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01:16 Hello everyone, welcome to the show "Kick the door, visit the house"

01:20 [Kick sound]

01:22 Today, I will take Phan Nhu Thao to meet a couple

01:26 They have been on my show "Married couple"

01:29 Oh, familiar people

01:30 Yes, familiar people, because I met them only once

01:34 This is the second time

01:35 Before meeting, I will share a little bit with Thao

01:40 This is a couple

01:41 These two people do not have the same conditions as normal people

01:46 Is it that they do not have the same conditions as normal people?

01:48 Is it difficult in life or what are the conditions?

01:52 It's not just about life

01:55 They are also difficult in many things

01:57 Do you know?

01:58 Let's go

01:59 Let's go

02:00 I'm standing here, asking if you are wearing a mask

02:03 Here we are

02:04 Here

02:05 What?

02:06 See?

02:07 Massage, massage, blind

02:10 These are two husbands

02:13 These two people are not as normal as many others

02:16 But they can do something very extraordinary

02:19 Are they the owners of this facility?

02:21 That's right

02:22 Let's open the door

02:24 Right?

02:25 Right?

02:26 Let's go in

02:27 Ok

02:28 Hello

02:29 Hello

02:30 Hello

02:31 Do you remember who I am?

02:35 I'm Quoc Thuan

02:36 I'm Quoc Thuan

02:39 I'm here with Phan Nhu Thao from the show "Goi Cua Tham Nha"

02:43 Hello

02:44 Hello

02:45 We have a gift for you

02:48 I'll give you the gift

02:49 Yes

02:50 The gift is very meaningful

02:52 It's a watch

02:54 With the brand "Goi Cua Tham Nha"

02:57 Thank you so much

02:59 Two blind people can do anything together

03:02 I'm so jealous

03:04 So I have to take it

03:06 So I can do something for people to know

03:08 [Music]

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03:54 How many floors do we have?

03:56 We have 3 floors

03:58 It's open

03:59 This is the couple room

04:01 Wow

04:02 You set up and decorate everything yourself?

04:05 Yes

04:07 I decorate everything

04:08 Oh my god

04:09 Let's go over there

04:10 This is the massage room for the female guests

04:13 Here, do you know?

04:15 It's very clean

04:17 It's very tidy

04:20 It smells good

04:21 Now, let's invite Hai and Dung to come down and talk

04:24 Ok

04:25 Let's go

04:26 Now, Quoc Thuan and Phan Nhu Thao are in Hai and Dung's house

04:33 This is also a massage facility for the blind

04:37 Hai and Dung, how old are you?

04:42 I was born in 1993

04:43 I was born in 1995

04:45 How long have you been doing this?

04:48 I started this massage facility in the middle of 2020

04:52 But the pandemic was so difficult in 2021, so I closed the door

04:56 Then I opened this place in the end of 2022

05:00 It's very hard for a normal person to open a massage facility, right?

05:03 Yes

05:04 How did you two decide to open this place?

05:08 I was diagnosed when I was 14

05:11 I was studying in a massage center

05:14 The teachers always talked about the problem of blind people not being able to do massage

05:19 They were mistreated, attacked, and scared

05:26 I was wondering why this problem happened

05:30 Massage is a job that helps blind people have a stable job

05:36 It's different from the field of selling vegetables

05:38 or going to the market

05:40 I think this is a field that the blind can do

05:43 But they can also do it with their effort and ability

05:48 But why is it not a strong problem?

05:52 So I thought I had to do something to change the working environment

05:59 and help blind people be more confident in pursuing this job

06:03 So I decided to learn business management to pursue this dream

06:08 How many masseurs are there in your facility?

06:12 Currently, there are 5 people

06:14 But sometimes 8 people

06:16 Depending on the number of customers, I will have a private recruitment plan

06:21 How do you deal with the crowd of customers?

06:27 I will contact some of the staff in another place

06:32 I will ask them to increase the number of staff

06:34 Or I will hire more staff

06:36 I know that hiring a masseur is very difficult

06:40 The word "massage" scares people

06:42 Those are normal people

06:44 Those who are blind are more likely to be injured

06:48 If the customer does something to you, you can't handle it

06:53 I think it's very difficult to find a masseur

06:57 So how do you convince people to follow your work?

