#futurestepmom
Dear Chixie,
Maayong adlaw. Tawga lang ko og Klea, 26 years old. My problem is about my parents. Akong mama ug papa kay buwag na. Annulled na sila 3 years ago. Sukad nga nagbuwag sila, akong papa nagfocus na sa trabaho.
Akong nahibaw-an Chixie nga ang akong mama, aduna nay bag-ong uyab. Tungod ani, naguol ko para sa akong papa kay wala na siyay social life. Ako siyang gi-encourage nga mo try og dating. Ug wala madugay Chixie, my dad told me nga he has a girlfriend. Nalipay ko pagkahibaw nako nga finally, ni open up akong papa sa laing babaye.
Gipaila-ila ko sa akong papa sa iyang new girlfriend ug wala ko magdahom sa akong nakita. Ang babaye nga niguba sa akong relasyon with my ex maoy new girlfriend sa akong papa karon. Gawas niana, ang new girlfriend sa akong papa kay 24 anyos. 62 years old na tawon akong papa Chixie. I must admit nga dili ko ganahan sa babaye tungod sa iyang gibuhat namo sa akong ex kaniadto apan nahadlok pud ko alang sa akong papa nga basin og gipangwartahan lang siya.
Karon, aduna silay plano nga magpakasal. Buot nakong malipay ang akong amahan apan dili ko uyon sa babaye. Unsa ang akong angay nga buhaton?
Klea
Dear Chixie,
Maayong adlaw. Tawga lang ko og Klea, 26 years old. My problem is about my parents. Akong mama ug papa kay buwag na. Annulled na sila 3 years ago. Sukad nga nagbuwag sila, akong papa nagfocus na sa trabaho.
Akong nahibaw-an Chixie nga ang akong mama, aduna nay bag-ong uyab. Tungod ani, naguol ko para sa akong papa kay wala na siyay social life. Ako siyang gi-encourage nga mo try og dating. Ug wala madugay Chixie, my dad told me nga he has a girlfriend. Nalipay ko pagkahibaw nako nga finally, ni open up akong papa sa laing babaye.
Gipaila-ila ko sa akong papa sa iyang new girlfriend ug wala ko magdahom sa akong nakita. Ang babaye nga niguba sa akong relasyon with my ex maoy new girlfriend sa akong papa karon. Gawas niana, ang new girlfriend sa akong papa kay 24 anyos. 62 years old na tawon akong papa Chixie. I must admit nga dili ko ganahan sa babaye tungod sa iyang gibuhat namo sa akong ex kaniadto apan nahadlok pud ko alang sa akong papa nga basin og gipangwartahan lang siya.
Karon, aduna silay plano nga magpakasal. Buot nakong malipay ang akong amahan apan dili ko uyon sa babaye. Unsa ang akong angay nga buhaton?
Klea
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01:15 Hello, everybody.
01:25 It's another Tuesday today.
01:27 Welcome.
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01:31 Digital Sunstar Cebu, Sunstar Superbalita.
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01:39 Dear Chixi.
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01:59 Good afternoon.
02:01 It's another episode.
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02:06 It's 4.07, and we will be streaming up until 5 PM.
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02:28 It involves the love life of someone very dear to you.
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04:06 Of a best in love situations.
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04:33 Comment and share your thoughts.
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04:37 Our hashtag for this afternoon is #futurestepmom.
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04:45 When I say, what if somebody dear to you
04:54 is in love with somebody--
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05:27 Milkshad or Milkshad, good afternoon.
05:30 Please share our live and share your thoughts
05:33 for this afternoon's episode.
05:35 #dearchicksie #futurestepmom.
05:38 So obviously, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
05:41 stepmother.
05:43 OK?
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05:47 Story for this afternoon.
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05:56 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:09 For this afternoon's episode, #futurestepmom.
06:14 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:17 For this afternoon.
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06:24 Dear Chicksie, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:43 Just call me Kleia, 26 years old.
06:47 And I'll be honest, this is my first time [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
06:52 program.
06:54 Hopefully, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
07:00 My problem is about my dad.
07:05 Just a background, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
07:10 three years ago.
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07:19 Meanwhile, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
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07:31 In fact, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
07:33 encouraged to start dating again.
07:36 We never know, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
07:41 will make him fall in love again.
07:47 Hi, Dad.
07:48 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
07:50 I'm fine, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
07:53 I heard [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
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08:00 But it's fine.
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08:02 How's your love life?
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08:05 What if I tell you [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
08:09 Really, Dad?
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08:12 Shh, secret [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
08:14 In the right time.
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08:17 I hope [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
08:19 Oh my God, excited [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
08:21 But hopefully, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
08:24 as soon as possible.
08:26 If [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
08:28 then I'll be happy for you too.
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08:41 At least, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
08:43 inspiration.
08:45 After that conversation, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
08:48 to meet his new girlfriend.
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08:57 introduce [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
08:59 girlfriend, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
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09:04 It's been 20 minutes.
