Good Morning Pakistan | Shafaat Ali | Rebecca Faryal | 15 November 2023

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00:00:00 As-salamu alaykum. Good morning Pakistan. As-salamu alaykum. Good morning Pakistan.

00:00:07 As-salamu alaykum. Good morning. Good morning Pakistan.

00:00:14 As-salamu alaykum. Good morning. Good morning Pakistan.

00:00:21 Good morning Pakistan.

00:00:26 As-salamu alaykum. Good morning. Good morning Pakistan.

00:00:31 How are you? Are you doing well?

00:00:35 Today I thought I'd tell you a story.

00:00:38 You like listening to stories, right?

00:00:40 Especially, I love listening to reality-based stories.

00:00:46 I've been fascinated since childhood when my grandparents used to make me sit on red riding hoods, snow white,

00:00:52 or what else was there? Now it's frozen, latest.

00:00:56 Cinderella and I don't know what else, these fantasy stories.

00:01:00 Everyone used to sit in a round chair.

00:01:03 And especially, telling a story at night, it was very fascinating.

00:01:08 And I've noted in those stories, how beautiful things used to happen.

00:01:13 Like, about romance, the prince will come on a horse, and take the princess away.

00:01:19 All the difficulties that would come, the prince would bear them.

00:01:24 And we used to put so many things in our heads, because it was upside down.

00:01:29 After that, they used to write, "Living happily ever after."

00:01:34 Living happily ever after.

00:01:39 I think I should file a case, in fact all the women should file a case,

00:01:43 on those cartoons, on those fairy tales, who wrote this.

00:01:46 Because, they write it the same way in books, in films, in dramas, in stories.

00:01:54 Anyway, now differences are being made, but this is wrong.

00:01:57 They shouldn't write this on that.

00:01:59 Because you show this dream to a small mind,

00:02:05 that after marriage, or after getting your soul mate,

00:02:10 life is a bed of roses, nothing like that.

00:02:14 With so many roses, so many thorns also come.

00:02:18 And no one tells about those thorns, everyone shows good things, everyone tells good things.

00:02:23 Well, you get married, this beautiful expensive dress,

00:02:27 this make-up, this clothes, this jewelry.

00:02:32 Oh, everything is so good.

00:02:35 After that, slowly, slowly, good things start to decrease, somewhere.

00:02:39 But why don't they tell?

00:02:41 In stories, everything should be told.

00:02:43 I mean, good and bad things can happen, this can happen, that can happen.

00:02:48 Why do they play with children's minds?

00:02:50 That's why I am saying, a case should be filed.

00:02:52 So, these stories, when you grow up,

00:02:57 then you watch those dramas and movies in your teenage and twenties,

00:03:02 which make you look for your soul mate, or make you search for your soul mate.

00:03:08 And everyone says in life, that God has made a couple.

00:03:13 You won't even know who will meet whom, and that couple will be made from there.

00:03:18 So, a couple is made, but that happy, what is it?

00:03:25 I repeat, living happily ever after.

00:03:28 I can't even say that line, because there is no such game.

00:03:32 And there is no such game, I am showing you the proof of that today.

00:03:37 Bride and groom, married couple, but it is not possible to sit and praise each other.

00:03:43 Just good things should be said.

00:03:45 And good things don't happen in life.

00:03:48 This is not life at all.

00:03:50 Life is a collection of good and bad things,

00:03:54 which you have to bear, spend, live, compromise.

00:03:59 How to carry this relationship, you will know only when you carry it.

00:04:06 But sometimes, someone's, something, something, definitely sits in your mind.

00:04:13 And when you revive those things,

00:04:16 then on time, if it is sitting in your mind,

00:04:20 then on time, if you apply, then you get saved from a lot of things.

00:04:24 So, today, there will be some celebrities in front of you,

00:04:29 who will give you guidelines, will help you,

00:04:32 maybe to fix that thing of living happily ever after,

00:04:39 what other ingredients should be added to it,

00:04:42 what paragraph should be written with that line,

00:04:46 they will try to tell.

00:04:49 They will tell you about the practical, realistic, real life.

00:04:55 They will tell you, the cloud that is there in your mind,

00:04:58 if you get married, this will happen, if you get married, that will happen,

00:05:02 if you get the girl of your choice, if you get the boy of your choice, this will happen.

00:05:06 What will happen, you will know only later.

00:05:10 So, come, today we will introduce you to a lovely couple,

00:05:15 who have not been married for a long time,

00:05:18 but they have a lot of understanding,

00:05:21 and a personality, who has been married for a long time,

00:05:26 and you are watching me, I have been married for a long time,

00:05:30 so we can help you to a great extent.

00:05:32 So, today, four people will help you,

00:05:34 and those couples who are present on our show,

00:05:37 I don't know what complaints they have brought,

00:05:39 why do people have complaints with each other?

00:05:41 Let's see, today we will talk on the show and know.

00:05:44 Good morning Pakistan, and tell me,

00:05:47 what complaints do you have with yourself and them?

00:05:48 Write to me, so that I can tell everyone,

00:05:50 I will not tell your name, but I will definitely tell the complaints.

00:05:53 Good morning Pakistan.

00:05:55 Welcome, welcome back, good morning Pakistan.

00:06:07 So, our guests have come, and we have such a lovely couple with us,

00:06:12 present right now, who I always see smiling,

00:06:16 and I have checked their understanding,

00:06:19 that thing of temper and familiarity,

00:06:21 they have left everyone's circle, and they have come to number one.

00:06:25 So, I get a very good vibe when they come to my show,

00:06:29 so Shafaq's comedy is lost somewhere,

00:06:35 and then,

00:06:37 Introduce the couple, like the couple of germs,

00:06:41 lying here,

00:06:44 I will not tell the name,

00:06:46 Introduce them,

00:06:48 Rabika Feryal and Shafaq Ali,

00:06:53 with us today, Mr. and Mrs.

00:06:56 Aslam o Alaikum,

00:06:58 Dr. Rabika, sorry,

00:07:00 Namaste, I will not complain to you,

00:07:03 you have studied so hard,

00:07:06 you should be a doctor,

00:07:08 I have studied hard,

00:07:10 I will put you as an engineer,

00:07:13 Engineer Shafaq Ali,

00:07:14 Applause,

00:07:16 Dr. Engineer's couple is present here,

00:07:19 By the way, the couple is not very common,

00:07:21 Dr. Engineer's couple, always the same couple,

00:07:23 This was the one, who was looking for a daughter-in-law,

00:07:25 his engineer son,

00:07:27 who was looking for a son-in-law,

00:07:30 if he had a daughter,

00:07:32 Formula couple,

00:07:34 Formula couple, exactly,

00:07:36 So,

00:07:38 count how many years have passed since you got married,

00:07:42 Counting,

00:07:43 Counting,

00:07:45 It's been a long time,

00:07:47 It's been a long time,

00:07:49 We were very young,

00:07:51 If you count the marriage,

00:07:53 then it's been less years,

00:07:55 but if you count the marriage,

00:07:57 then it's been more years,

00:07:59 Yes, how many years?

00:08:01 10 years,

00:08:03 After marriage,

00:08:05 and how long was the gap between marriage and wedding?

00:08:07 3-4 years,

00:08:10 3-4 years,

00:08:11 The period during marriage is a very good phase,

00:08:13 Golden period,

00:08:15 Golden period after engagement or marriage,

00:08:17 What is golden for a boy?

00:08:19 The period after marriage is called cold drink period,

00:08:22 Because,

00:08:24 You go to your in-laws' house,

00:08:26 she comes to her in-laws' house,

00:08:28 she drinks cold drink,

00:08:30 The real thing is,

00:08:32 when the cold drink is on the side,

00:08:34 Then the real thing happens,

00:08:36 Then you have to make her drink cold drink,

00:08:39 Then the real thing happens,

00:08:40 That's over,

00:08:42 I got a new sentence,

00:08:44 Cold drink period,

00:08:46 Very good,

00:08:48 From today,

00:08:50 we will call it cold drink period,

00:08:52 Yes,

00:08:54 So, you have been married for 6-7 years,

00:08:57 7 years,

00:08:59 But,

00:09:01 I have been married for 21 years,

00:09:03 and there is a senior,

00:09:05 a married man present here,

00:09:08 He is a very good actor,

00:09:09 He plays very good characters,

00:09:11 He doesn't look like a villain,

00:09:13 His face is so soft,

00:09:15 I think he plays very softly in his life,

00:09:18 I have heard that he doesn't look like a villain,

00:09:20 He has got a special moustache done,

00:09:22 So that I look like a villain,

00:09:24 Otherwise, he looks so innocent,

00:09:26 He has played the role of a good boy in the drama,

00:09:29 He is a well-educated boy,

00:09:31 He has studied from outside,

00:09:33 He has studied and is changing his mind-set,

00:09:35 Right,

00:09:37 So, let's see,

00:09:38 What is his point of view on this married life,

00:09:41 And obviously, we will get to learn a lot from him,

00:09:44 He is the same in front of all of us,

00:09:46 Let's welcome,

00:09:48 Kaisar Khan Liza Mahani,

00:09:50 Assalam-o-Alaikum,

00:09:52 Wa-alaikum-assalam,

00:09:54 What's up?

00:09:56 You have so much praise for your husband,

00:09:58 I won't talk about my husband,

00:10:00 My husband doesn't look like a good man,

00:10:02 Why doesn't he look like a good man?

00:10:04 Assalam-o-Alaikum,

00:10:06 How are you?

00:10:07 Thank you,

00:10:09 Please sit,

00:10:11 Thank you,

00:10:13 As you know,

00:10:15 I started this show because,

00:10:17 Fairytales always have good things,

00:10:20 And when bad things start,

00:10:23 It ends,

00:10:25 It's not told what it is,

00:10:27 Everyone has a dreamy fantasy,

00:10:30 About marriage,

00:10:32 Concept,

00:10:35 And then,

00:10:36 The wedding bands are played,

00:10:38 Expensive clothes are worn,

00:10:40 Jewelry,

00:10:42 Now, there are a lot of memes,

00:10:44 After that,

00:10:46 Handkerchiefs,

00:10:48 So, what will you define,

00:10:50 This topic,

00:10:52 What will you debate on this?

00:10:54 First, I would like to say,

00:10:56 To all the viewers of ARY,

00:10:58 Assalam-o-Alaikum,

00:11:00 Thank you Shafaad,

00:11:02 And thank you all for inviting me here,

00:11:04 Didn't Shafaad invite you?

00:11:05 No, he invited me for the show,

00:11:07 And we were talking about the same thing,

00:11:09 And at that time Fazila was in America,

00:11:11 And she is still in America,

00:11:13 You have divided the roles,

00:11:15 One son will be with you,

00:11:17 No, it's not like that,

00:11:19 Like your son is abroad,

00:11:21 You also go secretly,

00:11:23 Spend some time with your son,

00:11:25 In fact,

00:11:27 If we talk about today's topic,

00:11:29 So, in that,

00:11:31 Marriage,

00:11:33 People do it,

00:11:34 It happens,

00:11:36 It's dangerous,

00:11:38 As far as I understand,

00:11:40 In marriage,

00:11:42 You have to give space to each other,

00:11:44 And,

00:11:46 I have seen that,

00:11:48 I have seen that,

00:11:50 We have a new couple sitting in front of us,

00:11:52 And,

00:11:54 Financials,

00:11:56 Are very important for you,

00:11:58 Financials are very important,

00:12:00 So, the love that,

00:12:02 No problem,

00:12:03 It will happen after marriage,

00:12:05 We will do it together,

00:12:07 It happens,

00:12:09 It's a story of Pakiza Digest,

00:12:11 But stories are also formed from our society,

00:12:15 Yes,

00:12:17 Stories don't come from Mars,

00:12:20 It will be of my house,

00:12:22 And your house,

00:12:24 It's a story of our homes,

00:12:26 And how it is presented to us,

00:12:28 That is an art,

00:12:31 If we want a long race,

00:12:33 If we want to run it long,

00:12:35 For that,

00:12:37 Financials should be strong,

00:12:39 100%

00:12:41 And,

00:12:43 Space should be given,

00:12:45 And,

00:12:47 Limits,

00:12:49 You should draw lines,

00:12:51 Kaisar is your line,

00:12:53 You have to draw it,

00:12:55 Fazila is your line,

00:12:57 If we don't cross our lines,

00:13:00 It will be difficult,

00:13:01 But,

00:13:03 As a husband,

00:13:05 I know,

00:13:07 What profession he is from,

00:13:09 And I am from that profession,

00:13:11 And I know the norms here,

00:13:13 And,

00:13:15 Thank God,

00:13:17 It's a good profession,

00:13:19 It's a good job,

00:13:21 It's a blessed job,

00:13:23 We are in the limelight,

00:13:25 That's why,

00:13:27 People see our good and bad,

00:13:29 And,

00:13:30 All the professions,

00:13:32 Are there everywhere,

00:13:34 How old are you guys?

