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00:00 Why did you choose to be a child?

00:02 I tried because I felt like it would work.

00:07 I've been in relationships before, I'm older, I'm my age.

00:10 So I tried when I was younger.

00:12 But at that time, I'll just ask this,

00:14 did you feel like you were groomed?

00:16 No, at that time, no.

00:18 He never disrespected me in that way, in any way.

00:22 He respected that I would get an early marriage.

00:25 Because he courted you before you were 18.

00:26 I was 17, yes.

00:27 17, and then 20, what were you then?

00:30 25.

00:33 Because other people might say,

00:35 "Oh, he groomed Miyuki because she's underage."

00:38 And then she's already 20-something,

00:40 7 years old.

00:42 But the grooming, according to us,

00:44 to the psychologist that the team talked to,

00:48 you can tell her that she's grooming,

00:50 not just because of her age,

00:52 not just because she's far from your age,

00:54 not because you're far from your age,

00:56 but because she's grooming.

00:57 Grooming, if there are three things

00:59 that are evident in the situation,

01:02 if there's abuse,

01:06 if there's, how do you say this,

01:10 manipulation,

01:13 and then there's exploitation,

01:16 the AME,

01:18 if there's abuse, manipulation, or exploitation.

01:22 During those times, did you feel that there was abuse?

01:25 None.

01:26 None.

01:27 Manipulation.

01:28 Maybe it was in the part where she was reasoning

01:31 when she found out something,

01:33 and then she was gaslighting in that part.

01:35 No, that was when you were 17.

01:39 I was 17, none.

01:40 Exploitation, you felt like you were exploited.

01:42 Because the relationship,

01:45 she said, is not grooming.

01:47 Yes, and they're celibate,

01:50 they don't have anything against them.

01:52 And they know their parents.

01:53 They know their parents.

01:54 So, their case,

01:56 because they might say, "Oh, she's a green room,"

01:58 their case, actually, we asked,

02:01 we asked the MTRCB and the psychologists,

02:04 and they said there's no grooming with them.

02:07 So, let's be clear on that.

02:08 The psychologists said,

02:12 the psychologists that we asked,

02:14 there's no grooming with them.

02:16 Because you might read something later, right?

02:18 At least, it's clear to them, "Ah, she's not grooming."

02:21 Okay.

02:22 Okay.

02:24 Okay.

02:26 Okay.

02:28 Okay.

02:30 Okay.

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Vice explains the term "grooming" | EXpecially For You

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