31:40needs more reassurance.

00:31:42But if

00:31:44he is coming on credibility

00:31:46and you are coming in an

00:31:48over-explanation mode

00:31:50where you have to give an explanation

00:31:52and the stress is increasing

00:31:54then first you have to set boundaries.

00:31:56I can update you

00:31:58and tell you about my things

00:32:00but you have to trust my word.

00:32:02You have to trust me.

00:32:04When women

00:32:06do this to men

00:32:08they also get worried

00:32:10and irritated.

00:32:12So

00:32:14don't bring that relationship

00:32:16to the edge

00:32:18where you start getting irritated.

00:32:20Stop it.

00:32:22I will say this again and again

00:32:24that when two husband and wife

00:32:26get married

00:32:28it is a religious thing

00:32:30for each other's peace.

00:32:32It is not for

00:32:34happiness.

00:32:36If you are worried

00:32:38then what is the point

00:32:40of worrying your wife

00:32:42and your husband?

00:32:44The main thing

00:32:46about a happy life

00:32:48is trust.

00:32:50You have to decide

00:32:52how much you can trust your spouse

00:32:54and how much you can worry

00:32:56and how much you can be concerned.

00:32:58Everyone is different.

00:33:00You don't have to

00:33:02worry about your friend's husband

00:33:04if he is in your favour.

00:33:06Or

00:33:08if your friend's wife

00:33:10has eloped with someone

00:33:12then your wife will also elope.

00:33:14Not everyone is the same.

00:33:16You have to look at your reality

00:33:18and make your own thoughts.

00:33:20Your connection

00:33:22with that person

00:33:24has proved itself.

00:33:26In the second case

00:33:28both of them are newly married.

00:33:30It has been a year or two

00:33:32and they are still in the phase

00:33:34of understanding each other

00:33:36where these problems are arising.

00:33:38You have to decide

00:33:40to what extent

00:33:42both the women

00:33:44can compromise

00:33:46while understanding

00:33:48their husband's nature

00:33:50and where they feel

00:33:52they can't express their feelings.

00:33:54She is still at home.

00:33:56How do you

00:33:58start this relationship

00:34:00again?

00:34:02First thing is

00:34:04if you don't want to get involved

00:34:06then talk to your husband.

00:34:10Is it possible that

00:34:12I leave my job for some time?

00:34:14Yes, you can.

00:34:16Sometimes you have to take such decisions

00:34:18in life.

00:34:20Before leaving your job

00:34:22consult your husband

00:34:24about what you want from him.

00:34:26Give him the power of decision.

00:34:28Do you want me to leave my job

00:34:30or do you want me

00:34:32to update you constantly?

00:34:34When she will start her job again

00:34:36she will have to start from zero.

00:34:38Her career is important for everyone

00:34:40whether she is a woman or a man.

00:34:42Career or marriage is important.

00:34:44She has to choose.

00:34:46It is a difficult choice

00:34:48but you have to choose

00:34:50which difficulty you want to face.

00:34:52When she will

00:34:54directly talk to her husband

00:34:56she will get messages

00:34:58about what she should do

00:35:00and what not to do.

00:35:02Her husband has a belief

00:35:04that she has a fear.

00:35:06Just like that

00:35:08she has a fear

00:35:10and insecurity.

00:35:12She has a fear.

00:35:14Once the fear is gone

00:35:16all the problems will be gone.

00:35:18People are control freaks.

00:35:20There are men who are control freaks

00:35:22and their friends

00:35:24come to them

00:35:26and ask how they have managed their wife.

00:35:28That is possible

00:35:30only at home.

00:35:32If there is a control freak

00:35:34and he comes to you

00:35:36and you can't see him

00:35:38and you want to spend your life with him

00:35:40then what should you do?

00:35:42There is a need

00:35:44behind the behavior

00:35:46of a control freak.

00:35:48No one does anything randomly.

00:35:50I need a plan

00:35:52and a fear

00:35:54that if I don't stay in control

00:35:56then what will happen?

00:35:58People believe

00:36:00that they should know everything

00:36:02so that they can manage

00:36:04if there is a problem.

00:36:06When we do couples therapy

00:36:08and see such cases

00:36:10husbands believe

00:36:12that their wife is innocent

00:36:14and she doesn't know

00:36:16how people react to her.

00:36:18He is over protective.

00:36:20He is not a negative person.

00:36:22He must be concerned.

00:36:24His behavior

00:36:26is definitely negative

00:36:28but his attachment

00:36:30is not negative.

00:36:32The relationship can be saved

00:36:34if we normalize

00:36:36his behavior

00:36:38and manage it.

00:36:40His wife is managing his behavior

00:36:42but his feelings

00:36:44are not reaching there

00:36:47because everything is happening

00:36:49on top of each other.