00:13:36 I think,

00:13:38 95

00:13:40 95

00:13:42 Calculate it,

00:13:44 It's difficult,

00:13:46 25 to 30 years,

00:13:48 28 years,

00:13:50 We married carefully,

00:13:52 I see,

00:13:54 When it was on television,

00:13:56 Small,

00:13:58 They made a fake moustache,

00:13:59 It was a fake moustache,

00:14:01 I know,

00:14:03 It was a fake moustache,

00:14:05 I used to get beard,

00:14:07 I used to get beard,

00:14:09 And I used to go to another set,

00:14:11 I was called Sultan Rai,

00:14:13 On PTV,

00:14:15 Because Sindhi and Urdu,

00:14:17 I was doing at the same time,

00:14:19 And thanks to Fatima Suraiya Bajiya Sahiba,

00:14:21 Kazim Pasha Sahib,

00:14:23 Shahid Iqbal Pasha,

00:14:26 They worked hard on my Urdu,

00:14:27 I can't do it myself,

00:14:29 So,

00:14:31 I am very thankful to my father-in-law,

00:14:33 I recognized your name,

00:14:35 Yes,

00:14:37 I met him just now,

00:14:39 15 years ago,

00:14:41 And his voice,

00:14:43 It's going to be 30 years,

00:14:45 His experience,

00:14:47 His marriage experience,

00:14:49 He told three important things,

00:14:51 You both,

00:14:53 10 years after marriage,

00:14:55 You both are married,

00:14:56 This is a very important point,

00:14:58 I am happy,

00:15:00 I am not married,

00:15:02 You believe me,

00:15:04 When I was getting married,

00:15:06 Someone told me,

00:15:08 Sindhi people have two marriages,

00:15:10 Think what will happen,

00:15:12 I said, what are you making me count,

00:15:14 My father also didn't get married,

00:15:16 And that poor innocent man told me,

00:15:18 My father also didn't get married,

00:15:20 It doesn't happen,

00:15:22 It's not like that,

00:15:24 What will you say,

00:15:25 Tell us,

00:15:27 The most important point,

00:15:29 It's very important to draw lines,

00:15:31 It takes 5 years to draw a line,

00:15:33 Yes,

00:15:35 It takes time,

00:15:37 And until the line is drawn,

00:15:39 It's just a process,

00:15:41 And this is a very crucial period,

00:15:43 In which there can be a make or break,

00:15:45 Many people,

00:15:47 And if the line is drawn,

00:15:49 And the financials are not clear,

00:15:52 Who is responsible for what,

00:15:54 Until the line is drawn,

00:15:56 It should be divided,

00:15:58 I think it should be,

00:16:00 This is yours, this is mine,

00:16:02 Can I say something,

00:16:04 Yes, please,

00:16:06 We are Muslims,

00:16:08 Kalma Guh,

00:16:10 So, God has given us a limitation,

00:16:12 That men should earn,

00:16:14 Okay,

00:16:16 But in today's situation,

00:16:18 Women are not even coming out of the house,

00:16:21 Women also come out of the house,

00:16:22 They also earn,

00:16:24 The line we have drawn in the house,

00:16:26 Is that the education of the children,

00:16:28 And the kitchen,

00:16:30 That I will earn,

00:16:32 My wife has to earn,

00:16:34 Gift clothes to the children,

00:16:36 Take them out for a walk,

00:16:38 Get toys,

00:16:40 Whatever is there,

00:16:42 But the kitchen,

00:16:44 If I have money for lentils,

00:16:46 Then lentils will also be made with my money,

00:16:49 And if I have to cook chicken,

00:16:50 Then I will also cook with my money,

00:16:52 Similarly, the education of the children,

00:16:54 That is also my responsibility,

00:16:56 A woman's responsibility is not to run the house,

00:17:00 A woman either leaves the house due to her husband's support,

00:17:04 Or she leaves the house out of helplessness,

00:17:07 And the women,

00:17:09 The girls who leave the house out of helplessness,

00:17:11 If they tell someone that we are working out of helplessness,

00:17:14 Then they are exploited,

00:17:17 So the girls who are watching our show,

00:17:19 They should never express their weakness in front of anyone,

00:17:23 Absolutely,

00:17:25 So we will come back,

00:17:27 You also told the same things,

00:17:29 Agreed, totally agreed,

00:17:31 I think the most important thing,

00:17:33 If you also feel it is right,

00:17:35 Is trust,

00:17:37 Which develops after some time,

00:17:39 But as they said,

00:17:41 You should give space in the beginning,

00:17:43 Along with space, you should also trust a little,

00:17:46 As you said,

00:17:47 Our health field, even medical field,

00:17:49 You have night duties,

00:17:51 So you need to trust that whatever is there is right,

00:17:53 Unless and until you,

00:17:55 God forbid,

00:17:57 If something like this comes in front of you,

00:17:59 Otherwise, by bringing doubts in the heart,

00:18:01 The person spoils his relationship,

00:18:03 In any relationship,

00:18:05 There should not be any doubt,

00:18:07 Then it becomes very difficult to spend life,

00:18:09 It is for both,

00:18:11 It is for both,

00:18:13 Because there is a lot of fight,

00:18:15 Okay,

00:18:16 So this series will continue,

00:18:18 Different couples will come here,

00:18:20 Will tell their love story,

00:18:22 So that in the morning,

00:18:24 It feels good to hear someone's love story,

00:18:26 Why did the fly come,

00:18:28 She also wants to tell,

00:18:30 She also wants to tell some story,

00:18:32 I am also a fly,

00:18:34 Okay,

00:18:36 So here we introduce you,

00:18:38 We have a very beautiful couple,

00:18:40 Lubna and Shahzaib,

00:18:42 They are made for each other,

00:18:44 How are you?

00:18:45 I am feeling very good to meet you,

00:18:47 I don't like anyone in the industry,

00:18:50 But your cheeks,

00:18:52 I really want to see,

00:18:54 Someone is saying it for the first time,

00:18:56 I like this cheek,

00:18:58 They talked about this all the way,

00:19:00 They talked about my cheeks,

00:19:02 Oh God,

00:19:04 I am feeling shy,

00:19:06 I just want to go and see,

00:19:08 I want to see the lips and cheeks,

00:19:10 I am sure,

00:19:13 I will not go to the show,

00:19:14 I will go to Neda Yashar,

00:19:16 I will see Neda Yashar,

00:19:18 Is she beautiful or not?

00:19:20 She is very beautiful,

00:19:22 You don't need to wear blush today,

00:19:24 You are already blushing,

00:19:26 Very good,

00:19:28 How long has it been since your marriage?

00:19:30 We have been talking about you,

00:19:32 It's been a year,

00:19:34 It's a golden period,

00:19:36 Golden period,

00:19:38 You can't call it golden,

00:19:40 The reason is that,

00:19:42 She was committed 3 months ago,

00:19:43 I was committed too,

00:19:45 We were going to a different zone,

00:19:48 And suddenly,

00:19:50 It's called the game of fate,

00:19:52 Fate is such that,

00:19:54 We eloped and got married,

00:19:56 No, no,

00:19:58 I am the one who is sad,

00:20:00 No, no,

00:20:02 A guy eloped and got married,

00:20:04 And when the wedding procession was going to my house,

00:20:06 He had set up security,

00:20:08 So that my mother doesn't come,

00:20:11 Because my mother is a lawyer,

00:20:12 Because of that,

00:20:14 All my friends, ministers were there,

00:20:16 So I made a whole zone,

00:20:18 So that if my mother comes to know,

00:20:20 She will come with a notice,

00:20:22 And everyone will go inside,

00:20:24 What kind of notice will you give?

00:20:26 You are an adult, can you get married?

00:20:28 I will give notice in this sense,

00:20:30 Because they had gone to a farmhouse,

00:20:32 And they didn't know that I was getting married,

00:20:34 They didn't know anything,

00:20:36 And their poor little son is getting married,

00:20:38 Basically our family,

00:20:40 Had a little clash,

00:20:41 She is my uncle's daughter,

00:20:43 Oh my God,

00:20:45 You eloped from your uncle's daughter and got married,

00:20:47 Literally, we have grown up,

00:20:49 But we never met each other,

00:20:51 Because his mother got married out of family,

00:20:53 And we are married,

00:20:55 So out of family is not allowed,

00:20:57 You didn't like it,

00:20:59 You used to come home,

00:21:01 I used to hate each other,

00:21:03 And I have kept them on the job,

00:21:05 To make them laugh,

00:21:07 Come I will show you,

00:21:09 You had eye contact,

00:21:10 Enmity,

00:21:12 Enmity is the first step,

00:21:14 Then friendship,

00:21:16 I didn't even realize,

00:21:18 That you are making enmity with such a beautiful girl,

00:21:20 I used to cry,

00:21:22 And he used to make her happy,

00:21:24 So was your marriage a marriage of love,

00:21:26 Or a marriage of revenge?

00:21:28 I will give you such a punishment,

00:21:30 That you will never forget,

00:21:32 Marry her,

00:21:34 You married her to take revenge,

00:21:37 But the criteria has changed,

00:21:38 The person I don't like,

00:21:40 I will marry her,

00:21:42 How did this happen?

00:21:44 Before that we were committed,

00:21:46 They were going to get engaged,

00:21:48 This is a big engagement,

00:21:50 Very good,

00:21:52 Star Plus's daughter in law,

00:21:54 So listen,

00:21:56 I have a content,

00:21:58 Tell me,

00:22:00 You are getting married,

00:22:02 What were you thinking?

00:22:04 Why did you take security?

00:22:06 Why didn't you get married?

00:22:07 Basically it was very difficult,

00:22:09 My mother is a one woman army,

00:22:11 She is a lawyer,

00:22:13 And her mind is like,

00:22:15 I am the youngest,

00:22:17 We are 10 siblings,

00:22:19 We belong to the Pathan family,

00:22:21 So I was the 7th,

00:22:23 Everyone must have thought,

00:22:25 That we will do this,

00:22:27 All of a sudden,

00:22:29 We convinced her mother,

00:22:31 I convinced her,

00:22:33 She is saying,

00:22:35 You convinced her,

00:22:36 We have been with her for a month,

00:22:38 Sometimes she agrees,

00:22:40 Sometimes she doesn't,

00:22:42 I said I will do it somewhere else,

00:22:44 She said I won't let this happen,

00:22:46 Your father convinced her,

00:22:48 No, no,

00:22:50 I convinced her,

00:22:52 She convinced my father,

00:22:54 She went to the hospital,

00:22:56 My father was an ambulance,

00:22:58 She is her uncle's daughter,

00:23:00 In the story so far,

00:23:03 There was enmity,

00:23:04 Between the siblings,

00:23:06 The boy eloped and married,

00:23:08 And during the marriage,

00:23:10 There was a risk of mother's attack,

00:23:12 But it didn't happen,

00:23:14 But still she liked the girl,

00:23:16 But she never liked the girl,

00:23:18 What is this?

00:23:20 And mother went to the farmhouse,

00:23:22 And mother is a lawyer,

00:23:24 She is coming to class,

00:23:26 I hated her for 3 years,

00:23:28 Everything happened in 3 months,

00:23:30 I didn't like her,

00:23:32 I left my job because of her,

00:23:33 I finished everything,

00:23:35 You hired her,

00:23:37 I hired her,

00:23:39 I hired her,

00:23:41 Let's listen to her story,

00:23:43 But listen,

00:23:45 It has to be a month,

00:23:47 Don't skip,

00:23:49 Don't talk about the past,

00:23:51 I want an answer,

00:23:53 Why did you marry me?

00:23:55 I used to ask you when you hated me,

00:23:57 We want to know,

00:23:59 I will listen to this answer,

00:24:01 I will listen to this answer,

00:24:02 She is going to the wrong place,

00:24:04 I used to tell my mother,

00:24:06 When he comes home,

00:24:08 Make him run away,

00:24:10 You didn't have to do anything,

00:24:12 There was nothing like that,

00:24:14 I was focused on my struggle period,

00:24:16 I used to say I want to work,

00:24:18 And become something,

00:24:20 After a break,

00:24:22 I will listen to your love story,

00:24:24 We will do something,

00:24:26 If it was a love marriage,

00:24:28 There are many more people to tell,

00:24:30 If it was a love marriage,

00:24:31 It would have been straight,

00:24:33 No brother,

00:24:35 No brother,

00:24:37 There were many problems here too,

00:24:39 After a short break,

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00:26:26 We were talking,

00:26:27 About married life,

00:26:29 And we have,

00:26:31 A newly married couple,

00:26:33 Lubna and Shahzaib,

00:26:35 Who started telling their story,

00:26:37 But there was something incomplete,

00:26:39 Let's complete that,

00:26:41 You met,

00:26:43 You hated each other,

00:26:45 Then you got married,

00:26:47 The boy eloped,

00:26:49 And then what happened?

