Aired (May 14, 2024): Gaano nga ba kahirap itago ang pagkakaroon ng relasyon mula sa mga striktong magulang? #ItsShowtime
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00:00 - The future. - The future.
00:02 - About telling your parents eventually that you have a relationship. - Yes.
00:06 Yeah, and when we talk about that,
00:08 I always say that it's after studies.
00:12 Oh, so you're really scared of your parents.
00:16 Yeah.
00:17 How about your boy?
00:19 Didn't you meet his parents?
00:22 Oh, I've met his mom.
00:24 Yeah, and they're a lovely family.
00:28 So you had a relationship, you and your mom?
00:31 It wasn't really a relationship because his mom is also working.
00:36 So it was more on him.
00:39 Actually, my parents got to know me better than I know his family.
00:46 What was that? Did he know that you're just dating or you're already boyfriend and girlfriend?
00:51 It was a very silent, mutual thing.
00:55 I always tell them to be careful because I know it's not allowed.
01:02 So it was a silent commitment.
01:07 As in, I don't want you with other girls, you don't want me with other guys.
01:11 But there's no label?
01:12 No, when I was asked, legally speaking, I don't have a boyfriend.
01:17 - You're not. - Yes.
01:18 - You're good. - You're really good.
01:21 - But let me ask you. - Okay.
01:23 What was your feeling at that time when you met your ex?
01:27 Was it adventurous for you or were you really scared that we might get caught?
01:33 And trauma or adventurous that you're enjoying and hiding?
01:38 Oh, he's a bit chill in that aspect.
01:42 I don't know why, I was under pressure but I still did it.
01:48 I was a bit stubborn back then.
01:50 So I didn't enjoy the hiding, I wanted to live.
01:54 It came to a point that I want to live a transparent life.
01:57 Right.
01:58 Yeah, so I kind of got tired of the hiding.
02:00 - But then, you know, of course... - You got caught right away.
02:03 You got tired of the hiding but you got caught right away.
02:06 Actually, I have a question for Daddy Paolo.
02:11 Because Daddy Paolo, if we're Air One, I also have a daughter.
02:15 And we were talking about our parenting.
02:20 I'm sure she's going to be like you guys.
02:24 The strict one, the not so strict one.
02:26 You should study first.
02:27 But one thing Air One told me,
02:30 "Would you rather she would hide things from us or would you rather she would open up and share everything with us?"
02:38 I said, "Yes, of course."
02:39 It's a very tough thing as a parent.
02:43 Now, would you have changed your decision or...
02:47 Still, for me, no.
02:50 Because we still believe,
02:53 because the youth today say that the heart is full.
02:58 And I believe, I always remind my children that proximity is stronger than love.
03:06 So I just want to say that,
03:07 sometimes, even if you love one person,
03:09 but because you're always with that person, you'll fall.
03:12 That's physical.
03:13 So as young as they are, still studying,
03:16 what we're avoiding is accidents that can affect their studies or their future.
03:23 So if we don't give certain rules, it's more open.
03:28 Sometimes they would open up, and even if we say, "Pause or slow down,"
03:32 but because sometimes they'll notice that Dad and Mom are not serious.
03:38 So we made a point that focus on studies, that's our rule.
03:43 After your studies, then...
03:45 Do whatever you want.
03:46 That's why we're here today, because it's already 22.
03:48 Yes, it's already 22.
03:50 I'm already tired.
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