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00:00It was fun, and at first, we were nervous, actually, but I brought him so that the atmosphere wouldn't get awkward.
00:11I didn't expect it because I thought we were shy because we haven't talked to each other yet.
00:15I was surprised at how many stories he had to tell.
00:18It never ended, and the date never became boring.
00:21I didn't feel shy when he called me because we're super vibes.
00:24I just want to say thank you, Julian, for the day-to-day.
00:27I enjoyed it a lot. You called me and told me a lot of stories.
00:32If we're ever going to meet again, I can't wait.
00:36Our date with Sean was great because we became comfortable with each other.
00:40He was happy to be with me.
00:42I liked Eliza because she's easy to talk to.
00:45She's kind, and she makes you wait.
00:47I didn't expect that we'd get mad at each other.
00:50Thank you for the date. I enjoyed this date.
00:53Same.
00:55I really enjoyed it.
00:57Thank you.
01:04My date with Marlis was really fun.
01:07I enjoyed our company together.
01:09We got along better. We got each other's happiness.
01:13I got attached to her because we're the same.
01:17She has a genuine heart.
01:19Bianca, thank you so much for choosing me.
01:22I'm so happy because I've only experienced this once in a lifetime.
01:26I really enjoyed this date.
01:28I don't blame you for choosing me.
01:51In exchange for happiness, they share their love.
01:54I thought it was solemn.
01:57I thought it was solemn.
01:58Your vibe earlier was serious.
02:01There are things that need to be shouted to be heard more.
02:07From the bottom of your heart.
02:10So in exchange for happiness, they share their love.
02:14They push their anger away from each other.
02:19And they don't come back.
02:22Because no one will change in this family.
02:28That's our story here at...
02:30Especially For You.
02:33Another heartbreak story that we'll hear today.
02:37Wow, that's new.
02:40Really?
02:43When did we talk about success stories?
02:48This is even newer.
02:49We also have a gift for those who just met.
02:53Wow, that's exciting.
02:56Guess what?
02:57Sakara Cafe in Loyola Heights, Quezon City.
03:00I like that name.
03:02Before their world was filled with anger,
03:06how did their love for each other come to be?
03:11Here's our special couple for today.
03:16Thank you, Garrett Bolton.
03:19The ever-so-good Garrett Bolton.
03:21He looks so good with Garrett.
03:23Hurting each other, the carpenter's baby.
03:25He looks good with all of you.
03:26Even if he comes here with a glass of wine, he can handle it.
03:30He can handle everything.
03:32You got it all.
03:33You got it all for you.
03:36Hello, welcome to Especially For You.
03:38Chichay.
03:40And...
03:41Aldrin.
03:42Aldrin's name spelling is so simple.
03:45He needs to simplify it so that it's similar to Chichay.
03:51Why Chichay?
03:53It's my nickname.
03:55I hope your nickname is Chichay.
03:58Your real name is Chichay.
04:02My name is Chichay Cubarubia.
04:05What's your real first name?
04:07Cheryl.
04:10Who called you Chichay?
04:11Chichay.
04:13Chiril, Chiril, Chiril, Chichay.
04:17Chichay.
04:18Che, Che, Chichay.
04:23Where are you from?
04:24Lipa, Batangas.
04:27Bulalo is delicious there.
04:29We ate bulalo there.
04:32Bulalo in Batangas.
04:33It's delicious.
04:34Where is it?
04:35In Tagaytay.
04:36In Batangas.
04:37In Lipa.
04:38We shot there.
04:39It's beautiful.
04:41We ate lomi there.
04:44Hello, Aldrin.
04:45Hello.
04:46How are you?
04:47I'm fine.
04:48Did you reach the top?
04:50Yes, he reached it.
04:52Because he was tiptoeing while sitting.
04:56If you tiptoe, you might fall down.
04:59He's just cooling down.
05:00He's cooling down.
05:01I think this chair is hydraulic.
05:03He might fall down.
05:04No, he didn't.
05:06He just cooled down.
05:07It's not because of the height.
05:08He's just cooling down.
05:09He's just cooling down.
05:10It's a good thing that you're wearing warm clothes.
05:13It warms up the feeling.
05:15How are you?
05:16You're just cooling down.
05:17You don't feel anything else.
05:18You're just cooling down.
05:20A bit.
05:21You're shaking.
05:22I'm just shaking.
05:23Get him a pregnancy test.
05:26I'm just shaking.
05:27It's a pregnancy test, okay?
05:29The rain...
05:31He didn't buy it, right?
05:33Sorry.
05:35I'm joking.
05:36It's a pregnancy test.
05:37It's a pregnancy test.
05:38Some people might think that.
05:40You're thinking too much.
05:42I'm thinking.
05:43Then I said,
05:44and you didn't buy it.
05:45I said,
05:46it's a pregnancy test.
05:47It's really me.
05:48Then you said,
05:49what did you say?
05:50He really didn't buy it.
05:51Maybe he's nervous.
05:52Don't be so cute.
05:53You're a student today.
05:55Okay.
05:56What are you saying?
05:57No.
05:58Sometimes,
05:59we put our feet here.
06:01Do you want us to put our feet here?
06:03No.
06:04He might sit down.
06:05He might fall down.
06:06He's cute.
06:07Are you from Lipa, Aldrin?
06:08Yes.
06:10Lipa City,
06:11Cayo Manggi.
06:12What?
06:13Lipa City,
06:14Cayo Manggi.
06:15Marangay Cayo Manggi.