00:26:51 Then we got married,

00:26:53 Did your mother agree?

00:26:55 No,

00:26:56 When you had a daughter,

00:26:58 How did you convince her?

00:27:00 We took her to the hospital,

00:27:02 And I called her,

00:27:04 And told her,

00:27:06 That she was in the house,

00:27:08 And I told her,

00:27:10 That I am a father,

00:27:12 And then she,

00:27:14 So before the baby,

00:27:16 You didn't try to contact her?

00:27:18 No,

00:27:20 We did contact her,

00:27:22 But only after marriage,

00:27:24 We started contacting her,

00:27:25 It wasn't like it should be,

00:27:27 She wasn't agreeing,

00:27:29 That her daughter in law is not agreeing,

00:27:31 That is still there,

00:27:33 A mother in law and daughter in law's relationship,

00:27:35 Can never be good,

00:27:37 You become a aunt and nephew,

00:27:39 What else,

00:27:41 No, but we do,

00:27:43 If we are in a family event,

00:27:45 Or if there is a wedding,

00:27:47 We tell everyone,

00:27:49 That she is my niece,

00:27:51 And she is my niece,

00:27:53 And we tell everyone,

00:27:54 That a mother in law and daughter in law's relationship,

00:27:56 Can never be good,

00:27:58 You are not going home,

00:28:00 I will go to my own house,

00:28:02 How do you decide,

00:28:04 Between a married couple and a married couple,

00:28:06 But you didn't tell us,

00:28:08 When did she realize,

00:28:10 That she is your niece,

00:28:12 She realized it,

00:28:14 After a week of marriage,

00:28:16 She is my sister,

00:28:18 After a week of marriage,

00:28:20 Then?

00:28:22 We were in PTA,

00:28:23 And we came after a week,

00:28:25 You were hiding,

00:28:27 She didn't know where her son was,

00:28:29 She knew,

00:28:31 But she was upset with him,

00:28:33 But then he got better,

00:28:35 Daily messages used to come,

00:28:37 Where are you,

00:28:39 What are you doing,

00:28:41 I used to say I am working,

00:28:43 I am busy,

00:28:45 Then she used to say,

00:28:47 I found out something,

00:28:49 She knew,

00:28:51 She wanted to hear from me,

00:28:52 That I will tell her,

00:28:54 What happened,

00:28:56 Then I said,

00:28:58 She knew,

00:29:00 I said I got married,

00:29:02 I just disconnected her phone,

00:29:04 Now you are married,

00:29:06 Not a love marriage,

00:29:08 This is a marriage of hatred,

00:29:10 What should I call it?

00:29:12 Marriage of revenge,

00:29:14 Love in three months,

00:29:16 It will last long,

00:29:18 It is still going on,

00:29:20 Did you have any fights,

00:29:21 Or did you have a fight?

00:29:23 We have had such bad fights,

00:29:25 From the beginning,

00:29:27 She said it takes two to five years,

00:29:29 She was right,

00:29:31 We were talking about this,

00:29:33 I said you need to understand,

00:29:35 I would suggest the new couple,

00:29:37 If you get married,

00:29:39 Don't have a child for five years,

00:29:41 After the child,

00:29:43 I think your marriage will be ruined,

00:29:45 But in your case,

00:29:47 The child solved it,

00:29:49 But the main problem is,

00:29:50 I am with you,

00:29:52 I am expecting,

00:29:54 You don't give time,

00:29:56 When your husband comes,

00:29:58 The kids get so angry,

00:30:00 You are still alive,

00:30:02 What will you do after 21 years,

00:30:04 What will you do after 30 years,

00:30:06 You have a whole life,

00:30:08 I think you have a lot of fights,

00:30:10 You don't give time to each other,

00:30:12 But in my marriage,

00:30:14 The main thing I saw,

00:30:16 I got a lot of status,

00:30:18 After my marriage,

00:30:19 She was lucky,

00:30:21 My daughter is lucky,

00:30:23 And my daughter is lucky,

00:30:25 Success,

00:30:27 I will give you that,

00:30:29 After my marriage,

00:30:31 Girls bring their luck,

00:30:33 If luck brings you together,

00:30:35 In the situation of inflation,

00:30:37 We should do three to four,

00:30:39 Never do three to four,

00:30:41 Why not?

00:30:43 Luck is one,

00:30:45 She will bring one,

00:30:47 This is a hadith,

00:30:48 If one marriage is not solving your problem,

00:30:50 You should do another,

00:30:52 This is a hadith,

00:30:54 What is happening?

00:30:56 I am from the last one,

00:30:58 I don't know where this is going,

00:31:00 You can't handle one,

00:31:02 What will you do after doing the other,

00:31:04 He says you won't get married,

00:31:06 You will find out what happens after marriage,

00:31:08 You will keep the relation like this,

00:31:10 What will happen now?

00:31:12 Will you make my show stop?

00:31:15 Yes,

00:31:16 Tell me,

00:31:18 What are the problems?

00:31:20 Do you start fighting after the child?

00:31:22 I think you don't get time,

00:31:24 To talk to each other,

00:31:26 If you are sitting,

00:31:28 Your daughter will ask you to sit in the middle,

00:31:30 Why are you sitting?

00:31:32 If you are going for dinner,

00:31:34 You are paying attention to the child,

00:31:36 Feed her,

00:31:38 Her diaper is not full,

00:31:40 First you are doing your own,

00:31:43 Then you are doing the baby's,

00:31:44 It's not like you do it for me,

00:31:46 It's not like you do it for me,

00:31:48 But the love I want,

00:31:50 I don't have that,

00:31:52 Expectations,

00:31:54 I think she is jealous of her daughter,

00:31:58 I think she is jealous of her daughter,

00:32:00 I think she is jealous of her daughter,

00:32:02 She is jealous of her daughter,

00:32:04 She is jealous of her daughter,

00:32:06 I think the family system counts,

00:32:11 If the grandmothers are at home,

00:32:14 Then there are no problems,

00:32:16 It's not a problem,

00:32:18 It's not a problem,

00:32:20 I have to face this the most,

00:32:23 If the grandmothers are there,

00:32:25 Then the children are with them,

00:32:27 Grandmothers enjoy it,

00:32:29 The children mostly go to the grandmother,

00:32:31 And the care of the grandmother,

00:32:33 I have seen this,

00:32:35 I was brought up in Nanihal,

00:32:37 My children will also go to Nanihal,

00:32:40 If you go to Nanihal,

00:32:41 We have changed the living style,

00:32:45 Not standards,

00:32:47 Because earlier there were big houses,

00:32:49 Then the houses were divided,

00:32:52 The children left the houses,

00:32:54 Went to apartments,

00:32:56 Small apartments,

00:32:58 You know what kind of living is in apartments,

00:33:00 I think this is our family system,

00:33:02 When did you both have a child?

00:33:04 Because your family is in all of Islamabad,

00:33:06 Our entire family is in Peshawar, Islamabad,

00:33:09 And when Ali came in our lives,

00:33:12 Life took a turn,

00:33:16 We enjoyed every single bit of our life,

00:33:20 What is the secret of it?

00:33:22 I think it varies from person to person,

00:33:26 If the parents have thought of their child,

00:33:30 That we want to make our child like this,

00:33:33 Or want to give him such facilities,

00:33:36 Or we want to carry him like this,

00:33:38 Then you can do everything,

00:33:40 I think we,

00:33:42 After Ali's birth,

00:33:45 We travelled for 8-10 months continuously,

00:33:49 Because I used to have shows,

00:33:51 I was travelling everywhere,

00:33:53 You were saying that your wife is very lucky for you,

00:33:56 I tell her that I am very lucky,

00:33:58 Because after that she got all the fame,

00:34:00 But after Ali's arrival,

00:34:02 The viral videos that she has uploaded,

00:34:04 That happened after Ali,

00:34:07 We went on a trip to Thailand,

00:34:09 So it matters a lot,

00:34:11 Your wife's and child's progress is very good,

00:34:14 Did you have this complaint,

00:34:16 That when children are born,

00:34:18 A girl comes in your life,

00:34:20 No, not at all,

00:34:22 In fact,

00:34:24 Once I,

00:34:26 I think it was Ali's birthday,

00:34:30 I reminded him,

00:34:32 That it's been so long since we fought,

00:34:36 Because we were focused on him,

00:34:38 Both of us,

00:34:40 We were very focused on him,

00:34:42 And before that, we were very focused,

00:34:44 Because we were alone,

00:34:46 We were bored,

00:34:48 And we didn't have a family,

00:34:50 So we were away from each other,

00:34:52 The whole family was sitting and chilling,

00:34:54 We were sitting and playing,

00:34:56 There was no circle of friendship,

00:34:58 There was no other way,

00:35:00 We could not be entertained,

00:35:02 But when Ali came in our life,

00:35:05 We were very focused on him,

00:35:06 We travelled a lot,

00:35:08 We took him with us,

00:35:10 We are still doing it,

00:35:12 In fact, I went on two US tours,

00:35:14 We were with him,

00:35:16 And we enjoyed it a lot,

00:35:18 Do you have any tips for him,

00:35:20 That he should do it with a child,

00:35:22 No, no, no,

00:35:24 No, no, no,

00:35:26 He comes by train,

00:35:28 He has to do it from everywhere,

00:35:30 Leave my jewelry,

00:35:32 Leave my makeup,

00:35:34 Then she will ask,

00:35:35 Why did you tell me?

00:35:37 All kids are like this,

00:35:39 And then the anger,

00:35:41 Give him a tip,

00:35:43 I think the most important tip is,

00:35:45 You have to focus on your child,

00:35:47 100% on your child,

00:35:49 The more time the mother gives,

00:35:51 The more the child grows,

00:35:53 Like I said,

00:35:55 Where is he running?

00:35:57 He will not go anywhere,

00:35:59 He is with you,

00:36:01 He will not go anywhere,

00:36:03 He will grow up,

00:36:04 You also had kids early,

00:36:06 No, we had some time,

00:36:08 We had kids early,

00:36:10 And when this is the first year,

00:36:12 He has a scenario of doubt,

00:36:14 Oh, have fun,

00:36:16 That's my business,

00:36:18 I have my gym,

00:36:20 I have full trust on my husband,

00:36:22 But I don't like girls these days,

00:36:24 No, no, nothing like that,

00:36:26 It's right,

00:36:28 Old and new,

00:36:31 I have heard this 5-6 crore times,

00:36:32 I don't remember where I heard it,

00:36:34 It depends on the job,

00:36:36 What you do,

00:36:38 But I have my own gym,

00:36:40 And girls come there too,

00:36:42 So you don't even want to see your daughter,

00:36:44 That when girls come to the gym,

00:36:46 You are in trouble,

00:36:48 When there is a challenge in the gym,

00:36:50 I am watching the camera,

00:36:52 Oh my God,

00:36:54 And if he is in the gym cafe,

00:36:56 I will die,

00:36:58 Because my husband makes movies,

00:37:00 He is from CID,

00:37:01 I will kill myself,

00:37:03 Trust is important,

00:37:05 I have trust,

00:37:07 Or you will miss him,

00:37:09 When he goes to work,

00:37:11 You miss the company,

00:37:13 You are alone,

00:37:15 You have less friends,

00:37:17 Friends are there,

00:37:19 We cook together,

00:37:21 You come,

00:37:23 She goes somewhere else,

00:37:25 No, but I check the camera,

00:37:27 Because I don't trust girls,

00:37:29 I don't trust girls,

00:37:30 Then why did you put the camera?

00:37:32 Did Fazila ever doubt you?

00:37:34 No, never,

00:37:36 Complaints are so many,

00:37:38 In the world,

00:37:40 It seems that men are responsible for everything,

00:37:43 Electricity is the responsibility of men,

00:37:45 Traffic is the responsibility of men,

00:37:47 Light is gone,

00:37:49 Everything is men's,

00:37:51 I am sitting in the gym,

00:37:53 Light is gone,

00:37:55 What is my fault?

00:37:58 I didn't park the car in the parking,

00:37:59 I would have kept you in the park,

00:38:01 Seriously,

00:38:03 I am feeling so innocent,

00:38:05 I am feeling your pain,

00:38:07 I am not telling you,

00:38:09 I am not telling you,

00:38:11 Should I give you both tissues?

00:38:13 Just give me the assurance,

00:38:15 That Allah will reduce my brother's pain,

00:38:17 I am like this,

00:38:19 I will not say,

00:38:21 I am like this,

00:38:23 I am sorry,

00:38:25 I made a mistake,

00:38:27 I am sorry,

00:38:28 I am sorry,

00:38:30 In our 600 page book,

00:38:32 Men are given one thing after marriage,

00:38:34 Sorry,

00:38:36 Let's see what is the difference between your story,

00:38:38 And Huzaifa and Myra's story,

00:38:40 Let's go and listen to their story,

00:38:42 Then we will see,

00:38:44 Why are the marriages of today like this?