07:00 Are there any people who are afraid of going to work?

07:05 I am sure that 90% of the massage facilities in Saigon provide non-professional services

07:12 Really?

07:15 I am sure that they can provide some services

07:20 Because they want to create a job for the blind

07:24 At first, we registered as a massage facility

07:27 We are willing to accept customers

07:30 We never let our employees get injured

07:33 There were some cases

07:35 A few months ago, a blind employee had a bad ear

07:40 Normally, we don't accept male customers for female employees

07:43 Because it causes many problems that we can't control

07:47 But that day, it was too crowded

07:49 The male customer asked for a massage

07:54 He called me and I talked to him

07:57 I asked him why he did that

07:59 Some customers apologized

08:01 They thought that they could do it without a massage

08:04 I told them that I had to compensate for the loss

08:08 I talked to them and apologized

08:10 I remember that I was angry at that customer

08:14 I told him that I had a bad ear

08:17 I talked to him and I told him why he did that

08:20 He scolded me and asked for compensation

08:22 He didn't see the way to get to that customer

08:26 I was so angry that I called the local police

08:30 I paid them and went home

08:32 Oh my God

08:34 I saw the word "strong" on the door

08:37 You intentionally said that word

08:40 But some people still like to write it down

08:42 I think they have the right to do that

08:45 But they should choose the right place

08:48 Because they respect the rules

08:51 Actually, not only in Ho Chi Minh City

08:54 But also in the neighboring provinces

08:56 There are many strong massage facilities

08:59 Actually, no one goes to work in the 7th or 8th floor

09:03 Let's split up

09:05 Do you want to talk to Dung or Hai?

09:07 - I can choose - I give you priority

09:10 - You choose - I think I will talk to Dung

09:13 I will talk to Hai

09:15 I have a shoulder pain these days

09:20 Can you give me a massage?

09:24 You are so smart. I want that too

09:26 - I will talk to Dung - Your wife is so nice

09:29 - Your wife knows how to do it, right? - Yes

09:32 - I will prepare rice and water for you - I will prepare rice and water for you

09:36 - I will prepare rice and water for you - I will prepare rice and water for you

09:38 - I will prepare rice and water for you - I will prepare rice and water for you

09:39 It's so hard to be a brother

09:41 They call me "brother"

09:43 I should let them do it

09:45 Oh my God

09:47 - Hai - Yes

09:51 I saw the market

09:53 But now I have to play a small game

09:57 - I want to challenge you - You know the market

09:59 - I want to challenge you - What challenge?

10:02 You have to experience wearing this to be a blind man

10:07 - Oh my God - Do you want to play?

10:11 - Okay, I agree - Okay

10:13 Now, Thuận will wear this to play a mini game

10:19 which is given by Hai to experience being a blind man

10:24 - Hai - Yes

10:26 - I led you to buy this - Now, it's your turn

10:29 - I led you to buy this - Okay

10:31 - What do we buy today? - Oh my God, I don't know

10:35 - What do you want to buy? I will find it for you - I want to buy vegetables

10:38 - What vegetables? - I want to buy water spinach

10:40 - Where is water spinach? - Who sells water spinach?

10:43 - Where is water spinach? - I can't see the way

10:46 Where is water spinach?

10:48 Here, here is water spinach

10:52 - Is it? - Here is water spinach, water spinach, water spinach

10:56 - Here - This is water spinach

10:58 - Yes - Right?

10:59 And some kinds of water spinach

11:01 - You want to buy water spinach? - Water spinach is okay

11:04 Water spinach, water spinach, water spinach, water spinach, and tomato

11:09 - Water spinach, I can't see the way - I want to buy water spinach

11:14 - You can buy anything - Water spinach

11:16 - I want to buy water spinach - I want to buy water spinach

11:20 Oh my God, everyone

11:22 It's just a few minutes, but I can understand

11:25 how hard the blind people have to work

11:29 And all the movements and activities are very difficult

11:34 - How much is it, handsome? - It's very cheap

11:38 - Hey, listen - Yes

11:39 How do you know how much it is?