00:36:51Why did you do this?

00:36:53Why did I do that?

00:36:55We need to understand

00:36:57what he is trying to protect.

00:36:59His mother is feeding him

00:37:01and how she is affecting him.

00:37:03Maybe you don't see him

00:37:05and you are careless

00:37:07and he cheated you

00:37:09in business.

00:37:11When such messages come

00:37:13to a person

00:37:15100%

00:37:17Instead of cooking

00:37:19or putting water on fire

00:37:21don't put oil.

00:37:23Exactly.

00:37:25A mother-in-law who has never

00:37:27gone through work

00:37:29or is not a career woman

00:37:31it is difficult for her

00:37:33to accept that

00:37:35she has worked hard

00:37:37and managed the kitchen

00:37:39and she is wearing

00:37:41nice clothes

00:37:43That is why she is jealous.

00:37:45A lot of mothers-in-law

00:37:47have this issue

00:37:49that she is not honest

00:37:51and some people

00:37:53are jealous.

00:37:55On the other hand

00:37:57you are saying that it is a mother-in-law

00:37:59but on behalf of the daughter-in-law

00:38:01if she can clear herself

00:38:03that why did I come late

00:38:05and for what reason

00:38:07if she has a problem with the clothes

00:38:09then she can wear accordingly.

00:38:11On behalf of the daughter-in-law

00:38:13it is difficult

00:38:15to talk to her.

00:38:17Often it happens that

00:38:19husbands

00:38:21or partners

00:38:23not just husbands

00:38:25but wives also want

00:38:27their partner to keep them

00:38:29on priority.

00:38:31If I give her a choice

00:38:33to choose her family

00:38:35then she can take my name too.

00:38:37Think about it

00:38:39When we are in a relationship

00:38:41we are all different

00:38:43then why is this job so important

00:38:45and why is she fighting with me

00:38:47for this job

00:38:49then that job

00:38:51becomes a matter of ego.

00:38:53Why a job?

00:38:55Why did you give me a job?

00:38:57You need to address this too.

00:38:59If this is the thought

00:39:01of her husband

00:39:03then that means

00:39:05he is just trying to get your attention

00:39:07If you improve this relationship

00:39:09then maybe he will say

00:39:11Forget about the job

00:39:13take a leave for a few days

00:39:15It doesn't feel bad

00:39:17if someone is earning

00:39:19half the burden

00:39:21if the wife is earning

00:39:23It doesn't feel bad

00:39:25if someone is sharing

00:39:27half the burden

00:39:29Take a leave for a few days

00:39:31and find a solution

00:39:33They say

00:39:35If the government

00:39:37closed a road

00:39:39then take a new road

00:39:41If the government closed a new road

00:39:43then take a new road

00:39:45Life is like this

00:39:47If the roads are closed

00:39:49then there are many other ways

00:39:51The condition is

00:39:53whether you want to live with it

00:39:55or not

00:39:57If you don't want to

00:39:59then even if the roads are open

00:40:01you will see them closed

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00:40:13Good morning Pakistan

00:40:15So our topic is

00:40:17Today's Doubt

00:40:19The two stories we heard

00:40:21were about men's doubt on women

00:40:23Now we are hearing this a lot

00:40:25We used to see that wives

00:40:27are doubting men

00:40:29Their life has become hell

00:40:31But now

00:40:33we are hearing more stories

00:40:35that men are not less

00:40:37Their doubt is so dangerous

00:40:39that lives and relationships

00:40:41end

00:40:43Talking about work life

00:40:45I guess it is very important

00:40:47that before marriage

00:40:49boy and girl

00:40:51within your

00:40:53culturally permissible rule

00:40:55let them talk

00:40:57Talk to each other

00:40:59Settle all these issues

00:41:01and then talk about marriage

00:41:05Don't rush marriage

00:41:07Don't get married in a hurry

00:41:09You will get to know

00:41:11about families

00:41:13When you are arranging marriage

00:41:15some boys

00:41:17already know

00:41:19that I don't want a working lady

00:41:21I want to marry a housewife

00:41:23So everyone has their own demands

00:41:25Like girl's demands

00:41:27Like I want a son-in-law

00:41:29who is a government officer

00:41:31I don't want a doctor

00:41:33I want an engineer

00:41:35Everyone has their own demands

00:41:37Before marriage

00:41:39Let's tell them

00:41:41that I don't want a working lady

00:41:43Most of them say

00:41:45that I want a housewife

00:41:47That's right

00:41:49Many people say

00:41:51that they want doctors

00:41:53After marriage

00:41:55Many people say

00:41:57that they want doctors

00:41:59After marriage

00:42:01If she is a doctor

00:42:03She will work

00:42:05After marriage

00:42:07Parents have their own rules

00:42:09Before marriage

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