00:38:46 Then we will think about it,

00:38:48 Yes,

00:38:50 How did you meet?

00:38:52 We met like this,

00:38:54 We are an arranged marriage,

00:38:56 We got a good variety,

00:38:57 One love marriage, one arranged marriage,

00:38:59 I saw her video in her status,

00:39:01 My class fellow,

00:39:03 My parents asked me if I like someone,

00:39:05 I said,

00:39:07 You can see her,

00:39:09 Then they started watching,

00:39:11 But I liked her,

00:39:13 My sister is her class fellow,

00:39:15 When I asked for her pictures,

00:39:17 I told my parents,

00:39:19 They saw it and said no,

00:39:21 My sister has such a bad image,

00:39:23 I told my parents,

00:39:25 My sister sends such bad pictures,

00:39:26 I didn't like her pictures,

00:39:28 My sister is not my type,

00:39:30 But the video was different,

00:39:32 I told them to watch the video,

00:39:34 When they went,

00:39:36 They understood,

00:39:38 They showed me the video,

00:39:40 They met me,

00:39:42 And the relationship was done,

00:39:44 After that they finished the relationship,

00:39:46 I created the same hurdles at home,

00:39:48 That I can't do it now,

00:39:50 You first meet me,

00:39:52 Then I will say yes to the relationship,

00:39:54 You have to meet me,

00:39:55 This was going on for a long time,

00:39:57 They said yes,

00:39:59 We said yes,

00:40:01 I stopped them,

00:40:03 I said,

00:40:05 We won't move ahead until we meet,

00:40:07 Then what happened?

00:40:09 I explained the story to my parents,

00:40:11 But I didn't understand,

00:40:13 Where to go?

00:40:15 They had met you,

00:40:17 They didn't tell you,

00:40:19 I wanted to talk face to face,

00:40:21 You saw the video,

00:40:23 You didn't want to meet me,

00:40:24 What did you say?

00:40:26 No, no,

00:40:28 Continue,

00:40:30 I had stomach pain,

00:40:32 That's it,

00:40:34 They said yes,

00:40:36 We were at home,

00:40:38 I was stubborn,

00:40:40 I didn't see them,

00:40:42 I saw them during the engagement,

00:40:44 We got engaged,

00:40:46 They didn't let us meet,

00:40:48 We were engaged for 1.5 years,

00:40:50 But we didn't meet,

00:40:52 Who is he?

00:40:53 If we meet,

00:40:55 They would lock us up,

00:40:57 They didn't allow calls,

00:40:59 No mobile,

00:41:01 But still,

00:41:03 They would talk to us secretly,

00:41:05 On their sister's phone,

00:41:07 They would talk to us like this,

00:41:09 Once a week,

00:41:11 This is normal,

00:41:13 You can't talk after the engagement,

00:41:15 If we had an event at home,

00:41:17 We were not allowed,

00:41:19 Cold drink period,

00:41:21 They would keep a strict eye on us,

00:41:22 They wouldn't let us meet,

00:41:24 Everyone would see,

00:41:26 She was on one side,

00:41:28 I was on the other,

00:41:30 They would take pictures,

00:41:32 They would say,

00:41:34 You got married,

00:41:36 It's not like that now,

00:41:38 How long has it been?

00:41:40 It was our anniversary yesterday,

00:41:42 It's been a year,

00:41:44 We are having stories of a year,

00:41:46 It's been a year,

00:41:49 Finally,

00:41:50 Spray the fly,

00:41:52 She wants to say something,

00:41:54 She wants to say something,

00:41:56 After a year,

00:41:58 You saw it properly,

00:42:00 Did you start complaining?

00:42:02 Did she complain more than you?

00:42:04 I don't have a lot of complaints,

00:42:06 Her secret to health,

00:42:08 She shows so much of her body,

00:42:10 Even if she is a fat wife,

00:42:12 She is not at peace,

00:42:14 But,

00:42:16 Health is also a thing,

00:42:18 You shouldn't compromise,

00:42:19 If you are hungry,

00:42:21 You should eat at the time,

00:42:23 Look at yourself first,

00:42:25 Then, you should complain about her,

00:42:27 What can I say,

00:42:29 She is like that,

00:42:31 She is like that,

00:42:33 She picks up the dumbells in the morning,

00:42:35 She fills water in the pot,

00:42:37 What can I say,

00:42:39 If she is hungry,

00:42:41 She will sit,

00:42:43 She will bring it or take it out,

00:42:45 She is lazy to eat,

00:42:47 And,

00:42:48 She is very forgetful,

00:42:50 How are you living with such a person?

00:42:53 Did you tell her how she is living?

00:42:56 Forgetfulness is a problem,

00:42:58 Let her talk first,

00:43:00 She is talking,

00:43:02 Tell her what is forgetfulness?

00:43:04 If I say something,

00:43:06 She will do it the other way,

00:43:08 If I say two things at the same time,

00:43:10 She will do it the other way,

00:43:12 Recently,

00:43:14 I told her,

00:43:16 He will keep the casual clothes here,

00:43:17 And the coats in the other cupboard,

00:43:19 She kept both of them here,

00:43:21 This one,

00:43:23 Tell me, are you really husband and wife?

00:43:25 Yes,

00:43:27 It's a good thing,

00:43:29 Shahzaib keeps his own clothes,

00:43:31 Why do you put her in charge of your wardrobe?

00:43:33 Why is she responsible?

00:43:35 Earlier,

00:43:37 I was responsible for it for 7-8 months,

00:43:39 Because,

00:43:41 When my maid used to wash and keep the clothes,

00:43:43 I used to see after that,

00:43:45 She used to keep the clothes,

00:43:46 If she used to wash it together,

00:43:48 She used to keep it together,

00:43:50 With all due respect,

00:43:52 I will be a little different,

00:43:54 I am older than you,

00:43:56 But when it comes to wardrobe,

00:43:58 I have to do my own wardrobe,

00:44:00 Even if I do it in 10 years,

00:44:02 Yes,

00:44:04 This is it,

00:44:06 If I open the wardrobe and things fall on it,

00:44:08 Fazila and kids keep making noise,

00:44:10 I just see them,

00:44:12 I am not afraid of anyone,

00:44:14 Shoes and clothes are separate,

00:44:15 So we have to take care of our own things,

00:44:17 So in the same way,

00:44:19 I think you should take care of your own things,

00:44:21 I take care of my own things,

00:44:23 I think more than her,

00:44:25 Like the towel is in the place of the towel,

00:44:27 Have you ever thought,

00:44:29 Why did Allah keep all the good in you,

00:44:31 Why did he keep all the bad in you?

00:44:33 I have some bad things too,

00:44:35 Now she will tell,

00:44:37 She has not started yet,

00:44:39 Before I go on break,

00:44:41 You also say something in praise of her,

00:44:43 I have praised her a lot,

00:44:44 Mashallah, she has praised you too,

00:44:46 He sleeps a lot,

00:44:48 The biggest bad thing is this,

00:44:50 And the second thing,

00:44:52 If I get angry,

00:44:54 He gets angry before me,

00:44:56 I have to make him angry,

00:44:58 This is wrong,

00:45:00 If I get angry,

00:45:02 He gets angry before me,

00:45:04 Why are you angry?

00:45:06 You both are young couple,

00:45:08 Who says sorry,

00:45:10 Even if it is someone's fault,

00:45:12 I will take some tips from them,

00:45:13 I am going to take tips,

00:45:15 Sorry is made for boys,

00:45:17 Whose fault it is,

00:45:19 They will say sorry,

00:45:21 Why will we say?

00:45:23 I am thinking,

00:45:25 How is it possible,

00:45:27 That boys say sorry to everything,

00:45:29 I can't even think of saying sorry,

00:45:31 Who says sorry between you both?

00:45:33 Of course,

00:45:35 By the way,

00:45:37 I don't need it,

00:45:39 But I say it 100%

00:45:41 Who says sorry to you both?

00:45:42 I do,

00:45:44 My husband and I,

00:45:46 He says it mostly,

00:45:48 But I say it too,

00:45:50 He is the one who asks,

00:45:52 He does it mostly,

00:45:54 But I say it too,

00:45:56 I don't have ego,

00:45:58 Who says sorry to you both?

00:46:00 She says it,

00:46:02 Because I say sorry as much as I don't,

00:46:04 You don't have to say sorry,

00:46:06 That sorry is not acceptable,

00:46:08 After a break,

00:46:10 I am sending this kid for training,

00:46:12 We will meet after a break,

00:46:17 Good morning Pakistan,

00:46:19 Welcome,

00:46:33 Welcome back,

00:46:35 Good morning Pakistan,

00:46:37 We were talking to a very complaining husband,

00:46:39 He was talking to his wife,

00:46:40 Husband and wife have different personalities,

00:46:43 Hussain and Maira have different personalities,

00:46:46 The couple who came before,

00:46:48 You can ask them after 5 years,

00:46:50 Yes,

00:46:52 The same thing,

00:46:54 You can ask them after 5 years,

00:46:56 If I ask about personalities,

00:46:58 Your personalities,

00:47:00 I will tell my own and Yasir's,

00:47:02 What difference do you think,

00:47:04 Because personalities can't be the same,

00:47:07 Two people are two different units,

00:47:09 Even the car that is made in a factory,

00:47:13 If the car is made in the same factory,

00:47:16 If the car is made with a difference of 2-4 days,

00:47:19 There is a difference,

00:47:21 We are humans,

00:47:23 Gender is different,

00:47:25 We have a personality difference,

00:47:27 It is up to you,

00:47:29 How you give space to the next person,

00:47:32 You give space to your life,

00:47:35 How you can give space to your wife,

00:47:37 What do you mean by giving space?

00:47:39 By giving space,

00:47:41 For example,

00:47:43 We are sitting at home,

00:47:45 Fazila wants to watch a film,

00:47:47 I don't like it,

00:47:49 Instead of telling her to stop watching the film,

00:47:52 Or stop watching the drama,

00:47:54 I will go out,

00:47:56 Or I will put on my headphones and sit on my laptop,

00:47:58 If I am doing something,

00:48:00 And Fazila doesn't like it,

00:48:02 She will not say it to me,

00:48:04 She will say,

00:48:05 You won't drag her along?

00:48:07 For example,

00:48:09 I like off-roading,

00:48:11 I pick up the car and go every weekend,

00:48:13 She gives me space on that,

00:48:15 She says, you spend so much money,

00:48:17 You get hurt,

00:48:19 Cars break,

00:48:21 Later I have to spend more time on them,

00:48:23 But Fazila gives me space,

00:48:25 That is your hobby,

00:48:27 You have done so much work,

00:48:29 I have done a lot of work,

00:48:31 I don't know about our youth,

00:48:33 She gives you a chance to enjoy,

00:48:34 Yes, she gives me time,

00:48:36 What do you think is the definition of space?

00:48:38 Your clothes,

00:48:40 The definition of space,

00:48:42 It is a difficult thing,

00:48:44 But in simple language,

00:48:46 If you want to walk for a long time,

00:48:48 Holding someone's hand,

00:48:50 You have to put your right hand in someone's left hand,

00:48:52 Your personality will be exactly opposite,

00:48:55 It is so good,

00:48:57 You are talking like this after marriage,

00:48:59 You should have learnt this from the beginning,

00:49:02 Holding someone's right hand in someone's left hand,

00:49:03 You have to do it,

00:49:05 After that you can walk for a long time,

00:49:08 You can enjoy it,

00:49:10 Holding someone's hand is a difficult thing,

00:49:12 It is not possible that you try to make the other person,

00:49:14 Get into your temper,

00:49:16 There is a lot of masking,

00:49:18 Masking is temporary,

00:49:20 Mask cannot be worn for a long time,

00:49:22 We have worn masks in Covid,

00:49:24 It is not allowed,

00:49:26 In Covid,

00:49:28 Wash the utensils,

00:49:31 You have to wash the utensils,

00:49:32 Moving back,

00:49:34 Now it is your turn,

00:49:36 You said that she sleeps a lot,

00:49:38 You have complaints about this,

00:49:40 What is the second complaint?

00:49:42 If she is angry,

00:49:44 She does not feel like it,

00:49:46 You have a complaint that she does not eat,

00:49:48 Is it true?

00:49:50 She does not eat,

00:49:52 So did she ever faint?

00:49:54 What is your problem?