11:42 - By the number - Like me, hold it

11:48 Okay, 50

11:50 - How much? - I've paid

11:52 - Really? - Okay

11:53 - Okay, Hai - Okay

11:55 - Where? - Okay, I've paid

11:58 - Okay, let's go home - Let's go home

11:59 - Hey, if we go the other way, the car will hit us - It's okay

12:02 Now, I'm a real guest

12:04 Today, because everyone is here, we have to close the door in the morning

12:08 - I'm a real guest - Yes

12:09 - Now, please shake hands - Yes

12:11 Or what do we do? We will create, right?

12:13 Looking at Dung, I don't think he can be a technician

12:18 I thought the boss wouldn't do it

12:20 No, this boss is like Oxygen, so it's okay

12:23 - But have you learned this for a long time? - Yes, I've learned for a long time

12:27 - How many years have you learned? - Is this difficult, Dung?

12:29 For example, if you feel good, I will do it

12:32 - Shake hands - Yes

12:34 You look thin but healthy

12:36 In general, when we learn this, we have to practice

12:39 If we want to follow the path that is really suitable

12:42 we have to practice to do it for the customer

12:44 If it's like a relaxing massage, it can't go deep into the acupuncture points

12:49 Yes, because when we are in the acupuncture points, it will feel a bit rough

12:54 - Yes, traditional - Yes

12:56 Oh, I pressed it right

12:59 - Do you live here or where? - We live here

13:02 Let's talk a little bit about childhood. Were you born like this or...

13:06 When I was born, my eyes were normal

13:10 When I was 5 years old, I went to visit my neighbor

13:16 My mom looked into my right eye

13:19 She saw a white spot in the black spot

13:22 I didn't know anything about it, I was scared

13:25 My mom asked if it hurt, I said it was normal

13:28 My mom was scared, so she asked my uncle to take me to Saigon for an eye exam

13:34 The doctor said I had to wait until I was 18 years old to have an eye surgery

13:37 - I couldn't have an eye surgery, so my mom took me home - What was wrong with your eye?

13:40 It's called a mirror now

13:42 In the past, technology was not available, so people couldn't treat it

13:47 When I came back, I was too young, only 5 years old

13:50 My house is in Lam Dong, but I live in the lower district

13:54 There was a group of doctors from Thien

13:57 I went home and had free eye surgery

13:59 My mom saw that and signed me up

14:01 - I hope I can change - So you still see the normal way?

14:06 - Yes, I still see the normal way - People say that eye surgery is just to make your eyes look beautiful

14:11 But after the surgery, you can't see

14:13 The doctor said that if you leave it for a long time, it will affect the other eye

14:16 My mom was scared, so she gave me a surgery

14:20 After that, I couldn't see anymore

14:22 What did you do after the surgery?

14:24 I couldn't see, I only saw the left eye

14:26 At that time, I had a problem with my left eye, I couldn't see

14:30 When I was in school, I knew

14:32 When I was in the first class, I looked at the board and saw the word

14:35 But I couldn't see when I sat on the second row

14:38 - Like a mirror? - Yes, like a mirror

14:40 But I didn't know because I was too young

14:43 I didn't dare to say anything

14:45 Because I was sad about my right eye

14:48 I didn't dare to say anything

14:50 When I was in school, I had a female classmate

14:54 She read the book for me

14:56 In the first 3 years, I had to study with her

14:58 In the last year of the first grade, the teacher found out that I had a problem with my eye

15:04 She told my family to take me to the hospital

15:07 At that time, I was only examined in the community

15:09 The doctor said I had a problem with my eye

15:11 I had to wear glasses for a few months

15:13 After studying, my eye suddenly couldn't see

15:16 How did you know?

