90 Day Fiancé_ Gino’s Family CONFRONTS Jasmine About Using Him
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00:00 I have a question.
00:02 How will you contribute and be a productive American?
00:06 Oh, I don't know how I feel about that question.
00:10 Gino's family confronts Jasmine with their concerns
00:13 about her possibly using him.
00:15 They are attacking me.
00:17 Right now, this is a personal attack.
00:20 Plus, we'll get into Jasmine's lip gloss meltdown.
00:23 You're a [BLEEP] shitter!
00:25 No, I'm not!
00:26 Yes, you are!
00:27 I never--
00:28 You [BLEEP] are!
00:29 That is pure reality TV gold.
00:32 That's not cheating!
00:33 Take me off!
00:35 Yeah, I'm dropping you off.
00:36 This is giving toddler and stressed out dad.
00:40 Let's get into it.
00:41 Hey, 90 Day Fans fam.
00:46 It's Malicia.
00:47 Before we get into Jasmine and Gino,
00:49 let me give you a quick update on Sophie and Rob.
00:53 Last episode, Sophie left Rob's house.
00:56 Where am I supposed to go?
00:57 I'm in this house.
00:58 I rented by myself.
00:59 After finding out he was sending inappropriate videos
01:02 to girls online, this week's episode
01:04 picks up with Rob fearful that Sophie is on a plane
01:08 headed back to London.
01:09 She sounds like she doesn't give a--
01:11 she don't [BLEEP] with me no more.
01:12 Like, she's-- she damn near done with me over this.
01:15 And the crazy part is, it's like, this conversation
01:18 that Sophie's [BLEEP] off with me about
01:21 is months old from before she-- her visa got accepted.
01:25 And I don't even know this girl.
01:27 Like, I literally don't know this girl.
01:28 So this is-- this to me is like--
01:31 is like free [BLEEP] from a random person.
01:33 Like, I don't care.
01:35 It seems like Rob is trying to downplay what he did
01:38 without realizing that what he's saying
01:41 is enough for Sophie to want to break up with him.
01:44 This conversation that-- that Sophie's [BLEEP]
01:47 off with me about is months old from before she--
01:51 her visa got accepted.
01:53 Where was the patience?
01:54 The self-control?
01:55 I don't even know this girl.
01:56 Like, I literally don't know this girl.
01:58 So this is-- this to me is like--
02:00 is like free [BLEEP] from a random person.
02:03 And you're sending videos of you pleasuring yourself
02:06 to a random girl you don't know?
02:08 That's the most concerning part of it all.
02:11 Why do random women get to see your package?
02:14 Who's the porn star here?
02:17 Aside from all of that, you're doing this
02:19 while you're in a relationship with a girl
02:21 who seems like she would have been willing to help
02:24 you get some relief.
02:25 No wonder he never asked me for sexual videos.
02:27 He's getting them from, like, I don't know how many girls.
02:29 There's just no excuse.
02:31 As Rob sits with the fact that the world will now
02:33 become aware of what he's done behind closed doors,
02:36 Sophie calls her mom, who already can't stand Rob,
02:40 to tell her what went down.
02:42 I checked his phone, and literally, I
02:44 found, like, the most disgusting videos in this phone.
02:50 The last message was 14 weeks ago.
02:52 Roughly 3 and 1/2 months.
02:55 You're welcome.
02:56 The last message was 14 weeks ago.
02:58 [GASPS]
02:59 Speaking of knobhead, Sophie's mom
03:14 is rocking these Xenon nuts.
03:16 Talk about a cool mom.
03:18 [MUSIC - THE KING, "MAKE MY HEART GO"]
03:20 What was his reaction when you told him?
03:22 Like, what did he say?
03:24 So I just told him, like, I know.
03:25 And he was like, what do you know?
03:26 And then I was like, explain what I saw.
03:29 And then he just started crying all the stuff.
03:31 It made it all about him, the stupid tears.
03:34 Forget about the crocodile tears.
03:36 I'm so glad Sophie has her mom.
03:38 She is the voice of reason she needs right now.
03:40 And she is the comedic relief for us.
03:42 You gave up your life for the last god knows how many years
03:46 to get a visa to be with him in America and get married.
03:48 Because he won't come to you.
