Aired (May 28, 2024): Kasama ang kanyang best friend na si Jo-an, ibinahagi ni Marianne ang 12-year relationship niya sa kanyang EX at ang limang beses na panloloko nito sa kanya. Pakinggan ang kanyang kuwento sa video na ito.
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00:24 Especially for you.
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00:34 Let's welcome our ex-special visita for today.
00:58 Welcome to Expecially for You.
00:59 I see Marianne.
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01:09 I'm OK.
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01:20 You will be fine.
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01:23 Yes.
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01:30 To support you.
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01:37 Joanne.
01:40 Hi, Joanne.
01:42 Hello, friend.
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01:53 Hi, Miss Joanne.
01:54 Hello.
01:54 Good afternoon.
01:55 Good afternoon.
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01:57 Good afternoon.
01:58 Good afternoon.
01:59 Annunciate it.
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02:02 Huh?
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02:07 OK.
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02:10 Best friends.
02:10 We're best friends.
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02:15 Best of friends.
02:16 How long?
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02:18 Seven years.
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02:21 Workmates.
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02:23 Workmates.
02:23 Colleagues.
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02:25 Until now.
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02:29 Currently, my full-time job, I can
02:32 be an administrative aide and at the same time,
02:35 a part-time college instructor.
02:37 Oh.
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02:39 Agribusiness finance.
02:40 Oh.
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02:43 Agribusiness.
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02:47 Politics.
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02:49 Politics.
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02:53 Agribusiness.
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02:58 Full-time instructor.
03:00 Full-time instructor.
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03:14 Compared to John today.
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03:28 Teacher.
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03:30 Once upon a time.
03:32 Once upon a time.
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03:35 Yeah.
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05:11 Once you've become close, you've known each other.
05:16 Did that help you become a part of life?
05:20 Yes, sir.
05:21 What kind of friend is Ms. Joanne?
05:23 She's that person.
05:24 If you ever need her, even if she feels bad,
05:27 as long as she's okay, she'll immediately reply to you.
05:30 How hard is it to reply when she feels bad?
05:35 I have her phone.
05:37 Oh, I thought that you're going to her house.
05:39 You're going to her house, even if it's raining, rain or shine.
05:42 She'll respond.
05:43 But she'll reply to you no matter how bad you feel.
05:47 She'll just reply with "K".
05:49 Just "K".
05:50 "K", like that.
05:51 Or thumbs up.
05:52 She's always hopeful.
05:54 Super.
05:55 If you need to talk to her.
05:57 She's that person.
05:59 If you need something, even if she's not okay,
06:02 sometimes we have down times, personally.
06:05 Once she's okay, even if we're apart for hours,
06:09 she'll reply to you.
06:11 Even if she's busy, she'll reply to you.
06:14 We're not like that.
06:15 We're not like that.
06:16 We're like that.
06:18 We're like that.
06:19 We're like that.
06:20 We don't text everyday.
06:22 But when we text, it's either funny or important.
06:28 When you text, do you reply to each other quickly?
06:31 Sometimes.
06:33 Sometimes, you don't.
06:35 No, you don't.
06:36 She takes too long to reply.
06:37 But when she calls, she'll reply.
06:39 She takes too long to reply.
06:41 She takes too long to reply.
06:43 I'm just talking about videos.
06:45 It's so demanding.
06:47 When we text, she wants to reply.
06:49 It's just a scandal.
06:50 I'm still replying.
06:52 What do I need to reply?
06:54 "Oh, yes. The content is good."
06:56 "We'll study the dance."
06:58 "My reply is clearer."
07:01 Do you need to reply?
07:03 They're all links.
07:05 They're all links.
07:06 They're all jokes and dances.
07:08 But Vice takes too long to reply.
07:12 But when she calls, she'll reply in 5 minutes.
07:15 "Oh, hello. Hello."
07:17 We talk for a long time.
07:19 About 1 hour.
07:21 She wants to talk more.
07:22 You want to talk more than text.
07:24 I'm really lazy to reply.
07:26 You know, my friends have a problem with me.
07:29 I can't reply.