06:17Cayo Manggi,
06:18Lipa City.
06:19It's not Lipa City,
06:20but Cayo Manggi.
06:22Is there a Lipa City in Cayo Manggi?
06:25Cayo Manggi,
06:26Lipa City.
06:28They're still young.
06:29Chichay and Aldrin are only 19.
06:31They're still young.
06:33Jacky,
06:34did you join us?
06:35Jacky.
06:36Why?
06:37He has a lot of insights
06:39about TV.
06:40Yes.
06:41About life.
06:42Yes.
06:43Yes,
06:44as long as we can see your tears.
06:46Hey.
06:48Hi.
06:49Chichay and Aldrin,
06:51what are you eating?
06:53I'm eating pickles.
06:55That's vinegar.
06:56You're eating pickles.
06:57No.
06:58Don't put it there.
06:59Why don't you like the smell of vinegar?
07:01It's okay.
07:02But she's eating pickles.
07:03She's not gargling.
07:04That's why it's running out.
07:05I'm not gargling.
07:06It's sour cream, sir.
07:08She's not gargling.
07:09It's sour cream.
07:10The vinegar and pickles are different.
07:12It's different.
07:14It's okay.
07:15Hi.
07:16How are you?
07:17It smells good.
07:18It's new.
07:19What?
07:20Sour cream?
07:21No, crackers.
07:22Yes.
07:23It's new.
07:24It just opened.
07:25Can I fix your hair?
07:26Yes, please.
07:27Thank you so much.
07:28You're so beautiful.
07:29He's a senior hairstylist.
07:31Yes,
07:32for you.
07:34Are you studying?
07:35Yes.
07:36She's studying.
07:37Oh, that's good to know, Chichay.
07:41She's not gargling.
07:42I saw that you took a cracker in your mouth.
07:47That's good to know.
07:48Piti-piti.
07:49You're so naughty.
07:50Someone pinched her.
07:52She's so naughty.
07:54Just like that.
07:56Where did you learn that?
07:57Are you a referee?
07:59Just a warning.
08:01She's studying.
08:03Tell that to Jong.
08:04Jong is studying, Chichay.
08:06I heard that too.
08:07Yes.
08:08I repeated it.
08:09Where?
08:10STI Lipa.
08:12STI Lipa.
08:14STI Lipa, Jong.
08:17What does STI mean?
08:21It's a name.
08:22What?
08:23I have no idea.
08:24Really?
08:30Systems Technological Institute.
08:33Oh, the person's name is Ama.
08:34Yes.
08:36AMA.
08:37Alma Moreno Akad.
08:40STI is Socksitupasyo Institute.
08:43It used to be School of Acting.
08:45Socksitupasyo.
08:47Systems Technology Institute.
08:49Memorize it.
08:53It's important.
08:54You know what?
08:55I need to call everyone.
08:56I'm calling everyone in the school.
08:57Please make sure that you know what STI means.
08:59I'm OBMCI.
09:00Operation Brotherhood Medisari Center Incorporated.
09:03Wow.
09:05Aldrin might know it.
09:07Memorize it.
09:08Where are you studying now?
09:10I'm not enrolled yet.
09:12Where?
09:13I'm not studying now.
09:14Where were you studying before?
09:15Where did you graduate?
09:16Mabini Academy.
09:18C-Plan.
09:20What's the name of Mabini in your school?
09:24Is it Apolinario?
09:25Yes.
09:26Apolinario.
09:27You're young.
09:28Yes.
09:29It's not because it's Mabini.
09:30It's Apolinario.
09:31There are a lot of Mabini.
09:32What else?
09:34There's Mabini School of Pole Dancing.
09:36In Ermita, Mabini.
09:38There are a lot of them.
09:40Back in the 80s,
09:41there were a lot of agogo dancers in Mabini.
09:43The fans of Mabini.
09:44Yes.
09:45Mabini.
09:46Mabini.
09:47Yes.
09:48The fans of Riot.
09:49What?
09:50It's Mabahu.
09:52It's a rival.
09:53It's you.
09:54It's Mabahu.
09:56Riot said,
09:57you should've said it earlier.
09:58You should've admitted it.
10:00I'm joking.
10:01You never became Mabahu.
10:02Yes.
10:03Sorry, Johnny.
10:05My son is Mabahu.
10:06Yes.
10:07Maybe my nose is just a lump.
10:11My nose is a problem.
10:13Okay, you're the students in Lipa.
10:16Are you schoolmates?
10:17Not really.
10:19No.
10:20Aldrin graduated.
10:21He's working now.
10:22He's not studying anymore.
10:24Business.
10:25What business?
10:26What's your business, Aldrin?
10:27Heels.
10:30What?
10:31Vape shop.
10:32Ah!
10:33Vape shop.
10:34What's that for?
10:35For beefsteak?
10:36No.
10:37Vape shop.
10:38Vape.
10:39Vape.
10:40Vape.
10:41Vape.
10:42I don't know how to make beefsteak.
10:44What's that?
10:45Bussina.
10:47That's vape.
10:48Vape.
10:49Vape.
10:50Vape.
10:51Vape.
10:52Okay.
10:53Anyway.
10:54You're not studying anymore.
10:55You're doing business.
10:56Yes, ma'am.
10:57Okay.
10:58You're living in a house.
10:59Chichay seems quiet.
11:00Are you shy?
11:01Are you shy?
11:02Yes, ma'am.
11:03Do you want to run?
11:04Get the computer.