03:50 It's the ultimate disrespect.
03:52 He can't do the bare minimum, which is, like, be loyal.
03:56 He's jobless.
03:57 He's boring.
03:57 [LAUGHTER]
03:59 He has no sympathy.
04:01 Now he's talking to dirty, nasty scouts
04:03 online just so that he can get his sausage to explode.
04:06 It's disgusting.
04:07 It's disgusting.
04:09 You can't be with this guy.
04:10 You cannot marry him, Soph.
04:11 Knowing her daughter, Sophie's mom can tell.
04:14 She's upset and hurt right now.
04:16 But she's not tired.
04:19 Sophie's not ready to let go just yet.
04:44 Sophie's mom is pissed.
04:46 I can't unsee that.
04:47 And I don't know.
04:49 Even if I was to give him a chance,
04:51 because obviously I have this night and day thing
04:52 and I'm supposed to marry him.
04:53 You can't have a relationship without trust.
04:55 Sophie's mom gives her space to be an adult
04:58 and make her own decision.
05:00 But she makes it clear what she thinks
05:03 is the smart thing to do.
05:04 If it was me telling you what I would like you to do,
05:08 is get on a plane and come to me, period.
05:10 Aw, that's her baby.
05:12 It's like, I don't know what to do.
05:14 Should I be strong and leave?
05:15 Which is going to take a lot of strength.
05:18 I'm not even going to act like that would be easy.
05:21 The best scenario is we can move past this
05:24 and I can be with Rob and we can be this great couple
05:26 that we've been trying so hard to be.
05:28 And then the other part of my brain is like,
05:31 and then he's just going to do it again
05:32 and you're going to be hurt again
05:33 and you should have left.
05:35 Yeah.
05:36 He's cheated twice now.
05:37 And that's what she knows of.
05:39 If they stay together, more than likely in the back of her head,
05:43 she's going to always wonder if he's secretly betraying her.
05:47 That's no fun.
05:48 Why be in a relationship that doesn't make you feel safe?
05:52 Then she doesn't even want kids and he does.
05:55 Isn't that the telltale sign that you're not compatible?
05:59 All right, let's move on.
06:01 Let's get into Jasmine who is anxiously getting dressed
06:04 at the top of the episode,
06:05 ahead of meeting Gino's family for the first time.
06:09 I don't feel in the mood.
06:11 I don't even know if I will ever feel in the mood to meet them.
06:15 Not the best attitude to have but honest.
06:21 As you can see, Jasmine has her little church dress on.
06:25 She's more covered up than usual.
06:27 They already have this idea that I'm a gold digger
06:30 and you know, so I want to look like super professional.
06:34 Okay, girl.
06:35 And yeah, Gino's family has not been shy about their doubts
06:39 when it comes to Jasmine's intentions.
06:41 I was just wanting to know like, could this be real?
06:45 I mean, really? You really love Gino?
06:48 She also thinks they don't respect her
06:50 because she's not American.
06:52 Your sister-in-law texted me about the date
06:57 that I can already not pick up for the wedding
07:00 because she's having a lovely vacation in Florida.
07:05 I haven't even stepped a foot into the United States
07:09 and I'm already receiving orders.
07:12 Fast forward, Gino and Jasmine are headed out of the house.
07:17 Beautiful creature. Wish me luck, Coco.
07:20 Do your doggie prayers for mommy.
07:23 Doggie prayers? That's cute.
07:26 Meanwhile, Coco is like, a new house?
07:29 I'm about to go explore.
07:31 Once they arrive at the restaurant,
07:33 Jasmine faces her first hurdle.
07:39 Walking in the cold, windy Michigan rain.
07:43 Are you cold? I'm so cold right now.
07:47 Me too, girl.
07:48 Jasmine says the weather is the best representation
07:51 of how she's feeling right now.
07:53 It's so gloomy. Everything is so dark.
07:55 And Gino tries to calm her down by telling her to just be herself.
08:00 Don't worry. Just be yourself.
08:02 Which is usually the best advice to give someone
08:05 in a situation like this.
08:07 But when it comes to Jasmine, I don't know.
08:10 And when I'm mad, I'm just like a volcano, you know,
08:15 and I say things that sometimes I don't mean it.
08:18 And I have always been like that.