07:31 I can only text and call.
07:33 Do you know who replies fast?
07:34 Who?
07:35 When you're selling something.
07:36 Who?
07:37 You sold me a car.
07:40 I told you I was selling a car.
07:42 You just need to buy it.
07:43 It's fast.
07:44 1 minute.
07:45 It's a DM.
07:46 "How much is it?"
07:47 "Quizbo."
07:48 But this is the side view.
07:49 "It's for the car."
07:50 It's crazy.
07:52 But she shows interest.
07:54 Yes.
07:55 At least, she replied to you.
07:56 Karine is rich.
07:57 She's asking me how much it is.
07:59 Yes.
08:00 It's all cheap.
08:02 It's all cheap.
08:03 Is Ms. Marian the same for you?
08:06 Ms. Joanne?
08:07 Yes.
08:08 Ms. Marian is a good listener.
08:11 She really puts an effort.
08:14 In what ways?
08:16 She gives you her time.
08:21 For example, if you need advice,
08:23 she'll give it to you.
08:25 She'll be there for you until you're okay.
08:29 She cooks.
08:31 She cooks?
08:32 Yes.
08:33 The truth is, you're just in love.
08:35 They're just best friends.
08:37 You're just lovers.
08:39 But if that's your friendship,
08:41 what if you have boyfriends involved?
08:44 What about time and effort?
08:47 We don't have a boyfriend.
08:51 Who's more like a boyfriend?
08:52 Him.
08:54 Because I'm the only one.
08:56 I know.
08:57 He's always unavailable.
09:01 I feel sorry for him sometimes.
09:04 I feel like he's going home sad.
09:06 Because you're the only one who's not there.
09:09 He's always there.
09:10 He gives you drinks.
09:12 Yes.
09:13 I feel sorry for him sometimes.
09:15 What's your secret?
09:17 Three Hail Mary's and one Glory.
09:19 So, it's a prayer daily.
09:21 And a serum at night.
09:23 I'm scared of those who...
09:27 From B&T.
09:28 I thought they're painting.
09:30 They're moving.
09:32 They're sleepers.
09:33 They're like that.
09:35 They sit so nicely.
09:36 They don't move.
09:38 I thought they're painting.
09:40 Hello.
09:41 Good afternoon.
09:42 They're fighting for peace.
09:44 Yes.
09:45 Peace warriors.
09:46 Yes.
09:47 Peace warriors.
09:48 I have something to say.
09:49 Who?
09:50 He's fighting for the peace of many artists.
09:53 He's fighting for the peace of many artists.
09:58 For the content.
10:00 Anyway.
10:01 That's nice.
10:02 Why?
10:03 It's nice that you'll always have that one friend.
10:06 Yes.
10:07 No matter what happens.
10:08 Like what they said, right?
10:09 In Grey's Anatomy.
10:11 Yes.
10:12 My person.
10:13 What's the anatomy?
10:14 Grey's Anatomy.
10:15 You really thought it's an art.
10:16 It's a show in America.
10:18 You thought it's hard to find a channel if it's an art.
10:20 They're saying that's my person.
10:24 My person.
10:25 That person that you can rely on.
10:26 No matter what happens.
10:28 For example, you're on a break.
10:30 For example, you're crying.
10:32 For example, you're hungry.
10:33 You need to eat.
10:35 You have that one person.
10:37 Always there.
10:39 You have that one person.
10:40 You also have that one mouth that you can't expect.
10:42 That one mouth that you can't expect.
10:44 I just got a little confused.
10:46 But it's so nice to find that one person that you can count on no matter what.
10:52 Yes.
10:53 Always there when you need it.
10:54 Your emergency contact.
10:55 Yes.
10:56 That's why you're lucky if you don't need to contact someone from afar.
10:59 If your best friend is your partner.
11:02 Yes.
11:03 That's a good idea.
11:05 That's true.
11:09 Do you want me to date you?
11:11 What about Bro?
11:13 He'll agree.
11:14 The three of us.
11:16 If he says he'll agree, I'll be like...
11:20 But you know, what you said is also true.
11:24 It's so rare also to find a best friend that will be your partner.