11:05Yes, ma'am.
11:08In what...
11:10In a subdivision.
11:13How many divisions are there?
11:17It's just...
11:19Is your house next to the subdivision?
11:21It's adjacent.
11:22The house.
11:23Your house is adjacent?
11:24So when you open the door, you'll be able to enter the house?
11:27It's too adjacent.
11:28Yes, it's like that.
11:29When you open the door of your house,
11:30you'll be able to enter the house when you go out.
11:33Then you'll say,
11:34Hey, what are you doing here?
11:35No, I'm just passing by.
11:37Drive-thru.
11:38You'll avoid facing your door.
11:40Yes.
11:41Because when you go out of your house,
11:42you'll be able to enter another house.
11:44That's the level of facing?
11:46No, ma'am.
11:47There's a road.
11:48There's space.
11:49No, it's a house.
11:50There's space.
11:51Yes.
11:52So your house,
11:54there's a road,
11:55a car,
11:56and a person.
11:57Then there's a house.
11:58It's not our house.
11:59It's my sister's house.
12:01So you can see through the window?
12:02When you open your eyes,
12:04you can see?
12:05No.
12:06You can see.
12:08You can see.
12:09You can see.
12:10Yes.
12:11Is there something new about you?
12:12Did you gain weight?
12:14No, I'm just fat now.
12:15I don't know.
12:16You seem to be a bit chubby.
12:17Oh my gosh.
12:19If you're going to answer,
12:20tell me.
12:21Why?
12:22So we can be together.
12:23I'm drooling.
12:24Is there a promo?
12:26Is there a promo?
12:27Buy one, take one?
12:28Yes.
12:29Inject two.
12:31Inject two, pre-pour.
12:32I'm drooling.
12:34That's just a glass.
12:35Yes.
12:36Dambo is going to join me.
12:37Really?
12:38He's going to give me an injection.
12:39Really?
12:40Where?
12:41Because Dambo used to have a cheekbone.
12:42It fell here.
12:45I'll be with you.
12:46It really fell.
12:47If the clinic isn't good,
12:48it falls.
12:49That's what you need.
12:50You need to take care of it.
12:51It tightens the skin.
12:52Enhancement.
12:54Anyway,
12:55so you're going to live together?
12:57Yes.
12:58Because
12:59it's her house.
13:00It's her sister's house.
13:01It's her sister's house.
13:03I'm not arguing with you.
13:04I just said that they're going to live together.
13:06Maybe he's just visiting his sister.
13:08Or maybe you're living with your sister?
13:09We're just on vacation.
13:11So when you're on vacation with your sister,
13:12you're living with your sister?
13:14No, we're just on vacation.
13:16So you're going out?
13:17When night comes,
13:18you don't sleep there?
13:22When you're on vacation,
13:23there's a point
13:24where you're living with them.
13:26Yes.
13:27How many days?
13:28How many days is that?
13:29Day?
13:30Month?
13:31Yes.
13:32In fact, I can't blame you.
13:33You're an STI,
13:34so you can't remember.
13:35Do you still remember
13:36if you're living with your sister?
13:38How many days did you stay there?
13:41About
13:42a month?
13:43Yes, a month.
13:44That's it.
13:45Pandemic.
13:47It was a pandemic.
13:49She only stayed there for a month,
13:50but she passed away.
13:52But where's your house originally?
13:54In Bugtong.
13:55Where?
13:56In Bugtong.
13:57Bugtong?
13:58There's a princess
13:59sitting on a cup.
14:00A cup?
14:01You're so fast!
14:04Like that.
14:05Tarzan is already there.
14:06The path is already divided.
14:07Seapair.
14:09Here's Caca.
14:10You're going to open up.
14:12Scissor.
14:13Guntel.
14:14Guntel.
14:15Guntel.
14:17What do you know about Bugtong?
14:19It's a place where
14:20the skin of a cow flies.
14:22Saranggola.
14:25This one.
14:27There's no foot,
14:28but it stands.
14:32What's that?
14:34Argumento.
14:36Argumento.
14:42You know that one.
14:43There's no foot,
14:44but it stands.
14:46What's that?
14:48What's that?
14:49Candela.
14:50Principio.
14:54He really wants to tweet a lot.
14:58My pig on the tree,
14:59I'm still alive.
15:02What?
15:03You're lame.
15:06You're so lame.
15:07You're so lame.
15:10Jackie already said that.
15:11Jackie, why did you say that?
15:12You're embarrassing me.
15:13You're embarrassing me.
15:15I'll help you.
15:16I'll help you, Junior.
15:17There's one.
15:22What's that smell?
15:27I'm sorry.
15:31Itay's arm is full of blood.
15:34Itay's arm is full of blood?
15:36You ruined my dad.
15:39That's a good one.
15:40Itay's arm is full of blood?
15:42You ruined my dad.
15:45What?
15:46Mais.
15:48I thought it was a frog.
15:49I thought it was a frog.
15:52There's a tree,
15:53what's the fruit?
15:55One more.
15:56There's a tree,
15:57what's the fruit?
15:59What?
16:01It's corn.
16:06There's a tree,
16:07what's the fruit?
16:08What?
16:10When it ripened, it got wet.
16:14What's that?
16:15Is that corn?
16:16Gripo.
16:19He opened it.
16:22He said,
16:23Is that corn?
16:24What did you think?
16:25I gave it to you as a gift.
16:28I gave it to you as a gift.
16:31Is there something like that in Korea?