08:20 And that's something that I really dislike about myself.
08:25 Yeah. Jasmine goes on to walk into the restaurant
08:28 with her head held high, literally, as she should.
08:32 And she admits that her biggest fear in this moment
08:35 is that Gino's family will talk him into not marrying her.
08:39 When I first arrived, the first impression that I'm getting
08:42 is that Gino's family seems happy to meet me.
08:45 They're all smiley, very joyful.
08:48 They are saying nice things.
08:50 Sunny!
08:53 They probably don't like each other the most.
08:55 It's like that sometimes when it comes to your family member's spouse.
08:58 Sometimes you have to act like you like them just to keep the peace.
09:02 Oh, it's going to be a lot of that behavior
09:05 on Thanksgiving.
09:07 Hey, girl, nice to see you.
09:09 But in the back of my head, I'm thinking,
09:12 you don't deserve my cousin.
09:13 And we all know that you're off the rails,
09:15 but I'm going to keep it cute, not say anything.
09:17 You look good, girl. I love your dress.
09:19 And keep it moving.
09:20 Clearly, I've experienced this feeling.
09:24 I'm not shocked that they're being nice to me
09:26 because the way I picture it is like
09:30 when an animal is trying to attract their prey,
09:33 they're trying to be like, look friendly and all that.
09:36 And they're just waiting for the moment to attack.
09:39 Well, they have their concerns, which are reasonable.
09:42 But as for now, it seems like they're focused on having a good time
09:46 and getting to know Jasmine.
09:47 A toast to Gino and Jasmine.
09:50 May they have love in their hearts and peace in their mind.
09:53 What does Uncle Marco say?
09:55 Chintani.
09:56 Chintani.
09:57 For a hundred years.
09:59 I love it.
10:02 Thank you.
10:04 If we continue like this, guys.
10:07 Smart move, Jasmine. Tap into your humor.
10:10 Let's play some bocce ball. You ready?
10:14 It's a fun, challenging and exciting game.
10:18 There you go. Nice shot.
10:19 I know.
10:22 Oh.
10:24 I am so shocked. Jasmine walks on the bocce ball court
10:27 and she's thrown like a champ.
10:29 I mean, she's killing it.
10:31 Go Jasmine.
10:32 She's killing it.
10:33 They all play bocce ball for a minute.
10:36 But once it's over, Gino's family's concerns start to come out.
10:40 We've never really met Jasmine.
10:42 We've only spoken to her just a little bit.
10:45 In ways they seem a little bit mixed matched.
10:48 Gino's not the best looking guy.
10:49 He doesn't have the most money.
10:51 We're just trying to figure out what's her real intent.
10:54 Yeah, and when we look on social media,
10:56 we saw a lot of provocative type things.
10:58 I guess we're a little bit concerned about why she's doing that.
11:02 Is she trying to get other sugar daddies, so to speak?
11:06 Y'all remember when Gino and Jasmine admitted
11:08 that they met on a sugar baby website?
11:10 So what site did you and Jasmine meet on?
11:16 So we met on, believe it or not, a sugar baby site.
11:25 Yeah, so once again, their concerns make sense.
11:28 Fast forward, Gino is with the boys
11:31 and he tells them something that turns things sour real quick.
11:37 I gave Jasmine like, like a quite a bit of some money, right?
11:43 To buy a wedding dress and she ended up spending the money.
11:48 I gave her for the wedding dress on like a cosmetic surgery.
11:52 I'm like, whoa.
11:54 I mean, I gave you that money for the wedding dress.
11:57 So how much money are we talking about, Gino?
12:00 Like $4,000.
12:02 As a loving fan of TLC's Say Yes to the Dress,
12:05 compared to the women on that show,
12:07 Gino gave Jasmine a pretty nice budget for her wedding gown.
12:11 You know, that's, you know, that's big red flag.
12:15 I think she's a great person, but I think you need to get her like,
12:18 and I don't mean like in line, you know, but she needs to like.
12:22 Get in line, not abuse his kindness.
12:25 Yeah. The biggest worry we have is that she's just coming here to use Gino.
12:31 Thank you guys. I'm so happy you showed up today.
12:33 It makes me happy. So that kind of gave us more red flags to kind of think about.
12:38 Like she's not grateful for the money she was given.