11:29 Right?
11:30 That's nice.
11:31 That's nice.
11:32 You won't be far from him.
11:33 He's just there.
11:34 You'll run to him.
11:35 You'll feel him.
11:36 Actually, even if you don't run, he'll run to you.
11:38 He knows.
11:39 He would know.
11:41 He's getting that vibe.
11:44 You should know that.
11:46 Are you guys like that?
11:48 Even if he doesn't say it, you know.
11:52 You're just there.
11:53 We're just there.
11:54 We have instances where...
11:57 You haven't finished talking to each other.
11:59 You're already flirting.
12:00 Like that.
12:01 We're just finishing a sentence.
12:03 What about you?
12:04 Let's see here.
12:05 You're brutal to each other.
12:08 Not really.
12:09 Just physically.
12:10 No, no.
12:11 Brutally honest.
12:13 You shouldn't be flirting.
12:15 You're brutal to each other.
12:16 How about you?
12:17 One day, he slapped me on my spinal column.
12:19 I was laughing.
12:20 I was just kidding.
12:21 I was like, "He's not flirting."
12:25 He removed the "I raised him" from my mind.
12:28 Yes, that's how it is.
12:31 How about you, Hoda?
12:32 You're hurtful.
12:33 That's how it is.
12:34 Yes, I am.
12:35 That's how it is.
12:36 Earlier, he said that I look like a choir member.
12:39 No, you don't.
12:40 No, I don't.
12:41 You're responsible for the choir.
12:43 He's a soloist.
12:46 That's how it is.
12:47 That's how best friends are.
12:48 That's how they joke around.
12:49 MC and I are like that.
12:51 We're brutal.
12:52 Yes.
12:53 Just physically.
12:54 Both.
12:55 Yes, there's also that.
12:56 Physical and verbal.
12:57 In our issues, we're very brutal.
13:01 We're honest.
13:03 You'll cry.
13:04 You'll cry.
13:05 You can't do anything.
13:06 You'll just listen.
13:08 That's right.
13:09 Brutally honest.
13:10 You'll joke around.
13:11 You'll just spit.
13:12 You'll get drunk.
13:13 He's not allowed to spit.
13:15 He's not allowed.
13:16 Why not?
13:17 He'll just listen.
13:18 I prohibited it for them.
13:20 It's a pity.
13:21 Why?
13:22 You're so hard.
13:23 You're tiring.
13:24 Why do you spit in the air?
13:25 You're not allowed.
13:26 What's not allowed for MC?
13:29 Actually, we don't have any rules.
13:32 When we say our opinion.
13:34 We fight.
13:35 Yes.
13:36 We're brutal.
13:37 How long before you guys...
13:39 Why?
13:40 It's a long time.
13:42 It's a long time.
13:43 We have 3 months.
13:44 3 months?
13:45 Yes.
13:46 The feeling.
13:47 When we see each other, we'll cry.
13:51 Because you're gay.
13:53 Especially if...
13:55 I'm already choking.
13:59 It's like a real choke in life.
14:01 Especially if...
14:02 I feel like...
14:05 You have to feel this.
14:07 The feeling of not being allowed.
14:12 It's for your own good.
14:15 Yes.
14:16 I'm not stopping my friends.
14:18 I'll stop myself to protect them.
14:22 You can smell that.
14:23 I'm fighting for you.
14:26 I do it for friends.
14:29 For real friends.
14:30 I'm fighting for my friends.
14:34 You, Joanne and Marianne.
14:36 When was the one time that you had to be brutally honest with each other?
14:42 You're so bad, Joanne.
14:44 Say that.
14:46 If not, I'll put a more vulgar one.
14:48 That was...
14:51 She was...
14:53 She was...
14:54 What?
14:55 She was crazy.
14:56 How was she crazy?
14:58 She was turning her head.
15:00 She was close.
15:03 But at that time, she wasn't listening to what other people were saying.
15:08 She was just selected.
15:10 She only listened to what she wanted to hear.
15:13 So, she only wanted to hear what you wanted to hear.
15:20 But she didn't.