16:33There's nothing like that.
16:36Buktong buktong,
16:37ihipan mo,
16:38bubuka.
16:40Ihipan mo,
16:41bubuka.
16:42One more.
16:43Ihipan mo,
16:44bubuka.
16:47He forgot.
16:50That's my son.
16:51That's my son.
16:52Son,
16:53why did you hide it?
16:54Why?
16:55There,
16:56it's still there.
17:02He forgot.
17:04Anyway,
17:05it's part of what we're learning.
17:07Yes.
17:08Buktong buktong,
17:09riddle?
17:10What's it called in English?
17:11Riddle.
17:12Riddle.
17:15Riddle.
17:16Okay.
17:17So,
17:18you ran into each other in a place.
17:21Did he notice you?
17:23Or did you notice him?
17:24I noticed him.
17:25Because?
17:27What's special about him?
17:28We bumped into each other.
17:30Then?
17:31He didn't have a foot,
17:32so he walked.
17:33Okay.
17:36He's a flappy bird.
17:41So, we bumped into each other.
17:42Chichay,
17:43no foot is standing.
17:50Ouch!
17:51Why?
17:52I remember.
17:53Buktong is beautiful.
17:54You're so cute.
17:55I remember, guys.
17:57You remember,
17:58no foot is standing?
17:59No.
18:00What?
18:02I remember something.
18:03What is it?
18:04When it got cold,
18:06it stood up.
18:12I'll say it again.
18:13I'll say it again.
18:14When it got cold,
18:16it stood up.
18:17What is it?
18:18City of Pine.
18:19What is it?
18:22Flappy bird.
18:23Wow.
18:24Flappy bird.
18:25Wow.
18:26Wow.
18:27Isn't it cold now,
18:28Madam People?
18:29Our air conditioner is on.
18:30I thought it was a boat.
18:31Yes.
18:32Because we're floating,
18:33Paris fans.
18:34When it got cold,
18:35it stood up.
18:36Ouch!
18:37What is it?
18:38Ice.
18:39Ice.
18:40Yes, water
18:41becomes ice.
18:42It's beautiful.
18:43You're so good
18:44with Buktong.
18:45And science,
18:46right?
18:47Yes.
18:49And chemistry.
18:51Yes.
18:52There's a chemical reaction.
18:54Yes.
18:58You're good at this.
18:59Thank you.
19:00You're good at this.
19:02Anyway,
19:03you met each other.
19:05What's special about that meeting?
19:08Nothing.
19:09We haven't met yet.
19:10You didn't notice him.
19:12Yes.
19:13We just passed by.
19:14What did he do?
19:15Why didn't you notice him?
19:17He was throwing garbage.
19:19What?
19:20In the ocean.
19:21In the ocean.
19:23Why did he throw garbage in the ocean?
19:25In the right trash.
19:27In the right trash.
19:28That's right.
19:29You're doing a good job, Aldrie.
19:31It's not the day of dust.
19:33It's the day of dust.
19:35It's the day of dust.
19:37It's the day of dust.
19:38He was throwing garbage.
19:39You didn't notice him.
19:40But nothing.
19:41You just saw him.
19:42When did it start?
19:44There's an attraction.
19:47I met him first
19:48when I was pregnant.
19:49He's my sister's husband.
19:51Then,
19:52they got together
19:53because of the Saranggola.
19:55That's a long story.
19:56Let's go back to that.
19:57When did your attraction start?
20:00When we swam.
20:02Swimming.
20:03You met there.
20:04You didn't swim yet.
20:06Then?
20:07We met there.
20:09Then?
20:10When we got home,
20:11he chatted with me
20:12until our conversation continued.
20:15It's fun to be in the river.
20:16Something happened in the river.
20:19Because of the river,
20:20he became a swimmer.
20:27Because of the river,
20:29he has a round brain.
20:34After a few months,
20:35he has a broken heart.
20:41Because of the encounter
20:42you had in the river,
20:45you felt something there
20:47after you went to the river.
20:50Yes.
20:52I had a crush on him
20:55when I first saw him.
20:58Then,
20:59I noticed that
21:00I invited them to go to the river
21:02because I'm close to his family.
21:04Bayao,
21:05his brother.
21:07Then,
21:08we went to the river.
21:10I chatted with him
21:11and he confessed to me.
21:12You didn't ask him directly.
21:14He confessed to me too.
21:16He confessed to you?
21:17He confessed to you?
21:18He confessed to me.
21:19Why didn't you confess to him in the river?
21:20You even went home.
21:22I think he has company.
21:25This is quick.
21:26Did you become a couple immediately?
21:27No.
21:28Because you bet on each other.
21:29No.
21:30Why?
21:31Even if you bet on each other,
21:32why didn't you become a couple?
21:34I didn't want to rush it.
21:38After one month,
21:39I...
21:41It's long, right?
21:43We talked about it.
21:44You didn't want to rush it because?
21:46Because we just met.
21:49It took at least one month.
21:51I met him first.
21:53It was a trial.
21:54Yes.
21:55Getting to know.
21:56True.
21:58Did you become a couple immediately?
22:01No.
22:03Did you date for a long time?
22:04Yes.
22:05About two to three months.
22:07I thought it was two to three days.
22:09Two to three months is fast.
22:10No.
22:11It should be a month.
22:12You should get to know him first.
22:13How is he?
22:14How is he?
22:15How many months was the last time?
22:17How many months?
22:19How many months did you date?
22:21About three months.
22:23So, you were just tempted by the showtime.