12:40 She's going to spend it on something else and hope that she gets more.
12:43 Once everyone sits down at the table,
12:45 Jasmine basically tells them they're not invited to the wedding.
12:49 So you guys, what are you guys thinking about for like the wedding venue
12:52 or in like when?
12:54 To be honest, I am not quite sure about having like a celebration for our wedding.
13:03 I would rather prefer just the wedding to be something more private,
13:08 you know, like maybe just Gino and I and my dog.
13:13 Gino's family is looking like, are you serious?
13:15 Jasmine says her family isn't going to be there.
13:18 So she thinks it's only fair that Gino's family isn't there either.
13:22 Kind of makes me feel upset because like she doesn't want to celebrate with us.
13:26 It's both of their weddings. So I think that Gino needs to chime in a little bit more.
13:31 And if that's any indication as to what's to come, there still are some concerns.
13:37 After Jasmine makes that announcement, Gino's family stops playing nice and they get real with her.
13:44 So, I mean, that's probably not just me,
13:46 but probably a lot of people in the family have big concerns.
13:49 Just like how grateful you are for everything Gino's really going to bring to you.
13:55 I understand your perspective, like me coming to the United States.
13:58 I should be grateful for that.
14:00 But the way I see it is that Gino should be grateful that I came to the United States
14:06 and I left everything I have ever loved, my family, my kids, amazing weather, you know.
14:13 Yeah, you sacrificed a lot.
14:16 Yeah. Good job, Gino. He knows if he didn't back her up, oh, it would have been hell to pay.
14:25 How will you contribute and be a productive American?
14:31 Yeah, he didn't hold back with that one.
14:35 I'm an educated woman. I speak two languages. I have worked since I am 16 years old.
14:41 And Jasmine answers by trying to prove herself.
14:45 I have always worked and right now, legally, with this kind of visa, I am not allowed to work.
14:54 They are attacking me. Right now, this is a personal attack.
14:58 It doesn't matter what I do. I will never be good enough for Gino's family.
15:03 And it is directed to the fact that I'm not American.
15:07 And they already put a label on me because of it.
15:10 Well, now that Jasmine feels attacked, that sweet, smiley side of her is gone.
15:16 She's calling people out.
15:17 I think it was you, Dana, like, suggested to Gino, like, a prenup, you know.
15:24 I took it as an offense.
15:26 When I got married to Lori, I signed one. Her dad wanted me to sign a prenup.
15:31 OK, so, Tony, why, why would you think that Gino would need a prenup if he married?
15:38 I think it would just be like a security blanket for him.
15:41 I know he's not rich, but protect what he worked so hard for.
15:44 Yeah, because he's worked so hard his whole life.
15:46 And then if you had bad intentions, you come in and you take everything he's worked his whole life for.
15:52 They're trying to talk reason into her, but Jasmine's too caught up in the emotions of it all.
15:58 We have to go. My dog is by himself.
16:01 Gino's family is probably thinking, you and this dog.
16:04 See you guys later. See ya.
16:06 Jasmine said, see ya.
16:09 OK, so they get in the car and what happens next is probably one of the most memorable reality TV moments I've ever seen.
16:22 My cell phone. It's a goner.
16:28 Jasmine drops her phone and finds lip gloss in Gino's car.
16:34 What is this? I have no idea what that is.
16:40 Is that yours? Who knows?
16:46 This is Gino's eye roll for me. What is this?
16:52 I don't know. Oh, you can tell Gino is starting to get nervous.
16:56 He goes from driving with one hand to holding onto the wheel for dear life with two.
17:01 What is this? I don't know.
17:07 Could be one of my co-workers or some other mother in my car.
17:12 Gino has really been trying to match Jasmine's energy with these arguments lately and I cannot take him serious.
17:19 Wait, wait, wait, wait, wait. You go out with co-workers.
17:22 Yes, I go out with co-workers. Yes. Is that a problem?
17:28 People, co-workers go out together for lunch once in a while for a work event.
17:32 You were dead in a different world.
17:35 Joe, 94, 66, says, imagine when she finds out it was her own lip gloss, the one she doesn't use that much.
17:43 So it doesn't look familiar. I wouldn't be surprised if it's not hers, though.