15:21 She knocked everything down.
15:23 How do you react when that happens?
15:25 You know, she wasn't listening to me.
15:28 Then you see how she's getting more and more.
15:32 At that time, I realized that I had no choice but to be with her.
15:39 Because I was the only one she could always be with.
15:45 So...
15:46 That's it.
15:52 I had nothing else to do.
15:54 Sometimes, Joanne, you don't feel bad.
15:56 You're advising her and she doesn't listen.
15:59 Then, she'll cry at you.
16:00 Yes. Sometimes, I feel bad for my English to her.
16:03 That's why I told her, "Don't be like that. You're not listening."
16:08 But that's the essence of being a best friend.
16:10 Even if you're mad at her because you're stupid to her,
16:14 and she's already stubborn, you won't leave her.
16:17 She'll be a dead man for a time because you're annoying her so that she'll learn,
16:22 so that she'll realize something.
16:24 But you won't totally leave her.
16:27 You won't leave her.
16:29 Until she's really mad, she'll be mad at you.
16:33 She'll still be mad at you.
16:34 You'll leave her so that she'll learn a lesson, but you won't totally leave her.
16:37 You won't leave her.
16:38 You'll go back and forth with each other.
16:40 How did you tell her, "Wake up, Marianne! This is what's happening to you!"
16:46 Like that.
16:47 Like that.
16:48 Is that what happened?
16:49 Right?
16:50 What were the things that happened for her to wake up and say,
16:54 "Hey! Wake up!"
16:57 Like that, huh?
16:59 Who said that?
17:01 I already said that.
17:04 Oh, really?
17:05 It took a while.
17:09 Maybe a month or more than a year before it was okay.
17:14 Let's talk about what happened to you.
17:18 What were the things that she said that made you stubborn?
17:21 What were the things that you didn't listen to her about?
17:25 Was it about love?
17:27 Yes.
17:28 Why?
17:29 There was an instance where my ex cheated.
17:34 There was an instance or there were instances?
17:37 There were instances.
17:38 Because I read five of those in the book.
17:40 That's a lot.
17:41 There were instances.
17:43 What year was that?
17:45 It started, the first was the first year.
17:50 The first year.
17:52 The first year, she cheated.
17:53 Yes.
17:54 How many times did she cheat?
17:56 Four or five.
17:59 Five.
18:00 She told me that she cheated on me five times.
18:03 Oh, you talked to your ex?
18:04 Yes, our neighbor.
18:06 Our neighbor.
18:08 You cheated on her four to five times, right?
18:12 How many years was that?
18:14 Twelve years.
18:15 It was like a vicious cycle.
18:20 She would cheat, she would get angry, and you would forgive her.
18:25 After a while, she would cheat again and you would forgive her.
18:29 Sometimes, you would know the people who cheated, right?
18:33 Not really.
18:35 Oh, I can read other people's stories.
18:37 Oh, that's not it.
18:38 That's from yesterday.
18:39 That's from Joanne.
18:40 Did she promise that she would change?
18:43 That she wouldn't do it again?
18:44 Yes.
18:45 After we reconciled, she would change as if she really did.
18:50 But as time passes by, it was like she would do it again and again.
18:55 Why did you still hold on to her when she cheated on you four or five times?
19:01 Because your love for her is different.
19:04 Whatever she did, you would forgive her.
19:08 Like Pippi and Binggi.
19:10 You see her but you don't see her.
19:12 You hear her but you don't hear her.
19:15 You want to say something but you can't say it.
19:18 What did Joanne say to you about those issues that you don't listen to?
19:24 She would always say that it's a red flag.
19:29 That it's enough.
19:30 Was it a red flag term before?
19:32 It was only yesterday.
19:34 Yes.
19:35 There was a time when she said that it's not okay.
19:39 She would say that I should open my eyes.
19:41 Her term is like having blinders.
19:44 So you won't be scared.
19:45 Yes.
19:46 Isn't that for horses?
19:48 Yes.
19:49 You're not scared.
19:51 It's true that it's for horses.
19:54 What's your point?
19:56 But it's true that it's for blinders.