22:25Right.
22:27No.
22:28You were scared.
22:30It's long, right?
22:31It's been two to three months.
22:34It's annoying.
22:35It's easy for you to fall,
22:36but it's long for you to move on.
22:40If you could only wish
22:42how fast you could get over the pain.
22:48Anyway, after dating for a month,
22:50how long was your relationship?
22:52Three years.
22:53Three years.
22:54How was it?
22:56It was okay at first,
22:58but as time went by,
23:00we became toxic.
23:03How long was it okay?
23:05How many weeks?
23:06How many months?
23:07About one year, we were okay.
23:10How many months did you date?
23:11Three years.
23:12Three years and six months.
23:13It was okay for one year.
23:15At least, it was okay for one year.
23:18You were okay for one year.
23:20What kind of okay was it?
23:23We were both happy.
23:26There was no problem.
23:28Yes, there was no problem.
23:30Then, when two years passed,
23:34that's when it became toxic.
23:36What happened?
23:37What happened in your second year?
23:40What happened?
23:42It became toxic.
23:46We fought a lot.
23:49Like what?
23:51What did you fight, Aldrin?
23:53Time and my friend.
23:56Your time was lost because of your friend.
24:00Yes.
24:02You had more time with your friend than with him.
24:04Is that so?
24:05No, his watch was on the boat.
24:06That's why they fought a lot.
24:08How much time did you have with him?
24:10He had more time with him than with the boat.
24:12But they still fought.
24:13What do you mean you had more time with me?
24:14You were on the boat.
24:16How much time did you have with your friend than with Chichay?
24:19It became 70-30.
24:2270%.
24:23And there was school.
24:25What was your trip with your friend?
24:27Why were you always together?
24:2970% of your time goes to them.
24:32Drinks, bars, and...
24:37Just silly things.
24:39Like what?
24:40We were happy.
24:41What were the silly things?
24:42You stole at 7-Eleven.
24:45Mimetic, mimetic.
24:47Going 1, 2, 3 at the bar.
24:48Mimetic.
24:49You did that too.
24:51Admit it.
24:52No, no.
24:53When you were studying.
24:54I was thinking about it.
24:55When you went on trips.
24:57I was tempted.
24:59I was tempted but I didn't do it.
25:00You were tempted?
25:01Yes.
25:02Because you know those things that make you smell good?
25:04The ones with colors.
25:06Cologne.
25:07Cologne.
25:08Yes.
25:09Because it looks like...
25:10Gross.
25:11It looks like a pilot.
25:12Gross, Josh.
25:13It looks like a pilot's sign pen.
25:14Dolphin.
25:16What kind?
25:17Pilot.
25:18But I didn't try it.
25:19Yes.
25:20Very bad.
25:21Yes.
25:22Very bad.
25:23Okay.
25:24So, you had a fight back then.
25:26You always fought.
25:27That's it.
25:28No more issues.
25:29That's it?
25:31There are other things too.
25:33But just small things.
25:35You need to tell them.
25:36So that our report can be complete.
25:39Investigate.
25:40Investigate.
25:41Just small things.
25:42Yes.
25:43And it grows.
25:44It grows.
25:45Because...
25:46What are those small things that grow?
25:47Yes.
25:48What is that?
25:49Is that a bug?
25:50No.
25:51Problem.
25:52What are those small things that grow?
25:54For example,
25:56I want to show it to him,
25:59but he doesn't want to.
26:00Sometimes, he gets lazy.
26:02So, you get angry?
26:04No.
26:05Sometimes, when we fight,
26:08he won't stop me.
26:11But...
26:13That's it.
26:15So, when that happens, you get angry.
26:17You get angry, of course.
26:18I just get angry.
26:19I don't get angry.
26:21But is there a silent treatment?
26:22Or how?
26:23You don't talk?
26:24No.
26:25Question.
26:26Because I always hear that.
26:28You're always angry.
26:29I'm not angry.
26:30I just got angry.
26:32How can we differentiate
26:34what we're acting
26:36when we get angry
26:37compared to when we're angry?
26:40Right?
26:41How can your partner know
26:42that you're just angry and not angry?
26:44What's the difference?
26:45When you get angry,
26:46what do you do?
26:49I tell him.
26:51I tell him.
26:53What?
26:54That I'm sulking.
26:55When you get angry,
26:56what do you say?
26:57I don't talk to him.
27:00So, when you're sulking,
27:01you talk to him?
27:02But he's cold.
27:04It's like I just asked
27:05for a confrontation with him.
27:08What?
27:09I just asked for a confrontation.
27:11So, it's like...
27:12Do you want a confrontation
27:13when you're sulking?
27:14I feel like sulking is like lumbing.
27:16Yes.
27:17And if you don't push him,
27:18he'll get mad.
27:19Yes.
27:20He'll get mad.
27:22So, when you're sulking,
27:23you get angry.
27:24Yes.
27:25But you're not angry.
27:26You get angry
27:27because you're sulking.
27:28Because you're talking to him.
27:29Yes.
27:30And if you don't push him
27:31or you get into a fight,
27:32that's when you get mad.
27:34If you don't push him,
27:35he'll get mad.
27:36And when he doesn't push you,
27:37that's when he'll get mad.
27:38Yes.
27:41How does he get mad?
27:43Do you still remember, Aldrin?
27:46He's cold.
27:47When he gets mad,
27:48he gets mad.
27:49When he gets mad,
27:50he's hot.