15:18 I kept looking at the board, but I couldn't see

15:20 I told my mom

15:22 My mom took me to Saigon

15:25 When I went to the eye hospital, they said I had a blind spot

15:28 - Was it a birth defect? - The reason was the tendon I put on

15:32 - I tried too hard - Because of my tendon, the board was broken

15:37 - You had a lot of eye blemishes, right? - Yes

15:42 - How old were you at that time? - I was 58 years old

15:45 - Did you go to Saigon to study for a blind spot? - Yes

15:48 When I went to Saigon, I had 4 eye surgeries

15:52 The first time I had surgery, I was normal

15:55 I had a grandchild, he was still young

15:58 He was about 3-4 years old

16:00 I played with him, he hit my eye

16:03 My eye was bleeding

16:06 I had a surgery

16:09 I had to have 3 more surgeries, but it was gradually gone

16:13 This restaurant is near my house

16:21 - Have you ever been here to drink water? - Yes, I've been here once or twice

16:25 Last time, when we filmed "The Husband and Daughter-in-law", you shared that you had a blind spot

16:31 Since you were 14-15 years old

16:33 Today, I want you to share more about the story

16:37 Why did you become like this from a normal child?

16:43 Actually, I was born with a problem

16:46 There were some reasons

16:48 The first one was when my mother was 5 months pregnant

16:52 My family was hit by a car, my father went to work

16:56 My mother, an uncle, and 2 brothers were at home

17:00 My mother was pregnant, there were 4 people, 5 babies

17:05 The car hit us, 2/3 of the house was burnt

17:10 My uncle passed away

17:13 My mother was in a coma for a few hours

17:16 It was raining heavily, I heard my parents talking about it

17:19 My uncle was crying, no one came to help him

17:24 It was raining heavily, a neighbor saw him

17:28 He saw that my mother was in a coma in the bed

17:36 He was hit and hit the bed

17:38 My uncle was holding my brother-in-law, crying

17:42 He ran to my father and uncle

17:46 My mother was in a coma, the doctor was afraid that she couldn't keep the baby

17:52 He had to take medicine, but he was afraid

17:55 Luckily, I could keep the baby

17:59 When I was born, my body was weak

18:03 I had to sleep in the warm bed

18:07 I think there were 2 reasons

18:09 The car hit me, or the warm bed

18:11 The light in the warm bed affected my eyes

18:14 When I was born, my eyes were dilated

18:18 It was a bit weaker than others, not dilated

18:21 It was a bit weaker than others

18:23 My eyes were a bit cold

18:24 When I was a kid, I was discriminated

18:28 People called me "Hai La", "Hai Lech", "Hai Le"

18:31 When you were discriminated, did you fight back?

18:36 Or did you find a solution?

18:39 When I was discriminated, I was sad

18:44 I didn't know what to do

18:45 I learned to see the light

18:47 I was a poor student

18:50 I would hang out with the bad students

18:56 I became one of the students in the school

18:59 I remember that time, I couldn't see clearly

19:02 My eyes were dilated

19:04 I was 13 years old

19:07 My parents took me to the eye doctor every year

19:09 I couldn't see clearly

19:11 My eyes were dilated

19:13 I was looking at the high mountains and green forests

19:16 After a while, my eyes were dilated

19:20 I told my father that I would go to Hanoi for surgery

19:25 After a while, my eyes were dilated

19:28 I was blind

19:32 It was a bad luck

19:34 I couldn't see clearly

19:36 The doctor said that I was 50 years old

19:38 After a few days of surgery, I couldn't see clearly

19:43 The doctor said that my eyes were completely blind

19:47 I was sad and cried a lot

19:50 I cried for 2-3 hours

19:53 I saw many people in the room

19:55 When I went to the eye doctor, I often joked with them

19:59 They saw me like that and they laughed at me

20:01 I was sad

20:02 My father took me to the Hanoi church

20:05 I prayed for my son

20:07 I asked him what I should pray for

20:10 My father said that there was a woman who was sick

20:15 She didn't have hair and looked weak

20:17 But she was happy

20:18 She was dead

20:20 She was happy

20:22 She just lost her eyes

20:24 Why was she sad?

20:25 I didn't care about my blindness

20:30 I accepted it and tried to change it

20:35 I'm glad that you understood the value of life

20:41 Your father gave you positive energy

20:46 to boost your life

20:48 How old were you when you went to the blind school?