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09:15 Hello?
09:16 Hello?
09:16 Hello, Dad?
09:18 Dad?
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09:20 It's been 20 minutes.
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09:29 But don't worry.
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09:33 OK, Dad.
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09:35 But excited?
09:36 [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
09:37 I can't wait to see her.
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09:47 I know a favorite [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
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09:56 OK, Dad.
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09:59 See you in a few minutes.
10:02 Hello, Anak.
10:03 Meet my special someone, my girlfriend, Feliz.
10:07 Feliz, meet my daughter, Clea.
10:11 Hi, I'm Feliz.
10:13 How are you?
10:14 Feliz?
10:15 Oh my gosh.
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10:17 Wait.
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10:20 Dad, see, Feliz is actually my schoolmate by college.
10:25 Really?
10:25 So I guess no need for a long introduction.
10:28 I guess let's have a seat.
10:30 Love, Feliz.
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10:35 Love, thank you.
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10:41 OK, Dad.
10:43 I must admit, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
10:45 when I knew that it was Feliz.
10:48 It was an awkward moment, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
10:51 among the many.
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10:57 I'm currently 26, while Feliz, 24 years old.
11:02 My dad is 62 years old.
11:05 Imagine the age gap, chixi, and our awkwardness.
11:10 I must admit, [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
11:16 But I had no choice but to act cool about it
11:20 and act OK in front of my dad.
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11:25 After that dinner, I secretly invited Feliz
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11:40 Of course.
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11:43 You are against my relationship [NON-ENGLISH SPEECH]
11:46 Well, good.
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11:51 Is this about your ex, Tristan?
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12:02 You're funny.
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12:15 Once again, I am sorry.
12:18 I was desperate during that time.
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12:37 Don't you ever use my dad.
12:39 I am not using your daddy.
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12:44 Besides, he told me he wanted to marry me.
12:48 Excuse me?
12:49 Marry you?
12:51 Yes.
12:52 So if that happens, whether you like me or not,
12:56 I will be your future stepmother.
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13:15 I wanted to tell my dad a story from my past encounter
13:19 with Feliz.
13:20 However, I couldn't keep up with what
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13:25 The question is, should I tell daddy the truth?
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13:34 What if Feliz played with my daddy?
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13:46 Please, thank you.
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14:23 OK.
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15:23 Hello, everybody.
15:24 So thank you so much once again, Shari, Kaiser, and Gwen.
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15:46 Thank you so much, Shari, Kaiser,
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15:54 Thank you so much.
15:55 God bless you all.
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15:59 We've got-- in fairness, huh?
16:01 In fairness, our views today.
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27:11 - So congratulations Rivermaya.
27:33 Next show, "Bisnus."
27:35 (speaking in Tagalog)
27:39 I'm talking about Sanso Marudo and Ria Atayde.
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28:08 She's the daughter of Sylvia Sanchez,
28:11 the sister of R. Jo Atayde.
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28:53 - Forever sounds good.
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29:21 - In several occasions of their family,
29:24 Sanjo is always present.
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29:29 Best wishes, congratulations.
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29:36 Next news item.
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29:44 Such a growing family and she is so blessed.
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29:53 I'm talking about Christine Hermosa Soto,
29:58 the wife of Oyo Soto.
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30:26 She's hoping but she--
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30:49 I may at times feel discouraged,
30:52 but I always have a strong sense of security
30:55 that only God gives.
30:56 I know he got our backs all the time.
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31:01 To be honest, I was hopeful but never really expected
31:04 he would bless us with children like lots of them
31:09 and another one on the way.
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31:13 Funny as it may seem,
31:15 but I still get those butterflies every time I see lines.
31:20 On the PT.
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31:24 Level of overwhelming emotions,
31:28 each stage of every pregnancy.
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31:32 When you can already see and hear the heartbeat.
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31:40 One thing's for certain,
31:44 we really cannot limit God's power,
31:46 even how impossible it may seem.
31:49 God's plans will always come into completion
31:53 whether we like it or not.
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31:58 I praise the Lord for whatever plan he has for me
32:05 and my super growing family.
32:07 After all, he is my creator, my Lord and savior,
32:11 my provider, my peace and joy,
32:13 my eternal hope and ultimately my heavenly father.
32:17 I am his, he definitely knows best
32:21 and I know how much he loves me and you.
32:24 Keep on believing.
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35:19 Shout out to Yamzell and Grasha
35:25 and to everyone who's watching via DJ Chixie
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35:32 Go ahead and share your thoughts.
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36:16 Hello, thank you so much for watching our Facebook live.
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36:24 Dear Chixie episode for this afternoon.
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37:12 Anyways, thank you so much.
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37:26 For trying to share your story.
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37:37 You're rooting for that, you're looking forward.
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38:06 Stepmother or future stepmom.
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38:23 You are one daughter actually.
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38:28 Thinking of your dad's happiness.
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38:48 What if his papa looks younger?
38:50 What if his papa needs to relax, to unwind?