27:52When he gets mad,
27:53he's just like,
27:54okay, that's it.
27:55Okay, that's it.
27:56But when he gets mad,
27:57he doesn't chat anymore.
28:01He doesn't call me anymore.
28:02He wants to talk to me.
28:05I don't want that anymore.
28:07That's why I get mad at him.
28:09Actually, in the text,
28:10you can feel it
28:11when there's something, right?
28:12Yes.
28:13There's something missing
28:14in the usual message.
28:15Yes.
28:16Like, for example,
28:17it's always,
28:18eat, babe.
28:19Drink water, babe.
28:21When there's no babe,
28:22you know there's something.
28:23Yes.
28:24Eat.
28:25Where are you?
28:26I'm here, babe.
28:27Where are you?
28:28I'm here.
28:30Like that.
28:31And there's no push,
28:32no extra,
28:33no enemy.
28:35Be careful, okay?
28:37Be careful.
28:39It's more painful
28:40to be careful.
28:42Yes.
28:43You don't know what that is.
28:44Yes.
28:45Yes.
28:47But it's more difficult
28:48to say,
28:49I.
28:50Yes.
28:51I.
28:52It's better for you
28:53if it's ngat.
28:55Ngat.
28:56Ngat.
28:57And the spelling,
28:58the spelling of I love you.
29:00It's different.
29:01Darren said,
29:02Darren,
29:03I love you,
29:04completely.
29:05And if there's I.
29:06Yes, completely.
29:07If there's only love you,
29:08it's less.
29:09What's that again, Darren?
29:10What's that?
29:11If there's I,
29:12it's more meaningful.
29:13It's romantic.
29:14And the spelling is complete?
29:15Yes,
29:16I love you.
29:17What if the I
29:18is just for a friend?
29:19What if it's,
29:20I wuv you?
29:21Yes.
29:22I haven't experienced
29:23I wuv you yet.
29:24He doesn't want to be called.
29:25What if it's,
29:26I yaba yaba you eh?
29:28I yaba yaba you eh?
29:30He's drunk.
29:31What if it's
29:32Bini Sina?
29:34What if it's I,
29:35A-Y?
29:37There.
29:38He's surprised.
29:39I love you.
29:41Oh.
29:42So,
29:43if you don't want to confront,
29:46he wants to confront,
29:48you'll explode?
29:50Yes,
29:51we don't have that kind of relationship.
29:53I really don't want to be teased.
29:56I just want,
29:58one sorry,
29:59that's it.
30:00That's it.
30:01No more talking,
30:03let's just let it go.
30:05How long have you been like that?
30:07You've been like that for two years?
30:08Always?
30:09Yes.
30:10Most of the time?
30:11Most of the time.
30:12We also have a routine of fighting.
30:14Wow.
30:15That's nice.
30:16You fight more often
30:17than you drink water?
30:19Routine,
30:20like once a week?
30:21You fight more often
30:22than you drink water?
30:23How often, Aldrin?
30:25As in everyday?
30:28Twice a week,
30:29thrice a week.
30:30Wow.
30:31That's heavy.
30:32You have a schedule.
30:33What is it,
30:34when you see each other?
30:35Or even if you don't?
30:37Even if we don't see each other.
30:38If you don't see each other.
30:40You fight a lot.
30:42Is there an issue
30:43or are you not fighting?
30:44Yes.
30:45Who's the problem?
30:47Him.
30:48He's angry.
30:50Why is he angry, Aldrin?
30:53He's kind,
30:54but he's quick to get angry.
30:58We just woke up,
30:59and he's already angry.
31:00I don't know what the problem is.
31:02There, he's angry.
31:06But if he gets angry
31:07and you don't have breakfast,
31:08that's fine.
31:09Because he just woke up.
31:10He ate first.
31:12When that happens to us,
31:14for example,
31:15he fights with me.
31:16I just woke up.
31:17Whether it's in the afternoon
31:18or in the morning,
31:19I can't talk to him anymore.
31:22Their issues are unresolved.
31:25Chichay, you said earlier
31:26that there's a problem or not,
31:27there's an issue or not,
31:28you're fighting.
31:29Yes.
31:30You're the one who's fighting.
31:32I don't fight
31:33if there's no reason.
31:35But you said
31:36there's an issue or not.
31:38So you have an issue
31:39because he's not here?
31:41I have an issue.
31:43What is your issue with Aldrin?
31:45The...
31:48I know that
31:50I'm very immature in this part.
31:53The way he adds other girls.
31:56That's my issue with him.
31:59Because I feel
32:01that I'm insecure.
32:04He adds other girls
32:05as friends.
32:06So it should be exclusive to you
32:08and only to men
32:09in social media?
32:10Is that how it should be?
32:11Yes.
32:12You're asking me
32:13what's the purpose
32:14of adding others.
32:16And he can't answer me.
32:20Is that fair?
32:22For example,
32:23you have a girlfriend
32:24or a partner
32:25that you need to explain
32:26to her every time you add someone.
32:27I just added this person
32:28because...
32:30Is that normal?
32:31Is that okay?
32:32If you think
32:33that you need to explain
32:34to her
32:36why
32:38and what's the reason
32:39why you add other people.
32:41You, as a woman.
32:43I feel
32:44that if you don't know
32:46the random reasons
32:48why you add
32:50I don't understand
32:51why you do that.
32:53If you're working
32:55it's okay
32:57to add.
32:58It's a connection.
32:59Then you became friends
33:00and met this person.