00:49:56 If she does not eat,

00:49:58 I want her to be healthy,

00:50:00 I want her to live a healthy life,

00:50:01 And forgetfulness,

00:50:03 These are the two complaints,

00:50:05 My mother has a lot of complaints,

00:50:07 All mothers have complaints,

00:50:09 From their daughters-in-law,

00:50:11 But my mother-in-law is very good,

00:50:13 Thank God, she goes home,

00:50:15 Of course, she goes home,

00:50:17 All mothers-in-law are good,

00:50:19 There are a lot of stories,

00:50:21 I don't know where I get so many stories,

00:50:23 Like?

00:50:25 Like,

00:50:28 If someone has a family story,

00:50:29 Or a neighbor's story,

00:50:31 I don't know where I get so many stories,

00:50:33 You tell me your story,

00:50:35 You tell me the story of the drama,

00:50:37 Yes, this is a big thing,

00:50:39 If she sees a drama,

00:50:41 You watch it together,

00:50:43 She said space,

00:50:45 I watch it,

00:50:47 I don't say no,

00:50:49 I watch it for a while,

00:50:51 Then I feel like watching it,

00:50:53 What advice would you give to these two?

00:50:56 You heard their stories in the last segment,

00:50:58 If there is any observation,

00:51:00 What is the long-term plan for the marriage?

00:51:04 You first,

00:51:06 No, you first,

00:51:08 I am quiet,

00:51:10 I am quiet,

00:51:12 I think your expectation level is much higher than them,

00:51:16 It is too early for you to judge anything,

00:51:19 That she does this,

00:51:21 So you reduce your expectations a little,

00:51:24 Because the less your expectations,

00:51:25 The more you will like it,

00:51:27 When we have high expectations,

00:51:29 When it is not achieved,

00:51:31 We feel bad,

00:51:33 I think they have no complaints from you,

00:51:35 They sleep and you don't make up,

00:51:37 These are very small things,

00:51:39 As far as health is concerned,

00:51:41 Eventually it is gained,

00:51:43 You should be happy that she is slim,

00:51:45 Smart,

00:51:47 And it doesn't matter if she is apparently slim or fat,

00:51:50 As long as she is healthy,

00:51:53 She doesn't faint,

00:51:54 She is fine with small things,

00:51:56 She doesn't have any such problem,

00:51:58 Thank God,

00:52:00 Now we will go to another couple,

00:52:02 Who is an example,

00:52:04 Sometimes they become a stigma,

00:52:06 That it can't be like this,

00:52:08 But Dr. Uzma and Asami Mukhtar,

00:52:11 This couple is in front of us,

00:52:13 Aslam o Alaikum,

00:52:15 The special thing about their marriage,

00:52:17 I have to tell you,

00:52:19 She is 9 years older than him,

00:52:22 I think this couple is very nice,

00:52:23 Basically the society in which we live,

00:52:26 It is not acceptable,

00:52:28 No matter what you do,

00:52:30 Even if it is outside the relatives,

00:52:32 It can't be accepted so easily,

00:52:34 So believe me,

00:52:36 How did you get married?

00:52:38 And how many years?

00:52:40 I got married,

00:52:42 I wanted to go to KU,

00:52:44 Because I was very interested in debates,

00:52:47 And different matters,

00:52:50 So I met her in a seminar,

00:52:52 And then,

00:52:54 We became friends,

00:52:56 And became friends in a relationship,

00:52:58 And we took a small part of 7 months,

00:53:02 And then we decided to get married,

00:53:05 How many years have passed?

00:53:07 3 years,

00:53:09 So how was the stage?

00:53:11 It was a very difficult stage,

00:53:14 Because the families were not accepting,

00:53:16 Did you also debate?

00:53:19 No,

00:53:20 There was a lot of gap between the families,

00:53:24 And there was a little gap with my religion,

00:53:27 And with her family,

00:53:30 So it was very difficult,

00:53:33 I first convinced her parents,

00:53:35 Then I convinced my parents,

00:53:37 Then I sent her to her house,

00:53:39 And at that time,

00:53:41 I remember the date of the marriage,

00:53:43 I got the date after 2 days,

00:53:45 If you are not afraid in 2 days, then do it,

00:53:48 Otherwise, no,

00:53:49 Otherwise, no,

00:53:51 Means it is not understood,

00:53:53 She thought that if she will say 2 days,

00:53:56 Then I will go back,

00:53:58 But I convinced my family in those 2 days,

00:54:01 Whatever was the arrangement,

00:54:03 My family did the whole arrangement in 2 days,

00:54:05 And got married,

00:54:07 Total Islamic marriage,

00:54:09 And my reception was after a year,

00:54:11 In the hall,

00:54:13 Because after Covid,

00:54:16 Everyone was upset,

00:54:17 I still remember the way everyone was sitting,

00:54:20 Every single person was upset,

00:54:23 Because they didn't want to get married,

00:54:25 They used to say that what is the age of Sami,

00:54:27 It is a very young age,

00:54:29 Sami is 26 years old,

00:54:31 And I am 35 years old,

00:54:33 Sami was 22 years old,

00:54:35 They said that there is no age for marriage,

00:54:37 That there is a lot to do in life,

00:54:39 And even 2-3 months ago,

00:54:41 When all this was going on,

00:54:44 I was invited to their house,

00:54:45 Like you all sit,

00:54:47 The whole family was sitting,

00:54:49 And I was sitting on a chair,

00:54:51 And I was giving an interview,

00:54:53 Allah,

00:54:55 You must be confident,

00:54:57 I used to see her a lot in all my activities,

00:54:59 Means when I was going on social media,

00:55:01 Or when I was posting stories,

00:55:03 She called you to take an interview,

00:55:05 Yes,

00:55:07 Which girl is with you all the time,

00:55:09 Because not all the girls are with you all the time,

00:55:11 If there is a friend circle,

00:55:13 Then it is limited,

00:55:14 Was the interview successful,

00:55:16 Yes, there were a lot of questions,

00:55:18 Because we have an organization,

00:55:20 We used to stay together mostly because of that,

00:55:22 When I was invited,

00:55:24 I said that I don't like it,

00:55:26 How can you go like this,

00:55:28 I don't want to come,

00:55:30 Then her father called,

00:55:32 That I want to meet you,

00:55:34 My whole family,

00:55:36 And at that time I didn't know that Sami has 6 sisters,

00:55:38 I didn't know that Sami has only 2 sisters,

00:55:40 So I said that when I went there,

00:55:42 There were so many people,

00:55:43 Everyone is married,

00:55:45 I have 2 brothers in law,

00:55:47 Everyone was sitting in a line,

00:55:49 The kids were outside,

00:55:51 And everyone was in a line in the drag room,

00:55:53 And I was in the middle,

00:55:55 I was like what is happening,

00:55:57 I am not going to fit in,

00:55:59 It is a very brave thing,

00:56:01 I went there because,

00:56:03 I asked my mother,

00:56:05 I said that this is the situation,

00:56:07 If you allow it, it is fine,

00:56:09 If not, it is okay,

00:56:11 If it was a 19 year old girl,

00:56:12 She would have started crying,

00:56:14 She would have got scared,

00:56:16 She asked me,

00:56:18 I said that it is okay,

00:56:20 Was she financially stable when you got married?

00:56:22 At that time she had a job in Bol,

00:56:24 I was working in a network,

00:56:26 And after COVID,

00:56:28 She lost her job,

00:56:30 It was very difficult at that time,

00:56:32 Because her marriage was not even new,

00:56:34 And her job was off,

00:56:36 And I left my college job,

00:56:38 I did my H.I.R. in college,

00:56:40 I did my event management,

00:56:41 I started my own company,

00:56:43 And built it up,

00:56:45 And now I am here,

00:56:47 Now you are married for 3 years,

00:56:49 Did you start doing something else?

00:56:51 There are many things,

00:56:53 Before marriage,

00:56:55 Like we are standing here,

00:56:57 And there are pictures,

00:56:59 After marriage,

00:57:01 I say, leave the pictures,

00:57:03 What do you mean, leave it,

00:57:05 Excuse me, I love pictures,

00:57:07 We are so socialized,

00:57:09 We will take one picture,

00:57:10 I say, the event is going on,

00:57:12 We will take one picture,

00:57:14 Just for a memorable,

00:57:16 That we did this event,

00:57:18 Just because,

00:57:20 Leave it,

00:57:22 Why did you take the picture before?

00:57:24 I will accept her complaint,

00:57:26 Because earlier,

00:57:28 We used to do stories,

00:57:30 Cake, dinner,

00:57:32 But now,

00:57:34 We are so busy with work,

00:57:37 We make stories for our work,

00:57:38 So what?

00:57:40 Now,

00:57:42 Why do you want to add more?

00:57:44 Leave it,

00:57:46 We have many events with guests,

00:57:48 When guests come,

00:57:50 When we go,

00:57:52 There are photographers,

00:57:54 So, let's go,

00:57:56 But that was for the guests,

00:57:58 So, there is a story,

00:58:00 That you don't take pictures,

00:58:02 No, I forget my birthday,

00:58:04 Means, you don't remember any dates,

00:58:06 It's a common thing,

00:58:07 We do it in a day or two,

00:58:09 If I remember,

00:58:11 I start fighting,

00:58:13 Marriage is a responsibility,

00:58:15 Love is there,

00:58:17 But care is also there,

00:58:19 And respect,

00:58:21 In my opinion, respect is the highest,

00:58:23 With love, care,

00:58:25 If there is respect,

00:58:27 Then your relationship is prolonged,

00:58:29 If there is no respect,

00:58:31 Then there is no love,

00:58:33 Nothing else,

00:58:35 If someone gets angry,

00:58:36 I don't say anything,

00:58:38 I just start staring,

00:58:40 So, they feel,

00:58:42 I feel like I am standing outside,

00:58:45 So, it's not good,

00:58:47 Because I feel things should be inside the house,

00:58:49 Why should you give others a chance,

00:58:51 For no reason,

00:58:53 Has it ever happened that you are getting stared,

00:58:55 And you don't know why you are getting stared,

00:58:57 Yes, it happens a lot,

00:58:59 And why are you asking?

00:59:01 Because, why are you staring?

00:59:04 No, it has never happened,

00:59:05 It has happened,

00:59:07 It has happened a lot,

00:59:09 That she is staring,

00:59:11 And I don't know why I am being stared,

00:59:13 Or what am I doing,

00:59:15 Now I will say,

00:59:17 Yes, this happens,

00:59:19 He told me that you forget birthdays,

00:59:21 And don't take pictures,

00:59:23 What complaints do you have from her?

00:59:25 I have only one complaint,

00:59:27 That she is very short tempered,

00:59:29 She gets angry very quickly,

00:59:31 On small things,

00:59:33 She gets angry on things outside,

00:59:34 And more on things at home,

00:59:36 Like leaving the light on,

00:59:38 Or not keeping the towel in place,

00:59:40 Or doing something else,

00:59:42 She gets angry,

00:59:44 She must not have understood in the beginning,

00:59:46 Right?

00:59:48 No, we were not living together,

00:59:50 We were living in our own houses,

00:59:52 When we were living together,

00:59:54 We had the experience,

00:59:56 I think perfection is very important,

00:59:58 For example,

01:00:00 If a guest comes,

01:00:02 Your house should be neat and clean,

01:00:03 Like no one lives here,

01:00:05 Exactly,

01:00:07 How is that possible?

01:00:09 Even when I was coming here on set,

01:00:11 My house is clean,

01:00:13 I wake up 2 hours before,

01:00:15 And clean the house,

01:00:17 I like everything clean,

01:00:19 But this is the opposite,

01:00:21 And if I am sick,

01:00:23 I am worried about my house,

01:00:25 That if I get hospitalized,

01:00:27 Then I am worried about my house,

01:00:30 I am worried about my house,

01:00:31 If her friends come,

01:00:33 And suddenly a lot of them come,

01:00:35 Then they stand outside,

01:00:37 No, no, no,

01:00:39 I will tell you,

01:00:41 Basically when she goes to stay at her house,

01:00:43 I call my friends,

01:00:45 We gather at a small house,

01:00:47 And then the condition of the house,

01:00:49 Then,

01:00:51 Then you have to understand the condition of the house,

01:00:53 We have to understand the condition of the house,

01:00:55 We have to understand the condition of the house,

01:00:58 I get so angry,

01:00:59 What kind of a way is this?

01:01:01 Who lets a person stay?

01:01:03 Do you have kids?

01:01:05 No, I don't have kids.

01:01:07 That is the time when you get angry,

01:01:09 That is a very dangerous look,

01:01:11 When she comes home after 2 days,

01:01:13 I go to my house,

01:01:15 When do you let me go?

01:01:17 Oh, oh, oh,

01:01:19 Excuse me,

01:01:21 You don't let me go either?