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38:56 Of course, if Lea has life on her own,
38:58 maybe she can have a relationship,
39:00 or maybe she's busy at work, not all the time.
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39:05 So, she's really looking forward.
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39:19 Now, I'm not saying that Phyllis is not young.
39:22 What went wrong is that,
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39:27 But you're not totally judged.
39:32 Let us not stereotype that if the girl is still young,
39:35 and the guy is mature, then the relationship won't work.
39:38 But of course, if you look at me,
39:40 age doesn't matter, but she can see age does matter,
39:43 but it's up to the people involved in the relationship
39:48 if they want it to be a big factor,
39:51 or just a natural thing.
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39:56 Now, when it comes to Clea's emotion and fear,
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40:10 Maybe, Clea, it's not bad to really talk to your dad
40:13 about the issue.
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40:17 And of course, you have to tell your dad
40:25 because you're concerned.
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40:38 And I'm not saying that you are being contrabida.
40:41 First, maybe, we'll start by,
40:43 "Dad, can we have a date? Can we talk?
40:45 "Can we have a moment together?"
40:47 And then next is that, "How are you?
40:49 "Are you happy with Phyllis?"
40:51 And then, (speaking in Tagalog)
40:52 He's happy, he's inspired.
40:54 Then next thing is that, (speaking in Tagalog)
40:57 Then you have to tell the story.
41:03 What went wrong, that you knew her from the past,
41:06 aside from being schoolmates,
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41:10 And it's not bad.
41:11 It's not bad.
41:12 What's bad is that,
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41:26 And I can sense that you have a good relationship.
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41:36 If we knew something that could hurt somebody,
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41:59 That's the best thing that you should do.
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42:05 Now, if love is there, if Phyllis is in love,
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42:12 Then it's safe for you to have a prenup or agreement.
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42:18 Do it.
42:19 But for now, you have to tell your dad,
42:21 "Dad, isn't it too early for a marriage?"
42:24 Again, maybe you're just overwhelmed,
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42:29 I will be honest,
42:31 I'm not saying I'm against it by the age,
42:33 but I'm against the person somehow,
42:35 because I knew who she is.
42:37 It's not wrong to frankly tell your dad
42:42 what went wrong at first.
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42:47 And if you're afraid that your dad will have a reaction,
42:50 (speaking in Tagalog)
42:52 Then you can say, "Yeah, of course,
42:54 (speaking in Tagalog)
42:56 but I did not expect that among the many,
42:58 (speaking in Tagalog)
42:59 I love you so much, I'm just concerned."
43:02 If Phyllis is in love with you,
43:04 and if you really love her,
43:06 then give it time.
43:08 (speaking in Tagalog)
43:10 Get to know the person first, dad,
43:12 because our history is not good.
43:15 (speaking in Tagalog)
43:23 Maybe that's a good sign that she's looking for Phyllis,
43:25 but of course, your dad needs to hear your side.
43:28 If Phyllis has never talked about you,
43:30 about your past,
43:32 about your first interactions,
43:34 because of one guy,
43:36 then maybe you have to really put it out there.
43:39 (speaking in Tagalog)
43:42 (speaking in Tagalog)
43:45 And it's also painful.
43:58 (speaking in Tagalog)
44:01 But if you're really concerned,
44:06 and even if it's hard,
44:08 then say it.
44:10 Now or never.
44:12 And if you will see that they fight for their love,
44:14 and if the person you didn't want to change for the good,
44:17 give it to them.
44:19 (speaking in Tagalog)
44:21 You've done your part.
44:23 (speaking in Tagalog)
44:26 It's not your problem anymore, though.
44:30 (speaking in Tagalog)
44:32 But you've done your part at the end of the day.
44:35 (speaking in Tagalog)
44:39 (speaking in Tagalog)
44:42 Because she's young, younger than me,
44:45 could be your daughter,
44:47 but I'm not judging you for loving her
44:49 if you really are inspired with this person.
44:51 (speaking in Tagalog)
44:54 In that way, you're allowing your father to be happy,
44:57 and not allowing him to be sad.
45:00 Okay? Hello to...
45:02 Hi to Niza Esmitalda.
45:05 Thank you so much.
45:07 Hi to Elika Hanaban.
45:10 Hello, Laika!
45:12 Hello, Laika, how are you?
45:15 Flor Basok and everybody.
45:17 Okay, so I think we're through.
45:20 This is the end of the program.
45:23 And until next time, once again,
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45:57 Thank you to all of you who have shared
46:01 your life experience in our program.
46:04 And also, I'm DJ Chixie.
46:07 Aside from Sunstar, after this,
46:10 I'll also be hosting the program 6 to 9
46:13 on IFM 93.9 Cebu.
46:15 Shoutout to all the idols
46:17 who have been supportive of us here at Sunstar.
46:20 God bless you all. Good afternoon.
46:23 And thank you, thank you so much
46:25 for joining our #DearChixie episode for today.
46:28 Bye!
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