33:01But the random reason
33:02that you saw here
33:03because of the picture
33:04that you added.
33:05You're beautiful.
33:06Yes.
33:07It's like there's something
33:08that you didn't add.
33:11On Facebook?
33:12Yes, something like that.
33:14Is it you?
33:15If you didn't add
33:16anything,
33:17is that okay?
33:18I actually don't care.
33:20She's secure.
33:21First of all,
33:22we don't
33:23use social media
33:24to...
33:26It's up to you.
33:27I don't want to
33:28problem who you add.
33:29It's like
33:30it's up to me
33:31who you add.
33:32I can feel that.
33:33If that happened,
33:34for sure,
33:35I would know.
33:36There's nothing
33:37that I can't do.
33:39I can feel
33:40that whether you add
33:41or not,
33:42you'll change me.
33:43You'll change me.
33:44I can feel that.
33:46My partner
33:47is not like that.
33:49She trusts you.
33:50Yes.
33:51I don't...
33:52I'm sure
33:53she has problems
33:54when there's a trust issue.
33:56Now,
33:57Chichay
33:58said that
33:59she's insecure
34:00when someone
34:01adds her.
34:02Aldrin,
34:03why are you insecure?
34:05I feel like
34:07she's not...
34:09She's still attracted
34:10to others.
34:12Is that true, Aldrin?
34:14Are you still attracted
34:15to others?
34:16No,
34:17because
34:18I have a purpose
34:19when I add.
34:20It's not because
34:21I like the person
34:22or I'm beautiful
34:23to the person.
34:24It's not like that.
34:25I did that
34:26because of my business.
34:27I do that
34:28because
34:29I have people
34:30around me.
34:31So, you know
34:32each other.
34:33Network.
34:34That's why
34:35you're together.
34:36For network.
34:37Mutual friends.
34:38Oh, for network.
34:39Yes.
34:40So, you have more
34:41business partners.
34:42Yes,
34:43but she can't understand
34:44that I always tell her
34:45that's why we're together.
34:46But you don't
34:47have a girlfriend.
34:48She never caught you.
34:49Or did she catch you?
34:50No, she didn't.
34:52Oh, she didn't catch you.
34:53Oh, my God.
34:54That's why
34:55you're together.
34:56Oh, my God.
34:57That's why
34:58you're together.
35:01She didn't catch you.
35:02She said,
35:03I can really be an investigator.
35:04I can convince her.
35:05She'll admit it.
35:06You have
35:07superpowers.
35:08If you ask me casually,
35:10I can convince her.
35:12Your Honor.
35:13Your Honor.
35:14If you make her feel
35:15that you're investigating,
35:16you can't convince her.
35:17But if you
35:18ask her casually,
35:19she'll admit it.
35:20Your Honor,
35:21can I request
35:22for a 5-minute recess?
35:23I'll talk to my client.
35:26I can.
35:27I can't
35:28leave her now.
35:30He felt it.
35:31He felt it.
35:33If you insist
35:34that you didn't do anything,
35:35we can say
35:36that she's your girlfriend.
35:38But if she really did it,
35:40she'll feel it.
35:42Chichi's instinct is right.
35:44That's why
35:45Chichi's reaction
35:46is,
35:47you're so clingy.
35:48I'm still wearing my zipper.
35:52I'm so clingy.
35:54I'm just going to
35:55do my thing.
35:57You have games
35:58but you weren't caught.
36:00I won't be caught
36:01because I didn't do it.
36:04He thought about it.
36:06He always
36:07reminds me
36:08of this and that.
36:10So, you admit
36:11that you didn't
36:12do anything
36:13that was
36:14too much
36:15or too much
36:16for the girls.
36:17You're thinking about it.
36:19Nothing.
36:21After I thought about it,
36:22there's nothing.
36:23Nothing.
36:25Let's give him
36:26the benefit of the doubt.
36:28Let's ask Chichi.
36:29Chichi,
36:30did you feel
36:31that you were caught?
36:32Yes, let's go back
36:33to the feeling.
36:34Did you feel
36:35that you were caught?
36:37Nothing.
36:40If you can't prove anything,
36:41do you rest your case?
36:44Yes.
36:45It's like,
36:47I'm aware
36:48that I'm doubting him.
36:52Because
36:53he said
36:54that there's nothing.
36:55He's still doubting.
36:56Even if we're fooling him,
36:57he's still doubting.
36:58There's nothing.
36:59And you said
37:00that you didn't prove anything.
37:03Most of his friends
37:06like to make fun of me.
37:08Like,
37:09you're with someone else.
37:10Who's that?
37:11Like that.
37:12He gets T.H.
37:13when he's joking.
37:14He gets jealous
37:15when he's like that.
37:16Yes.
37:17He thinks it's true.
37:19Do you have a problem?
37:20Do you have
37:21insecurity issues?
37:22Do you?
37:23Yes, I do.
37:25You need to resolve that.
37:26Yes.
37:27Maybe he's doing something
37:29that you're feeling.
37:30Maybe he's not.
37:32We all have insecurity issues.
37:35You need to figure out
37:37where it's coming from.
37:40Where are your fears coming from?
37:43Your doubts.
37:46Things like that.
37:48I'm just afraid
37:50that
37:51when he's attracted to someone,
37:53he'll leave me.
37:55Because before,
37:56he confessed to me
37:57that he's a womanizer.
38:00That's why.
38:02Yeah.
38:03So,
38:04when you overthink,
38:06because you're thinking ahead,
38:09you're putting the problem first.