19:59 I said that it's for the top of the horse.
20:01 I didn't hear it.
20:03 I said that it's for horses.
20:07 She repeated it.
20:09 But she's my best friend.
20:10 Yes.
20:11 If you have a problem, you can say it.
20:13 That's why when you're best friends, you can be brutally honest.
20:16 You're really honest.
20:18 I thought it was a joke.
20:20 She's honest.
20:24 Just kidding.
20:25 Did you shout at her?
20:28 She's not the one who shouts.
20:31 I don't listen to her silent treatment.
20:33 She only accepts texts.
20:35 How many days is the silent treatment?
20:38 It's not for a day.
20:39 I don't talk to her to cool down.
20:43 When we're at the height of emotions,
20:46 she won't listen to me.
20:50 Question.
20:52 Are you close to her boyfriend?
20:55 I'll say the answer first.
20:57 She has a question.
20:59 She has a pattern.
21:00 Yes, ma'am.
21:01 I'm sorry, Your Honor.
21:03 Answer.
21:04 No.
21:06 We're just together when we're together.
21:10 Are you a third wheel?
21:12 Not a third wheel.
21:13 I'm a fourth wheel.
21:14 Do you see what you're doing to her?
21:17 Yes.
21:19 What's the worst thing you've seen from Marian?
21:25 As a best friend, you're so angry.
21:28 You're so angry that you're about to throw a fit.
21:31 You're about to confront her.
21:34 You don't want to admit what you're seeing to Marian.
21:38 I think the third and fourth cheating of the guy.
21:43 The effect on him is so bad.
21:45 He's crying, he's not eating.
21:48 Do you see him crying?
21:49 Yes.
21:50 He's just crying.
21:51 Yes.
21:52 I'm taking him home because he can't go to work.
21:55 It's like that.
21:56 You can't teach in class.
21:59 No.
22:00 By that time, I don't have a teaching job.
22:02 I'm doing full-time administrative work.
22:05 You can't go to work.
22:08 Yes.
22:09 I'm taking him to school.
22:11 He hasn't eaten for days.
22:14 Sometimes, I see him just eating.
22:17 Maybe he's just eating.
22:19 He's just eating.
22:22 I can see him just lifting the door.
22:26 And his slippers.
22:28 He's just eating.
22:30 That's how you feel the pain.
22:33 You can't stand it anymore.
22:34 It's like in the movies.
22:35 You're sick, you're in pain.
22:39 You don't have the strength to do anything.
22:41 You don't have the energy to bathe.
22:42 You don't have the energy to bathe.
22:43 Wow.
22:44 Did you allow that to happen?
22:46 Did he push the guy?
22:49 No.
22:50 It didn't reach that level.
22:51 I don't have the energy to do that.
22:53 I can't fight.
22:56 I'm more concerned about his well-being.
22:58 But didn't the guy come to you to help you get back with Mario?
23:02 No.
23:03 He didn't push you like that.
23:05 Can you describe to us,
23:07 what you were doing at that time?
23:11 Can you describe to us what was your state?
23:15 What did you look like?
23:16 What did you feel?
23:17 What were you doing at that time?
23:20 I was so blank.
23:23 I didn't know what to do.
23:26 I didn't know where to go.
23:29 I wanted to fight.
23:31 I fought as much as I could.
23:33 They were worried that if I didn't chat,
23:37 they would think something happened to me.
23:39 To the point that they let me go home.
23:42 They let me go home.
23:44 I have two friends who were like that.
23:46 They didn't even bother to cry.
23:48 They don't ask anything.
23:52 They're just there.
23:54 What did you look like?
23:56 I was so pale.
23:57 I didn't take a bath for days.
23:59 I was on a huggard.
24:01 I was so thin.
24:04 I couldn't eat.
24:06 There was an instance that even my relatives,
24:10 my cousins were worried about me.
24:12 To the point that my cousin's wife asked me,
24:16 "Did we bring you to the hospital and you don't have energy?"
24:19 That's the level.
24:21 If you could see yourself in that room,
24:25 with her friend,
24:27 what would you tell her?