20:53 I was 3 years old

20:56 When I was 11, I had an uncle who worked in Saigon

21:00 My mom asked me to go to the blind school

21:03 I was introduced to the school

21:06 I was in the 10th grade

21:08 I started from the beginning

21:11 I learned how to read

21:13 I learned how to use a computer

21:16 How to use a compass

21:18 How to use the abilities of a blind person

21:20 Did you stay in school?

21:21 Yes

21:22 Or did you go back and forth?

21:23 My house was far away

21:25 I was in the school

21:27 I was 11 years old

21:29 I was too young to go far away

21:31 I missed my home

21:34 I was happy that I could go to school

21:36 I didn't have to be alone

21:39 I went to school

21:40 I had a family visit me for a few months

21:43 I got used to it

21:45 My mom was sick when I was far away

21:47 She didn't visit me

21:49 She only visited me sometimes

21:51 I saw other people

21:53 I didn't go home every weekend

21:55 I was sad when my family visited me

21:58 Did you have a dream or a job that you intended for your future?

22:03 I had a dream

22:05 I was in the 2nd grade

22:06 I liked English

22:08 I hoped to become a translator

22:11 I was in the 3rd grade

22:14 I was about to finish the 12th grade

22:16 I thought about my career

22:19 I thought about psychology

22:23 I like psychology

22:26 I decided to enroll in the Department of Psychology

22:29 My friends and my classmates

22:32 When they are blind

22:34 Not everyone is lucky to have a family they love

22:37 For example, people around me

22:40 They sympathize and share

22:42 Most of them are more blind

22:44 They don't talk but their actions and behaviors

22:50 Hurt me a lot

22:52 I think you need a place to be spiritual

22:55 A place to share

22:58 A place to give advice

23:00 Experience of the person who has gone before

23:02 How to deal with it

23:04 What should you think

23:06 If the situation is not as you intended

23:08 I think you lack that

23:10 You lack a place to consult

23:13 You lack a place to consult

23:14 I studied psychology

23:16 I studied law

23:18 How to meet my husband

23:19 I was a student

23:21 I worked part-time

23:24 I sold goods

23:26 I sold goods at a high-level

23:28 I don't know

23:29 When I sold goods at a high-level

23:31 I had to hire a lot of agents

23:32 So I could earn money

23:34 I posted it on the group

23:38 For my friends

23:39 My husband saw that article

23:42 My husband called

23:45 I didn't know he called

23:47 He pretended to ask about work

23:50 He texted me at night

23:53 He wanted to make friends

23:56 You were in a high-level group to find a wife?

23:58 I think he called to tease me

24:02 Not to ask about work

24:04 Did you have a massage shop?

24:07 Or did you do this job?

24:09 No, I didn't

24:10 I was in grade 12

24:11 Oh my god

24:12 I was in grade 12

24:13 I was in the last year of high school

24:16 I texted him and talked to him

24:19 We got along

24:20 We had the same ideas

24:23 We had the same ideas

24:26 We got along and talked

24:29 We talked and we had sex

24:31 Usually, a blind person

24:35 Your family hopes you will find a normal person

24:38 A bright person to take care of you

24:40 But now you are both so single

24:44 Do you worry about your marriage?

24:47 Yes

24:48 Like my mom

24:50 When I was not married

24:53 She told me to get married

24:55 But when I got married

24:57 I took my husband home

24:59 I was not satisfied

25:01 Because my husband was younger than me

25:03 He looked young

25:05 I was young

25:06 I didn't have a job

25:08 So I was worried

25:11 People usually think that a bright person

25:14 can take care of their family

25:15 When you have a baby or you are busy

25:17 people can worry about you

25:19 That's just a common mentality

25:21 I was also worried

25:22 That's why parents think like that

25:24 All parents think like that

25:26 Yes, I know that a decision is made by you

25:29 You had to bear it

25:31 Did you have a fight to get married?