01:01:23 I go very rarely,

01:01:26 I have gone to stay 6 times,

01:01:27 You are cruel,

01:01:29 No, I don't go by myself,

01:01:31 There is a very interesting tackle,

01:01:33 As soon as I reach home,

01:01:35 After 2-3 hours,

01:01:37 I have fever,

01:01:39 That fever which does not come in the 8th meter,

01:01:41 That fever,

01:01:43 Suddenly there was a small accident,

01:01:45 When I reach home,

01:01:47 Everything is fine,

01:01:49 Because I come quickly,

01:01:51 No, mom, I am going,

01:01:53 I will come later,

01:01:55 What is this complaint?

01:01:56 I am feeling good,

01:01:58 This is love,

01:02:00 They miss you,

01:02:02 And they come back for you,

01:02:04 I go back,

01:02:06 Why does he miss you so much?

01:02:08 He misses her,

01:02:10 It's been 8 minutes,

01:02:12 He has just reached her house,

01:02:14 He is calling her and saying that there is an accident,

01:02:16 He has not spent a day,

01:02:18 He will come after a few hours,

01:02:20 He will bring something like this,

01:02:22 And how far is your house from your mother's house?

01:02:24 About 1 hour,

01:02:25 I live in Malir,

01:02:27 I don't understand what you both are advising us,

01:02:29 What should we say?

01:02:31 We are learning,

01:02:33 Sorry is a big thing,

01:02:35 Because there is a fight,

01:02:37 Sorry is that,

01:02:39 Sami used to say in the beginning,

01:02:41 Now they have seen that the marriage is getting old,

01:02:43 So all the sorry comes on me,

01:02:45 You don't say,

01:02:47 No, I say,

01:02:49 You say,

01:02:51 She has not said it from the heart,

01:02:53 She says sorry a lot,

01:02:54 She says sorry on small things,

01:02:56 I like the environment of the house,

01:02:58 I don't like to spoil the environment of the house,

01:03:00 Sometimes I get angry on something,

01:03:02 It's a small thing,

01:03:04 I will agree myself,

01:03:06 But she also comes and excuses,

01:03:08 Is there any benefit of being their debater?

01:03:10 A lot, when they start talking,

01:03:12 Then I have to put a rule in my ear,

01:03:14 I sit and say that this should not happen,

01:03:16 You must be saying sorry at that time,

01:03:18 I made a mistake,

01:03:20 Now be quiet,

01:03:22 In our house,

01:03:23 The fight is in the professional life,

01:03:25 And our field is also the same,

01:03:27 That's why I said,

01:03:29 So your advice is that,

01:03:31 One should not be in the profession,

01:03:33 It should be different,

01:03:35 It is very chic,

01:03:37 Because my ideas are different,

01:03:39 Their ideas are childish,

01:03:41 I don't understand,

01:03:43 What is this?

01:03:45 This is something strange,

01:03:47 You should think a little sensible,

01:03:49 Because it is not temporary to prolong things,

01:03:51 So if something is happening in this,

01:03:52 I want that thing to be there in the next,

01:03:54 I don't want to let it go so easily,

01:03:56 I am feeling like Karan Jhar in something,

01:03:58 I am going on a break,

01:04:00 I am not making them separate,

01:04:02 The more we fight,

01:04:04 The more love we have,

01:04:06 Inshallah,

01:04:08 Inshallah,

01:04:10 Inshallah,

01:04:12 I have fought once or twice,

01:04:14 Because three times,

01:04:16 I have fought,

01:04:18 I have fought,

01:04:20 I have fought,

01:04:21 Because it has been three years,

01:04:23 I am going home,

01:04:25 I don't pick up my clothes,

01:04:27 I pick up my documents,

01:04:29 I feel that it is precious,

01:04:31 My clothes, jewellery,

01:04:33 I say, where are my documents?

01:04:35 First take out the documents,

01:04:37 I go home,

01:04:39 I go out in anger,

01:04:41 I just go,

01:04:43 I will also go out in anger,

01:04:45 Good morning,

01:04:47 Good morning Pakistan,

01:04:49 Good morning,

01:04:50 Welcome, welcome back,

01:04:52 Good morning Pakistan,

01:04:54 It is a small show,

01:04:56 People say that it is a light mode show,

01:04:58 We are getting some tips from here,

01:05:00 For our couples,

01:05:02 I will introduce you to our next couple,

01:05:04 Nusrat and Afroz are with me,

01:05:06 Assalamualaikum,

01:05:08 How long has it been since your marriage?

01:05:10 Almost four years,

01:05:12 It will be in January,

01:05:14 How was your marriage?

01:05:16 It was very good,

01:05:18 How was your marriage?

01:05:19 It was a love at sight from his side,

01:05:22 But I didn't understand him,

01:05:25 What did you talk about?

01:05:27 He is a debater,

01:05:29 I went to a youth festival,

01:05:31 Where he came to debate,

01:05:33 But I didn't understand his points,

01:05:35 I wanted to meet him and ask him,

01:05:38 What are you saying?

01:05:40 This does not make any sense,

01:05:42 But when we met,

01:05:44 I thought he was not saying anything,

01:05:47 He was saying that his personality is different,

01:05:49 I am a palmist,

01:05:51 He showed me his hand,

01:05:53 I was looking at his hand,

01:05:55 He was looking at me,

01:05:57 Things will proceed,

01:05:59 First friendship,

01:06:01 But he proposed me directly,

01:06:04 He introduced me to his family,

01:06:07 The difference was that my family,

01:06:10 I have a Punjabi background,

01:06:12 And they are Bihari,

01:06:15 So we are very close,

01:06:16 Be positive,

01:06:18 Very good,

01:06:20 There were some other differences,

01:06:22 There were differences in political ideology,

01:06:24 There was a difference in the set,

01:06:27 But when we met the families,

01:06:29 The differences were sorted out,

01:06:31 We didn't have any problem there,

01:06:33 The problem was that we wanted,

01:06:35 To have a simple wedding,

01:06:37 The reason was that we are influencers,

01:06:39 In the youth,

01:06:41 We wanted to be a role model,

01:06:44 So that people who see us,

01:06:45 Say that we can have a simple wedding,

01:06:47 And it was a one day event,

01:06:49 We got married in a mosque,

01:06:51 So the family was upset,

01:06:53 Yes,

01:06:55 We were fighting,

01:06:57 That our wedding should be grand,

01:06:59 But they were against it,

01:07:01 It was not like that,

01:07:03 We had an issue of affordability,

01:07:05 I am a bio-professional engineer,

01:07:07 And he is an HR consultant,

01:07:09 So we could afford it,

01:07:11 We didn't have any issue,

01:07:13 I had a mind set,

01:07:14 That I wanted a simple wedding,

01:07:16 No mehendi, no rituals,

01:07:18 And it should not be a ritual,

01:07:20 We even made our own wedding dresses,

01:07:23 It was not like we were going to the groom's side,

01:07:26 We ended all these rituals,

01:07:28 We had the biggest issue with our families,

01:07:31 That they didn't agree,

01:07:33 And when I said that I wanted a one day event,

01:07:38 We should get married in a mosque,

01:07:40 And leave the mosque,

01:07:42 We faced a lot of hurdles,

01:07:43 I said that we will only do the religious rituals,

01:07:46 And do what the religion teaches us,

01:07:48 And you got married after all these hurdles,

01:07:51 Yes,

01:07:53 What happened after the wedding?

01:07:55 After the wedding,

01:07:57 When the covid came,

01:07:59 If it had come earlier,

01:08:01 It would have been simple,

01:08:03 It is good that after the covid,

01:08:05 No one can say that we got married because of covid,

01:08:07 We got married by choice,

01:08:10 It was a one day event only,

01:08:12 What changes did you see in your life?

01:08:14 A lot of changes,

01:08:16 Because of covid,

01:08:18 We had to work from home,

01:08:20 And when we were together for 24 hours,

01:08:22 We got to know a lot of things,

01:08:24 That we never got to know before,

01:08:26 We got to know the difference in temperaments,

01:08:28 And we were very organized,

01:08:30 And I was very careless,

01:08:32 I could not manage the house,

01:08:34 I could not do it,

01:08:36 I used to take pressure,

01:08:39 I used to take pressure from my husband,

01:08:40 But I got to know that,

01:08:42 Because we were very slow,

01:08:44 His sleeping habits started to increase,

01:08:46 It was my birthday,

01:08:48 And I was expecting our favorite wedding,

01:08:50 I don't know what would happen,

01:08:52 But he was sleeping,

01:08:54 And I was sitting and thinking,

01:08:56 What is this?

01:08:58 And a lot of things like this happened,

01:09:00 I think after 21 years of marriage,

01:09:02 I should die,

01:09:04 Nobody remembers their birthday,

01:09:06 I remember,

01:09:08 And Fazila,

01:09:09 She remembers too,

01:09:11 I can't remember,

01:09:13 We didn't forget,

01:09:15 But you were sleeping,

01:09:17 I was sleeping,

01:09:19 I celebrated the next day,

01:09:21 I slept and celebrated,

01:09:23 This is good,

01:09:25 The funny thing is that,

01:09:27 His birthday was in August,

01:09:29 So we had a monsoon season,

01:09:31 It kept raining all day,

01:09:33 I went out in that rain,

01:09:35 I got things,

01:09:37 Decorated the house,

01:09:38 And in the evening,

01:09:40 You still complain that he keeps sleeping,

01:09:42 If you get good energy,

01:09:44 You go and sleep the next day,

01:09:46 I was not expecting that,

01:09:48 He needs charging,

01:09:50 I was thinking that he is already charged,

01:09:52 One complaint was that,

01:09:54 He keeps sleeping,

01:09:56 The second is that,

01:09:58 He has a smiling face,

01:10:00 But he is very extremist,

01:10:02 And he gets angry on such a small thing,

01:10:05 I came to know about this after marriage,

01:10:06 I had never seen him get angry before marriage,

01:10:09 We were together for 3 years,

01:10:11 We got engaged,

01:10:13 We were working on projects together,

01:10:15 We used to meet daily,

01:10:17 I had never seen him get angry in these 3 years,

01:10:19 I don't know how he managed,

01:10:21 After marriage, he became a Mogambo,

01:10:23 He doesn't get angry even after marriage,

01:10:25 He doesn't get angry on me,

01:10:27 You never said anything like this,

01:10:29 No, I will tell you that,

01:10:31 He never got angry on me,

01:10:34 He gets angry on others,

01:10:35 But he never gets angry on me,

01:10:37 He never hides his anger,

01:10:39 He never got angry on me,

01:10:41 I believe that this is his quality,

01:10:43 What do you say?

01:10:45 What did you get to know after marriage?

01:10:47 After marriage, I got to know that,

01:10:49 She is not an organized person,

01:10:51 Because we used to meet outside,

01:10:53 We don't know what the situation is at home,

01:10:55 Do you have a complaint of wet towel here?

01:10:58 Women usually have a complaint of wet towel,

01:11:00 They throw their shoes here,

01:11:03 I have a lot of complaints of this house,

01:11:05 Didn't you think that I should bring another person to train her?

01:11:09 First, I should train the first one,

01:11:11 She is going to work,

01:11:13 Maybe the second one will get more points than this,

01:11:15 Points,

01:11:17 What will I do then?

01:11:19 Positive thinking,

01:11:21 First, I will train her properly,

01:11:24 Is the training complete?

01:11:26 It is going on,

01:11:28 Can a husband ever train his wife?

01:11:30 It can never be 100%

01:11:32 It is not that you will get into a fight with your wife,

01:11:34 It is happening,

01:11:36 It is happening,

01:11:38 A lot of things are in my hands,

01:11:40 Before marriage,

01:11:42 I was the only person in my house,

01:11:44 Who was well organized,

01:11:46 Even if someone opens my cupboard,

01:11:49 My cupboard is the most organized,

01:11:51 Now, this is done,

01:11:53 What is the second problem?

01:11:55 The second problem is that,

01:11:57 She is very punctual,

01:11:59 She is an alarm,

01:12:01 For example,

01:12:02 If I have to go somewhere in the morning,

01:12:04 She will be there at 1 am,

01:12:06 Did you do it?

01:12:08 Did you talk to her?

01:12:10 Even if I have to call someone at 12 am,

01:12:13 I will call her a day before,

01:12:15 You have to call her at 12 am,

01:12:17 I will call her at 12 am,

01:12:19 I will say, I remember, I will do it,

01:12:21 But no,

01:12:23 You have to remind me again and again,

01:12:25 You have to do this in the morning,

01:12:27 I know I have to do it,

01:12:30 I want to know the problem,

01:12:31 What is the problem?