24:29 You can do it. Fight.
24:31 Because you can do it.
24:33 You can do it.
24:34 You will be stronger after that.
24:37 How did you stand up?
24:41 Friends, especially family,
24:44 and God.
24:45 They are the ones I cling to as in.
24:48 You really need to cling to them.
24:50 Sometimes, it's hard to stand up,
24:54 because you can't cling to anyone,
24:56 or you don't want to cling to anyone,
24:58 or you're too shy to cling to anyone,
24:59 or you don't want to admit that you need help from others to cling to.
25:03 What you're saying is,
25:05 "No, the time will come when I can do this.
25:07 I can do this alone."
25:09 There's nothing wrong with asking for help or asking for a help.
25:13 Because there are people who will help you.
25:16 Because no matter what you are, what color you are,
25:20 what kind of struggle you have in life,
25:22 no matter how many mistakes you have in life,
25:24 there are people who love you and will cling to you to help you stand up.
25:28 You just need to acknowledge that.
25:30 At that point, you acknowledged that you needed help,
25:33 and there were people who helped you.
25:35 Yes, exactly.
25:37 Congratulations.
25:39 Are you proud of yourself?
25:40 Yes, I am.
25:42 I don't know you.
25:43 I just met you today.
25:45 But I am very proud of you.
25:47 I am happy.
25:51 I am happy that you are here, that we know you.
25:54 And you are sharing with us the experiences you have had,
26:00 the experiences you have experienced,
26:02 of being brave and not being shy,
26:06 because you have a lot of lessons to learn.
26:09 I have so many learnings.
26:11 I'm happy that I'm sharing them with others.
26:14 I'm the one who is based on my experience.
26:17 She's about to cry.
26:19 She's asking for her own.
26:21 Because of that, I use it whenever we have activities in church,
26:28 sharing, even with my friends who are going through something.
26:33 What advice can you give?
26:36 I'm running.
26:37 There are so many, not just women, but men who are going through this.
26:43 There are a lot of people who can resonate with you.
26:45 Exactly.
26:46 Resonate!
26:48 Even if it's repeated, they still accept it.
26:54 What advice can you give to them?
26:56 When to know, it's enough.
26:58 Stop. It's enough.
27:00 It's always love yourself.
27:04 As in, as they say in a song, my favorite,
27:08 "No one else will love you but yourself."
27:11 No matter what it is in the world,
27:13 the one who will love you the most is yourself.
27:16 But it's easy to say, "It's enough."
27:21 When you're in a situation.
27:23 Yes, you don't know.
27:24 Even if you know that it's wrong,
27:27 what's holding you back is...
27:30 You don't want to lose that person because you love them.
27:34 No matter how wild they are,
27:36 you're still holding on.
27:38 That's why they say, "Hope is a curse."
27:43 Because hope is what keeps you from doing wrong.
27:47 You're afraid of change.
27:48 Because you're hoping for hope.
27:50 And what?
27:51 I'll turn my hope away.
27:54 I don't know what hope really means.
27:58 Even in the Philippines, sometimes hope is wrong.
28:01 Yes.
28:02 They say, "There's a strong rain,"
28:04 but other schools will cancel it.
28:07 But there's no rain.
28:09 Sometimes they say, "There's no rain,"
28:11 but when it rains, it's sudden.
28:13 And the long-term cohesion.
28:15 But I'll turn my hope away.
28:17 I don't want them to be mad at me.
28:18 But all over the world,
28:20 it's unpredictable because of the weather.
28:22 That's why it's called weather-weather.
28:24 Weather-weather, it can change just like that.
28:27 Yes, but let's not forget.
28:30 No matter what our situation is,
28:32 our decisions are not always right.
28:34 Sometimes, our decisions
28:36 can't be supported by our best friend
28:38 because it's wrong.
28:39 But no matter what,
28:41 there's a chance.
28:47 There's a chance that you can make up for it.
28:50 You can make up for your smile.
28:52 Even if you're not happy,
28:53 there's a chance that you can make up for your smile.
28:55 And no matter what,
28:57 you're still loved.
28:59 Someone will love you.
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