17:48 I know whoever left it was mad. That's a full bottle of lip gloss just gone.
17:53 You're always looking for something. No, I'm not looking for anything.
17:56 My cell phone just fell down and I see the lips and what I'm trying to get my cell phone.
18:02 You know how long I've had this car? Hello. For a long time.
18:07 Apparently, Gino doesn't like to wash his car.
18:10 I've had that car for like eight years.
18:13 Gino, you haven't cleaned your car in eight years.
18:15 I do not clean under the passenger seat.
18:20 Jasmine says she knows Gino's line because she's learned to read his body language.
18:25 And the way he's responding to me, I can tell he's guilty of or scared.
18:31 Now, I know a number of you think that he's gaslighting her and I don't put that past him.
18:36 Gino has done some sneaky things before that have shocked us all.
18:41 But in my opinion, in this moment, I don't think he's nervous because he's guilty.
18:47 I think he's nervous because he knows Jasmine is about to blow this all the way out of proportion.
18:53 Now, I'm not saying finding lip gloss in her man's car is not a reason to be upset.
18:59 I think it is. But we all know Jasmine's upset is extreme.
19:06 You're a c*****, you're a c***** person.
19:10 I just want to go home.
19:11 You're so ridiculous, sickening.
19:14 Although I will say Gino could let the tough guy act go and soften up on her at this moment.
19:20 I want to go home.
19:22 Just sickening. Can't believe it.
19:27 I want to go home.
19:31 You only found lip gloss under the seat and you have no idea why it was there or how it got there.
19:36 And you're screaming at the top of your lungs like there was a murder or something.
19:42 Holy s**t.
19:44 Anna Tyra says the extremes Jasmine goes through are really sad, like a kid who never learned to deal with their emotions.
19:52 She needs help.
19:54 You're a c***** shitter.
19:56 No, I'm not.
19:57 Yes, you are.
19:57 I never.
19:58 Yes, you f***** are.
19:59 That's not cheating.
20:00 Take me home.
20:02 Yeah, I'm dropping you off.
20:04 This moment right here reminds me of a toddler throwing a tantrum in their car seat.
20:10 And Gino as a parent is over it.
20:13 Take me home.
20:14 Yeah, I'm dropping you off.
20:16 F***** idiot, I'm going back to Panama.
20:19 I don't want to see you ever again.
20:21 Okay, go.
20:23 Was Gino about to call her out of her name?
20:25 Jennifer says the way she cries is hilarious.
20:31 It is.
20:32 She leans all the way in and I hate to laugh because I know she's so sad during these moments, but it's funny.
20:45 To Gino's point, you would think somebody died.
20:48 They pull over in a parking lot and Gino tells Jasmine he's going to get her an Uber and a hotel.
20:54 Yeah, okay.
20:55 That's fine.
20:56 Yeah, I didn't cheat on you or anything.
20:58 You're dead, Gino.
20:59 Did not.
20:59 You're dead.
21:04 Now, I don't get why she left her phone there in the rain.
21:08 Hopefully, Gino doesn't roll over it.
21:10 I don't want to go home.
21:16 I don't have my passport.
21:18 I don't have anything.
21:19 She's talking about she doesn't have her passport.
21:21 Is she trying to leave immediately?
21:23 I'm sure her passport is at Gino's house.
21:26 I don't have my passport.
21:28 I don't have anything.
21:30 I didn't bring any money because I don't have money.
21:33 The episode ends with Jasmine crying behind what looks to be a shopping mall.
21:39 That is one dramatic woman.
21:42 And I guess the fact that she misses home is making all of this worse.
21:47 Next week, it continues.
21:49 Please just buy me a ticket.
21:51 I want to go back to Panama, please.
21:53 I didn't cheat on you or anything.
21:55 You're dead.
21:55 I was never with any girl.
21:57 Why you reacting like that?
21:58 More nervous.
22:00 Maybe because he knew regardless of what he said, you were going to explode.
22:06 Take me off.
22:08 Yeah, I'm dropping you off.
22:11 They're going to make up.
22:12 They always do.
22:14 All right, 90 Day Fan Spam, make sure you stick with ET because we are covering it all.
22:18 I will see you next time.
22:19 [MUSIC PLAYING]
22:23 (upbeat music)