01:12:33 These problems are very strange,

01:12:35 I think we live somewhere else,

01:12:37 I am thinking the same,

01:12:39 I don't believe that she is going like this,

01:12:41 My wife is very nice,

01:12:43 I can't tolerate such a woman in my house,

01:12:45 These are her problems,

01:12:47 Baby, wife is as good as two should be,

01:12:49 My wife is very nice,

01:12:51 I can't tolerate it,

01:12:53 If someone reminds me,

01:12:55 That I should not forget anything,

01:12:57 These are her problems,

01:12:59 I can't tolerate it,

01:13:00 Tell me a problem,

01:13:02 Tell me a problem in life,

01:13:04 We don't even fight like that,

01:13:08 Yes, it happens,

01:13:10 Basically, I am a public speaker,

01:13:13 I go to training,

01:13:15 I go for judgments,

01:13:17 If a girl comes there,

01:13:19 Or starts talking,

01:13:21 And if I miss her picture,

01:13:23 Then you will think that

01:13:25 After coming home,

01:13:28 If she has to go to the stage

01:13:29 To get the award,

01:13:31 And I am sitting behind,

01:13:33 And I am talking to a girl,

01:13:35 Then there is a lot of problem,

01:13:37 Then it is right,

01:13:39 But if I am talking to a boy,

01:13:41 Then there is no issue,

01:13:43 But if a girl talks,

01:13:45 Then I have to celebrate

01:13:47 Till 2-3 in the night,

01:13:49 You get good taunts,

01:13:51 She will get up and go,

01:13:53 You are a palmist,

01:13:55 So before marriage,

01:13:57 Did you feel anything

01:13:58 Before seeing her hand?

01:14:00 I didn't know that

01:14:02 She will come in my life,

01:14:04 I used to predict people's hands,

01:14:07 But I didn't know my predictions,

01:14:09 Why didn't you know?

01:14:11 I saw my hand,

01:14:13 I saw the letter,

01:14:15 That what name will she marry,

01:14:17 My letter was A,

01:14:19 I thought it will be Ali,

01:14:21 I never thought I will marry Afroz,

01:14:23 I was surprised,

01:14:26 We have a thing in our names,

01:14:27 Afroz is the name of females,

01:14:30 And her name is Nusrat,

01:14:32 So Nusrat is the name of males,

01:14:34 This is a confusion,

01:14:36 Let's listen to the second story,

01:14:38 Aiman and Mohsin are with us,

01:14:40 Hello,

01:14:42 Tell me,

01:14:44 How long have you been married?

01:14:46 Tell me this,

01:14:48 You are shy,

01:14:50 It's been 2 years,

01:14:52 Why are you scared?

01:14:55 Say it loudly,

01:14:56 It's been 2 years,

01:14:58 We were together in coaching,

01:15:00 I was a senior,

01:15:02 She was a junior,

01:15:04 I used to like her,

01:15:06 I sent her a request on Facebook,

01:15:08 Say it loudly,

01:15:10 They say like this at home too,

01:15:12 No, they don't say like this,

01:15:14 They don't scream?

01:15:16 No, they don't speak much,

01:15:18 You are so nice,

01:15:20 We were friends in coaching,

01:15:22 She was my senior,

01:15:24 I was her junior,

01:15:25 She used to like me,

01:15:27 I didn't know,

01:15:29 When we were in the same class,

01:15:31 She sent me a request on Facebook,

01:15:33 I kept my pending,

01:15:35 But I accepted her,

01:15:37 Because she had a good profile,

01:15:39 And I started knowing her,

01:15:41 I knew her through friends,

01:15:43 So I accepted her,

01:15:45 We were good friends,

01:15:47 But I didn't know,

01:15:49 She started liking me,

01:15:51 I started talking to her as a friend,

01:15:53 We planned a meet up,

01:15:54 She proposed me,

01:15:56 As soon as we reached home,

01:15:58 We met for the first time,

01:16:00 You didn't wear tight jeans,

01:16:02 I want to ask,

01:16:04 I want to know,

01:16:06 What are you saying?

01:16:08 You will get me banned,

01:16:10 This is how it is,

01:16:12 You said they don't speak,

01:16:14 Did you ever face any problem,

01:16:16 With them?

01:16:18 No,

01:16:20 I never faced any problem,

01:16:22 Did you ever face any problem with them?

01:16:23 No, I never said anything,

01:16:25 If they are lost somewhere,

01:16:27 You called them,

01:16:29 They won't answer,

01:16:31 Did you ever mix bajra and chilies?

01:16:33 I don't think they will answer,

01:16:35 What happened?

01:16:37 Did you ever try to mix bajra and chilies?

01:16:39 Because they are so sweet,

01:16:41 What can we do?

01:16:43 We are learning,

01:16:45 Sometimes they break the glass,

01:16:47 I am surprised,

01:16:49 How can a coaching student get married?

01:16:51 How did you get permission?

01:16:52 We were not giving permission,

01:16:54 We were doing court marriage,

01:16:56 You ran away?

01:16:58 What was your age when you got married?

01:17:01 I was 22,

01:17:03 20,

01:17:05 22,

01:17:07 How many years have passed since you got married?

01:17:09 2 years,

01:17:11 Did your family agree?

01:17:13 They didn't agree,

01:17:15 That's okay,

01:17:17 My parents,

01:17:20 They said I am not going to be a bride,

01:17:21 Like every girl,

01:17:23 They did the decorations,

01:17:25 And they did the proper rukhsadi,

01:17:27 Okay,

01:17:29 But we decided on Holi,

01:17:31 That we will do it with our daughter's birthday,

01:17:33 Wow,

01:17:35 You will save money,

01:17:37 My parents supported me a lot,

01:17:39 Why didn't your parents agree?

01:17:41 That was a caste issue,

01:17:43 What happens with that?

01:17:45 It happens,

01:17:48 Those who want to live,

01:17:49 Those who have decided,

01:17:51 Those who are ready,

01:17:53 Other than that, everyone else is upset,

01:17:55 My father is very strict,

01:17:57 He beat me up,

01:17:59 He locked me in the room for 2 days,

01:18:01 He beat me up a lot,

01:18:03 He beat me up with belts,

01:18:05 When you came back from home,

01:18:07 You didn't even have a bike,

01:18:09 I belong to a good family,

01:18:11 My parents are good,

01:18:13 They supported me a lot,

01:18:16 I told my father that I love him,

01:18:18 We are sad to hear this,

01:18:21 My father threw me out of the house,

01:18:24 I had a bike, a car, everything,

01:18:27 You didn't earn anything,

01:18:29 He drove a Panda,

01:18:31 He drove a car,

01:18:33 My father gave me a car,

01:18:35 He fulfilled all my wishes,

01:18:37 But when I left home,

01:18:39 He took my bike,

01:18:41 I ran away from home,

01:18:44 I didn't get time,

01:18:45 You are laughing,

01:18:47 I went to his house,

01:18:49 His father kept me with him,

01:18:51 We had already married,

01:18:53 We had already married,

01:18:55 We had already done a court marriage,

01:18:57 When we had done a court marriage,

01:18:59 I went to his house,

01:19:01 When his parents found out,

01:19:03 That he had done a court marriage,

01:19:05 They told him to give him a reward,

01:19:07 I told him not to,

01:19:09 But he fought a lot,

01:19:11 He still tells me to come home,

01:19:13 Leave me,

01:19:14 Now I have a daughter,

01:19:16 I used to ride a footpanda,

01:19:18 Then I rode a bike,

01:19:20 Then I rode a bike,

01:19:22 I worked in Kias,

01:19:24 I worked in Kias,

01:19:26 I work in Kialactick,

01:19:28 I am an MIO officer,

01:19:30 The main problem we hear is,

01:19:32 That parents don't agree,

01:19:34 Because of age,

01:19:36 Because of caste,

01:19:38 Because of financial reasons,

01:19:40 Or because of their expectations,

01:19:42 Do you think marriage is a big issue,

01:19:43 Because of which parents have issues,

01:19:45 That it is our wish,

01:19:47 Or what we have thought,

01:19:49 I have no experience,

01:19:51 But I don't know,

01:19:53 What will happen when it is their turn,

01:19:55 These things are seen in dramas,

01:19:57 I had said earlier,

01:19:59 That the drama is a reflection of our society,

01:20:01 Now these kids have worked hard,

01:20:03 They have made their lives,

01:20:05 So this has also become a part,

01:20:07 A story,

01:20:10 Someone must be listening to this,

01:20:11 Some writer,

01:20:13 So definitely,

01:20:15 By changing it a little,

01:20:17 It will become a drama,

01:20:19 So these things happen in our society,

01:20:21 In fact,

01:20:23 In Sindhi families,

01:20:25 They do business and kill,

01:20:27 After marriage,

01:20:29 If it is of their choice,

01:20:31 It happens in Balochistan,

01:20:33 In Sindhi too,

01:20:35 They do business,

01:20:37 If they do bad,

01:20:39 It happens,

01:20:40 But this is wrong,

01:20:42 Those who want to live,

01:20:44 They have to live,

01:20:46 We are all created by Allah,

01:20:48 So we should be allowed to live our lives,

01:20:50 As per our wish,

01:20:52 In that,

01:20:54 The problems you are telling,

01:20:56 Because,

01:20:58 Whether marriage works or not,

01:21:00 It is a matter of time,

01:21:02 Arranged marriage does not work,

01:21:04 And love marriage also works,

01:21:06 So the elders will be worried,

01:21:08 If you do it with your own will,

01:21:09 It will last a long time,

01:21:11 But it is not written,

01:21:13 Sometimes love marriages work,

01:21:15 Sometimes arranged marriages,

01:21:17 I will talk a little here,

01:21:19 If you allow me,

01:21:21 In this country,

01:21:23 If the law allows a work,

01:21:25 That law,

01:21:27 If it is not contrary to Islamic traditions,

01:21:31 It means that work is permissible,

01:21:33 And there is no violation in that work,

01:21:35 If you go against it,

01:21:37 In any sense,

01:21:38 This is very extreme,

01:21:40 This is ignorance,

01:21:42 There is no other word for it,

01:21:44 You will say,

01:21:46 Every parent wants,

01:21:48 That when it is time for the child to grow up,

01:21:50 Or when it is time to become his bride,

01:21:52 We are standing together,

01:21:54 We fulfill his wishes,

01:21:56 We fulfill our wishes,

01:21:58 But these desires should not go to the extent,

01:22:00 That the next person's life is at stake,

01:22:02 This is ignorance,

01:22:04 There is no other word for it,

01:22:06 If there is no other way to justify it,

01:22:07 Then create a barrier in your behavior,

01:22:09 Those who have to live their lives,

01:22:11 If they are willing,

01:22:13 Then Bismillah,

01:22:15 If it is an illegal work,

01:22:17 Then you get angry,

01:22:19 And after that,

01:22:21 There is no such anger on illegal work,

01:22:23 In fact, curtains are put on it,

01:22:25 That no matter,

01:22:27 No one should know,

01:22:29 I just had a story,

01:22:31 In that, the boy who earns at home,

01:22:33 He is tied in chains,

01:22:35 What happened?

01:22:36 That boy,

01:22:38 In our society,

01:22:40 There are some dark areas,

01:22:42 Or grey areas,

01:22:44 That boy is made to dance in the party,

01:22:47 This is a fact,

01:22:49 And he is tied up,

01:22:51 That he should not run away from home,

01:22:53 Because against his will,

01:22:55 He is made to do this work,

01:22:57 So in the society,

01:22:59 There are many such things,

01:23:01 You are lucky,

01:23:04 Your parents are supporting you,

01:23:05 But some people are not so lucky,

01:23:08 So our parents should think,

01:23:11 About their children,

01:23:13 That it is their life,

01:23:15 Let them live,

01:23:17 This is everyone's right,

01:23:19 And equal right,

01:23:21 Sometimes it happens,

01:23:23 That all children want,

01:23:25 That the parents should be happy,

01:23:27 And their happiness,

01:23:29 Should be maintained,

01:23:31 But sometimes,

01:23:33 They are not happy,

01:23:34 Sometimes the elders,

01:23:36 Or the ego,

01:23:38 Or some other reason,

01:23:40 So may Allah,

01:23:42 I don't know what to ask you,

01:23:44 I don't have any more marriage complaints,

01:23:46 No, this is a golden example,

01:23:50 You have found each other,

01:23:52 With so much difficulty,

01:23:54 I have a daughter,

01:23:56 I am very depressed,

01:23:58 That my parents are with me,

01:24:00 I am happy,

01:24:02 May Allah make you happy,

01:24:03 Insha Allah,

01:24:05 Send Jannat and Hudais,

01:24:08 So that I can talk to them,

01:24:10 I have a place here,

01:24:12 Thank you,

01:24:14 Send Jannat and Hudais,

01:24:16 So that they can come,

01:24:18 Do you remember,

01:24:20 Our page,

01:24:22 Newly married couples,

01:24:24 I used to like it,

01:24:26 We used to see,

01:24:28 How beautiful this couple looks,

01:24:31 Which is the most beautiful couple,

01:24:32 The one who is at the top,

01:24:34 Jannat and Hudais,

01:24:36 How did you meet,

01:24:38 What is your love story,

01:24:40 I will start from the beginning,

01:24:42 Because when the story started,

01:24:44 They had no idea,

01:24:46 About it,

01:24:48 Actually,

01:24:50 Since school,

01:24:52 Childhood,

01:24:54 So,

01:24:56 It started like this,

01:24:58 From 5th to 6th grade,

01:25:00 I used to follow them,

01:25:01 After some time,

01:25:03 Till 8th grade,

01:25:05 There was a function in school,

01:25:07 They were interested in poetry,

01:25:10 So,

01:25:12 They said some poetry,

01:25:14 Which attracted me,

01:25:16 So,

01:25:18 They didn't have any idea,

01:25:20 Then,

01:25:22 By the time we reached Matric,

01:25:24 Coincidentally,

01:25:26 We came to the coaching center,

01:25:29 And we became friends,

01:25:30 They are in love with childhood,

01:25:32 What was the poem,

01:25:34 They can only recite the poem,

01:25:36 While fighting,

01:25:38 One's spoon got lost,

01:25:40 What was the poem,

01:25:42 You understood,

01:25:44 We became more attracted,

01:25:46 Then we became friends in coaching,

01:25:48 So,

01:25:50 In coaching,

01:25:52 Our friendship increased,

01:25:54 Then,

01:25:56 Gradually,

01:25:58 We became so close,

01:25:59 You must have exchanged numbers,

01:26:01 If it's 13 digits,

01:26:03 It's not 1, 1, 0,

01:26:05 Then 3,

01:26:07 How long has it been since you got married?