38:12That's why you don't have a problem yet.
38:14You're there
38:15and you're putting the problem first.
38:17Right?
38:18If he's attracted,
38:19he'll leave me.
38:21What if he's attracted
38:22but he won't leave you?
38:23Is that okay?
38:25And a question.
38:27When you have a boyfriend,
38:28are you not attracted to others?
38:34Right?
38:35Are you not totally attracted?
38:37Or are you still attracted
38:38but discreetly?
38:40He's not wrong.
38:41Yes, I'm attracted
38:42but there's a line.
38:44Right?
38:45There's a limitation.
38:46I'm attracted
38:47but there's a limitation.
38:48Is that okay?
38:49I'm attracted to him
38:50but it's just an attraction.
38:51I love him.
38:52I'm just attracted
38:53because he's really sexy.
38:54Right.
38:55Or he's really handsome.
38:56Right?
38:57I appreciate him.
38:58He's really kind.
39:00You won't do anything
39:01to pursue what you feel.
39:03So, you think that's normal?
39:05That you're still attracted?
39:06Yes.
39:07It's normal.
39:08Of course,
39:09there are people
39:10who are better than you.
39:12People who are better than you.
39:14But it's up to your partner
39:15if you're still the one
39:16he'll choose.
39:17That's the choice.
39:19You're being chosen
39:20every day.
39:21That's why I like you here.
39:22You're sweet.
39:25Right?
39:26You'll be chosen.
39:27I'll see someone else.
39:30I'll see someone else's eyes.
39:32But you're the one
39:33who'll choose my heart and mind.
39:37I'll see someone else.
39:40But you're the one
39:41I'll want to be with
39:43every day in my life.
39:46I think the mind
39:49comes with maturity.
39:51Yes.
39:52It comes with maturity.
39:54And we're all insecure
39:56in our lives.
39:57Not just you.
39:58I have insecurities,
39:59they have insecurities,
40:00we all have insecurities.
40:01That's true.
40:02But we need to re-resolve that
40:04so that we can look at ourselves
40:07and our relationships.
40:09Because insecurity can affect you
40:12and how you treat
40:14other people
40:15and how they treat you.
40:18Right?
40:20There.
40:21Because when you're like that,
40:23you're always thinking
40:25and your patience is weak.
40:27Have you ever been like that?
40:28Your patience is weak?
40:29Yes.
40:30Until now.
40:31Oh no.
40:32Who would want to
40:33make their patience weak?
40:38That's it.
40:39We can't just know
40:41that our patience is weak.
40:43So we need to know
40:45what to do
40:46when I'm about to explode.
40:50Right?
40:51We need to help each other.
40:53Because you can't always be angry.
40:55Although it's normal to get angry.
40:57But we need to process
40:59how to get angry
41:01and what to do
41:02when we get angry.
41:04Or how to avoid
41:06the outburst of anger.
41:08The extreme anger.
41:10I choose anger management.
41:12Yeah.
41:13Sometimes he sings.
41:14Yeah.
41:15How do we manage our anger?
41:17Our sadness?
41:18We need to manage all of that.
41:19Your joy.
41:20We need to manage your joy.
41:22Right?
41:23Your sadness.
41:24Your fears.
41:25Because it's valid to get angry.
41:27But you need to manage it.
41:28Don't overdo it.
41:29Because your anger
41:30can also destroy you.
41:34That's what I lack.
41:36My control.
41:38I can't control myself
41:40when I get angry.
41:42And because of that,
41:43who gets separated?
41:44Me.
41:47Do you think that's the reason
41:50why you get angry?
41:52No.
41:53We have a problem.
41:55What is it?
41:57About us.
42:01It's the most important.
42:03That's why we decided
42:05to separate.
42:06What is it?
42:08About our friendship.
42:10Oh, about your friendship.
42:12Yes.
42:13It's gone.
42:14It's always been about you.
42:16Yes.
42:17Yes.
42:18Why did it go to your friendship?
42:21Because of his attitude.
42:24I'm tired of him making me feel
42:27like I'm being bullied.
42:29Then,
42:31he's always angry.
42:34I'm tired of it.
42:36That's why I'm happier with my friends.
42:38They make me happy.
42:41It's like
42:43it's not fun to go home.
42:47It's not fun to go home
42:49because there's always a fight here.
42:51So, if you want to go home,
42:53you'll just spend time outside.
42:55And when you go home,
42:56you'll be tired.
42:57So, you'll sleep.
42:58So, you'll avoid it.
42:59Because it can't be resolved.
43:01Because it should be resolved.
43:03But it can't be resolved.
43:04So, you silent quit.
43:06You just go home.
43:07You spend your time outside.
43:09Then, you just wait for him to leave you.
43:11He doesn't really understand
43:15what I always prove to him.
43:18When he trusts me,
43:19he doesn't do anything bad to me.
43:21I'm just happy.
43:22I'm just enjoying.
43:23Why didn't you leave the woman
43:25who doesn't trust you
43:26and you're not happy
43:27that's why you're always with your friend?
43:29Why don't you just separate
43:30properly and formally?
43:32I'm afraid that she'll be hurt.
43:35I don't want to suddenly say
43:38that I don't want you anymore.
43:40Let's separate.
43:42It's like,
43:43I just waited for her to give up.
43:47That's really it.
43:48You're waiting for her to give up
43:49that's why you're silent quitting.
44:05You're waiting for her to give up
44:06that's why you're silent quitting.