25:34 Yes, we had a fight

25:36 We argued about it

25:38 People think that

25:40 A blind couple is a burden to the family

25:43 But now we are a burden to the family

25:46 People don't believe that a blind person can take care of themselves

25:49 Yes

25:50 People ask me how I can cook

25:54 How can I do this and that

25:56 I can do it

25:58 [Music]

26:27 [Music]

26:43 Wow

26:45 You can cook?

26:46 My cooking skill is getting better

26:47 You can cook all of this?

26:48 Yes, I can cook stir-fried garlic with salt

26:51 I can ask Hai

26:52 What can you help me with?

26:55 I think I can give you some advice

26:58 If I didn't have my arm, I wouldn't have a meal like this

27:02 If I didn't have my arm, I wouldn't have Hai's dish

27:07 Do you know that we had to go to the market

27:10 It was so hard

27:11 One of us couldn't see the way

27:13 And the other one couldn't see the way

27:15 You?

27:16 Two men couldn't see the way to buy vegetables

27:18 Why couldn't you see the way?

27:19 Hai told me that

27:21 I will give you a feeling

27:23 When you join this mini game

27:25 You will go to the market with a pair of eyes that can't see the way

27:27 And he will cover your eyes

27:29 It's like you are blind

27:30 You will buy all of these?

27:32 No

27:33 I have been a bit rude

27:37 Let me introduce Thao

27:39 This is Dao

27:41 Dao is Hai's mother-in-law

27:43 She is Dung's mother

27:44 Hello

27:46 I thought you two were here alone

27:48 Are you here to visit me or are you staying with me?

27:51 I'm here to visit you

27:52 Do you often visit me?

27:54 Yes, I'm free

27:56 I can't go down there because I have to buy some things

28:01 Where are you staying?

28:04 Lam Dong

28:05 What do you grow?

28:06 Coffee

28:07 How many siblings do you have?

28:09 5

28:10 My husband is a Uyghur

28:11 Dung, do you often visit me?

28:16 We are busy with work so we call to visit

28:21 Dung moved to Ho Chi Minh City

28:24 When was that?

28:27 When he was in the 3rd grade

28:29 He moved here?

28:30 Yes, he moved to Nguyen Dien Chieu

28:32 Dung went to school to find a job

28:34 He must have a rice cooker here

28:37 If we don't eat, it will get cold

28:40 You should open the shop so we can eat

28:43 I'd like to invite my mom, my brother and my sister to eat

28:48 I can't cook

28:50 I'll cook for you

28:52 I'll show you a brave woman

28:56 Who usually cooks at home?

28:59 We cook when we are free

29:02 But since we started, we mostly eat out

29:06 Please come in

29:08 Please

29:09 We can talk while eating

29:11 Or else you will be a burden to Hai

29:14 Do you feel happy to have a girlfriend?

29:22 Do you need to fix anything?

29:24 My sisters and I think that if we are blind, we should marry a blind man

29:32 But if he is bright, he is a good man

29:37 If he is a good man, we won't object anything

29:41 Are you happy now?

29:43 Yes, I am

29:45 He is better than my two brothers-in-law

29:51 Really?

29:53 Oh my god

29:54 I'm very happy

29:56 I think if you watch this episode

29:59 You will feel happy

30:01 You won't be jealous

30:03 Because your mom and I never judge you wrongly

30:08 We don't discriminate

30:10 And we are happy for you

30:13 I was happy when I heard that

30:16 Poor him, he was eating and crying

30:18 When you first came to our facility

30:23 You saw that our two children have a place like this

30:27 Although it's rented

30:29 But the first time you came here, how did you feel?

30:33 The first time, when I was still a student

30:36 I went to the school when it was open

30:39 I was happy to see that

30:42 I told my sisters that

30:45 Our two children are not as good as you

30:48 I told them that

30:50 I was happy to see that

30:53 I told my sisters and my husband

30:56 I was happy to see that

30:58 When I came here, I couldn't go down because it was open

31:01 I was busy and couldn't go down

31:04 Did your husband come here?

31:06 No

31:07 To be honest, we raised our children at home

31:12 We only have two grandpas

31:15 He went to his house, and his wife went to her house

31:19 She went to her house with her children

31:21 I stayed at home

31:23 The older children stayed at their own place

31:25 How long has it been since you held your father's hand?