01:26:09 7 months,

01:26:11 7 months,

01:26:13 You haven't even removed your henna,

01:26:15 We have had cold drinks,

01:26:17 We are having cold drinks,

01:26:19 The biggest coincidence is,

01:26:21 The day my parents got married,

01:26:23 We got married,

01:26:25 Wow,

01:26:27 Now you are married,

01:26:28 You won't have any complaints,

01:26:30 Because,

01:26:32 It's the cold drink period,

01:26:34 Now you must be knowing,

01:26:36 In school,

01:26:38 In the tuition center,

01:26:40 In the coaching center,

01:26:42 What are the complaints,

01:26:44 We used to complain,

01:26:46 Did you wear a mic?

01:26:48 We used to complain a lot,

01:26:50 Now we don't complain,

01:26:52 The value has reduced,

01:26:54 Now it's the same,

01:26:56 Now we don't complain,

01:26:57 Look how rude he is,

01:26:59 This is the love of our school,

01:27:01 So,

01:27:03 We don't complain,

01:27:05 We don't even shop,

01:27:07 Are you a miser?

01:27:09 A man should not be a miser,

01:27:11 A woman may be a miser,

01:27:13 But she will manage,

01:27:15 A man is a miser,

01:27:17 But life is difficult,

01:27:19 Is a man a miser?

01:27:21 No, a man is not his account,

01:27:23 A woman is a miser,

01:27:25 A woman is a miser,

01:27:26 Good, good,

01:27:28 Thank God my wife is not with me,

01:27:30 Why?

01:27:33 You should ask her,

01:27:35 She should tell you what she says,

01:27:37 She sent money from America,

01:27:39 To my account,

01:27:41 I know you will waste it,

01:27:43 If I say,

01:27:46 You will waste it,

01:27:48 Oh my God,

01:27:50 She is not with me,

01:27:52 Yes, you have a spark in your hand,

01:27:54 No, money is a spark,

01:27:55 We men,

01:27:57 The people who work,

01:27:59 Mostly,

01:28:01 They don't know if they have money in their account,

01:28:03 When the money is running out,

01:28:05 The wife says,

01:28:07 I don't have the expenses for next month,

01:28:09 But,

01:28:11 What do you say,

01:28:13 A man should be like this,

01:28:15 A man who saves money,

01:28:17 Or a woman,

01:28:19 What is better for marriage?

01:28:21 It depends,

01:28:23 The case varies,

01:28:24 From person to person,

01:28:26 From family to family,

01:28:28 Not everyone earns the same,

01:28:30 Some people earn more,

01:28:32 Some people earn less,

01:28:34 It depends on the people who save,

01:28:36 And,

01:28:38 The people who are like us,

01:28:40 Who are like a water-bottle,

01:28:42 Who don't know what will happen tomorrow,

01:28:44 We spend and sit,

01:28:46 And God gives,

01:28:48 Do we have to stop them?

01:28:50 I think men are more water-bottle,

01:28:52 And,

01:28:53 Women have more ability to calculate,

01:28:55 And multitasking,

01:28:57 It varies,

01:28:59 Some women,

01:29:01 Their desires are not over,

01:29:03 I have seen in some examples,

01:29:05 But,

01:29:07 In my experience,

01:29:09 Women keep their budget in different accounts,

01:29:11 Like, this is for the expenses of the house,

01:29:13 So,

01:29:15 Things work like that,

01:29:17 Men have it in one account,

01:29:20 Like, school fees,

01:29:21 Grocery,

01:29:23 When the kids grow up,

01:29:25 They become self-sufficient,

01:29:27 So, with time,

01:29:29 I will add one thing,

01:29:31 This balance is in every house,

01:29:33 Women spend thrift,

01:29:35 Men save,

01:29:37 Men spend,

01:29:39 And women save,

01:29:41 This is the balance,

01:29:43 But,

01:29:45 In our society,

01:29:47 It is a male-dominant society,

01:29:49 And,

01:29:50 When families face a crisis,

01:29:52 At that time,

01:29:54 Men,

01:29:56 They have to handle it,

01:29:58 They have to give it,

01:30:00 In some places,

01:30:02 I have seen some women,

01:30:04 Some of our friends,

01:30:06 They have some women,

01:30:08 Who have controlled their expenses,

01:30:10 All their bank accounts,

01:30:12 And,

01:30:14 It becomes difficult for men,

01:30:16 They take away their honor from them,

01:30:18 And,

01:30:19 It becomes a circus,

01:30:21 Yes, yes, yes,

01:30:23 Before I conclude the program,

01:30:25 I would like to ask,

01:30:27 Please tell us the secret,

01:30:29 Of quality,

01:30:31 Of quantity,

01:30:33 But,

01:30:35 How to keep people happy,

01:30:37 How to keep people happy,

01:30:39 So, we will start from here,

01:30:41 Then I will tell you,

01:30:43 And you will tell us,

01:30:45 As far as I understand,

01:30:47 As I told you earlier,

01:30:48 Your financials,

01:30:50 Should be secure,

01:30:52 Should be strong,

01:30:54 Your family,

01:30:56 You have to tell them,

01:30:58 That you are the head of the family,

01:31:00 If you are not able to give security,

01:31:02 To your family,

01:31:04 Then you become a subordinate,

01:31:06 So, you need to show,

01:31:08 That you are strong,

01:31:10 Financially,

01:31:12 And,

01:31:14 You have to give space,

01:31:16 To your wife,

01:31:17 You have to respect your family,

01:31:19 You have to respect each other,

01:31:21 Only then this can move forward,

01:31:23 Otherwise, it can't.

01:31:25 I think,

01:31:27 You should enjoy small moments,

01:31:29 Because life is very unpredictable,

01:31:31 You don't know,

01:31:33 Life can end at any time,

01:31:35 There is no age,

01:31:37 So, you should enjoy the moments,

01:31:39 That you are getting,

01:31:41 Celebrate it,

01:31:43 Because,

01:31:45 Even if you have more money,

01:31:46 Happiness is not about money,

01:31:48 Happiness is in eating together,

01:31:50 In one plate,

01:31:52 In the end,

01:31:54 If you want to run a marriage,

01:31:56 Then both should be,

01:31:58 Very flexible,

01:32:00 Husband and wife,

01:32:02 Should be flexible,

01:32:04 I know,

01:32:06 Time is very less,

01:32:08 But,

01:32:10 Balance,

01:32:12 Equilibrium,

01:32:14 If you want to get respect,

01:32:15 Then learn to respect,

01:32:17 If you want your parents to get respect,

01:32:19 Then learn to respect your parents,

01:32:21 If you want,

01:32:23 To be mocked,

01:32:25 Then learn to mock,

01:32:27 This happens after this,

01:32:29 And,

01:32:31 Balance,

01:32:33 And,

01:32:35 We will discuss everything,

01:32:37 After that,

01:32:39 Equilibrium will end,

01:32:41 Thank you so much,

01:32:43 For talking to us,

01:32:44 And,

01:32:46 We have transferred a serious topic,

01:32:48 To people,

01:32:50 Thank you so much,

01:32:52 Your story started from school,

01:32:54 And ended at the marriage of 7 months,

01:32:56 I am sorry,

01:32:58 I could not talk to you more,

01:33:00 A small break,

01:33:02 Keep watching Good Morning Pakistan,

01:33:12 Welcome,

01:33:13 Welcome back,

01:33:15 Good Morning Pakistan,

01:33:17 We will have an important segment,

01:33:19 Which will be about,

01:33:21 Fragrance,

01:33:23 Makeup,

01:33:25 With me,

01:33:27 Maya Khan,

01:33:29 And,

01:33:31 Kiran Ashfaq,

01:33:33 From Kohasa,

01:33:35 Good Morning,

01:33:37 First of all,

01:33:40 We are always here to launch,

01:33:41 Any new product,

01:33:43 From Kohasa,

01:33:45 Or,

01:33:47 Trulycobal,

01:33:49 We are always here to launch,

01:33:51 On GMB,

01:33:53 With an amazing news,

01:33:55 Me and Kiran,

01:33:57 Are here,

01:33:59 Before we go any forward,

01:34:01 I will tell you two things,

01:34:03 Our dessert,

01:34:05 Our perfume,

01:34:07 Has two clones,

01:34:09 One is,

01:34:10 50% off,

01:34:12 50% off,

01:34:14 This is for Rs.2000,

01:34:16 Because the full price is Rs.4000,

01:34:18 So,

01:34:20 As soon as we get 100 callers,

01:34:22 They will get 50% off for Rs.2000,

01:34:24 So,

01:34:26 Go to Kohasa.com,

01:34:28 And get it done,

01:34:30 If it is your husband's birthday,

01:34:32 Or anniversary,

01:34:34 Or any special occasion,

01:34:36 I think it is a very good chance,

01:34:38 Because it is wedding season,

01:34:39 So,

01:34:41 And for me,

01:34:43 This is Desert Rose,

01:34:45 It has a very fruity,

01:34:47 And fresh smell,

01:34:49 So,

01:34:51 You can get it,

01:34:53 And the price is Rs.1699,

01:34:55 First 100 callers,

01:34:57 Will get the reference of your show,

01:34:59 On Kohasa.com,

01:35:01 And get it done,

01:35:03 And if you don't get the call,

01:35:05 Then keep doing it,

01:35:07 Because sometimes,

01:35:08 It gets very busy,

01:35:10 Talking about perfume,

01:35:12 And lipstick,

01:35:14 Kiran has done the shoot,

01:35:16 Please tell me,

01:35:18 I have done it,

01:35:20 I have done four colors,

01:35:22 But it is a very beautiful color,

01:35:24 First tell me,

01:35:26 How did you make the pout,

01:35:28 I didn't need to make the pout,

01:35:30 I just kissed it,

01:35:32 Allah has made it beautiful,

01:35:34 But,

01:35:36 If you want to buy it,

01:35:37 The bride has a good chance,

01:35:39 She will buy all the colors,

01:35:41 At a very good price,

01:35:43 So,

01:35:45 For every occasion,

01:35:47 You have lip colors,

01:35:49 Because the bride doesn't need only one lipstick,

01:35:51 And it is winter,

01:35:53 So, we have so many shades,

01:35:55 Peach, magenta, nude, red,

01:35:57 So,

01:35:59 Amazing,

01:36:01 The wedding look,

01:36:03 They had two shades,

01:36:05 One was red,

01:36:06 And the other was nude,

01:36:08 And the red was amazing,

01:36:10 The best part about Kohas lipsticks,

01:36:12 Is that they are very reasonable,

01:36:14 You will get them at a reasonable price,

01:36:16 And the texture is very good,

01:36:18 It is very smooth,

01:36:20 What does it look like?

01:36:22 Does it look matte?

01:36:24 It looks matte,

01:36:26 But it is very smooth,

01:36:28 Because it has a velvety texture,

01:36:30 It looks velvety,

01:36:32 But it is buttery,

01:36:34 So, you need cheap lipsticks,

01:36:35 In Pakistan,

01:36:37 I was just talking about this,

01:36:39 I was talking about this in the last show,

01:36:41 You told me that Maya,

01:36:43 Asked for a pink lipstick,

01:36:45 And Nida applied it on me,

01:36:47 I remember,

01:36:49 I took that color,

01:36:51 But then again,

01:36:53 I remembered that lipstick matters a lot,

01:36:55 For women,

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Good Morning Pakistan | Shafaat Ali | Rebecca Faryal | 15 November 2023 | ARY Digital

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