31:28 Or you haven't felt his touch?

31:30 It's been a long time

31:32 I haven't been at home since I was a kid

31:35 So I haven't been in contact with my parents

31:37 Do you love your father?

31:39 Yes

31:40 Why do you ask that?

31:42 No girl loves her father

31:44 Do you want to be close to him?

31:46 I'm a family person

31:48 I love my parents and my siblings

31:51 I want to be close to everyone in the family

31:55 Do you have a dream?

31:57 Do you want to have a meal with your parents everyday?

32:01 Yes

32:03 Do you know why I ask such a simple question?

32:07 Do you love your father?

32:09 Do you miss him?

32:11 It's a simple question

32:13 All the children say yes

32:15 Why do I ask such an easy question?

32:18 People may say why do you ask such a simple question?

32:22 Maybe you don't want to

32:24 You want to hear and feel what your daughter wants to say

32:31 Do you understand?

32:33 What do you want to say?

32:35 I'm emotional

32:38 I want to tell my mom

32:46 Although I was born as a mother

32:55 I'm not lucky

32:57 But I try to study and work

33:01 To be able to take care of myself

33:03 And make my parents proud

33:05 I've heard your wife share such things

33:07 Do you want to say anything else?

33:09 I want to tell my parents

33:13 I love them

33:17 I know that having a child is a big burden for the family

33:22 I know that parents feel pressure

33:26 They love their children

33:30 But the pressure makes them sad

33:35 Everyone has a fate

33:37 No one can control their fate

33:39 We love our parents

33:43 We are grateful for their opportunity

33:47 We try to take care of ourselves

33:50 We love our parents

33:52 We don't want them to suffer when they're 80 or 90

33:57 We want to be able to take care of them

34:01 I've done more than just taking care of myself

34:05 I also help my friends

34:07 I help them find a job

34:09 I help them take care of themselves

34:11 Not everyone can do that

34:13 You two should be proud of yourself

34:15 I know that if I wasn't a blind person

34:18 I wouldn't have had such opportunities

34:20 I accept that I'm a blind person

34:23 I try to change what I can

34:26 I was a bad student

34:30 But I tried to learn

34:32 I was a good student at RMIT

34:37 I started a business

34:41 I helped myself and my friends

34:44 I always try to accept that I'm a blind person

34:48 If I can't find a job, I try to work in the dark

34:53 I try to do everything I can

34:57 I try to overcome myself

35:00 The limit is the sky

35:02 When you overcome yourself

35:04 Your future will be very bright

35:07 That's great

35:09 I've heard from your husband

35:12 What do you think?

35:14 We always have positive energy

35:19 I've never seen

35:23 Two couples kissing without seeing each other

35:28 I admire you

35:30 I want you to show me your love

35:36 I'm kidding

35:40 Can you hold her hand?

35:42 No, we should hold each other's hand

35:44 Hold each other's hand first

35:46 Show me

35:48 Kiss

35:50 So beautiful

35:54 Oh my god

35:56 If you kiss her, you won't answer

35:59 You're so shy

36:01 She's shy

36:03 She's shy

36:05 Kiss her

36:07 I'm so happy to have you two

36:16 You bring me happiness

36:19 One is my mom, the other is my husband

36:22 My husband is the only one I love and respect

36:28 There are only two of us

36:32 Thank you, mom

36:34 Kiss mom

36:36 You kissed your husband, not mom

36:38 You're so cute

36:42 You know, for normal people

36:44 To have a beautiful love

36:46 To meet a person who loves you

36:48 And work hard for a good life

36:50 It's hard

36:52 For those who are poor

36:54 It's even harder

36:56 People think that

36:58 They will live alone

37:00 Or they will never marry

37:02 But you two are the proof

37:04 No one can't be happy

37:06 You will be happy

37:08 You will be loved

37:10 You will find your true love

37:12 The show is over

37:14 We have to say goodbye

37:16 Thank you

37:18 Thank you for watching

37:20 Goodbye

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